#冬日生活打卡季 #
Maybe these two years have really been very weak, but is it really all because of the epidemic? I've thought about it carefully, and it's not all. The epidemic has only accelerated the pace of my decline, and now that I think about it, people sometimes grow up as a last resort. When there is pressure, when you have no backing, when you have no backing, you will find that you are growing at a very fast speed.
Because all the pressure causes you to have to grow, in fact, growth is inevitable, early one day and one day later, you will become more mature and stable. Maybe you don't want to be that kind of person, you want to be a happy and happy person, always like a child. But we know that it is impossible, and we will definitely encounter such and such things in this lifetime.
In fact, is this pressure just emerging? It's not that he's always hidden in your life. In fact, there are many laws in ancient times or books that have said such a truth, like Murphy's law, like the barrel effect. Too many, too many to count.
A bad thing may attract a bad thing, a bad thing, and a chain of links may lead to a bad outcome.
Why should I use such a word? Isn't it time to use very beautiful words to describe enjoying life? So do you think it's a matter of course to enjoy life? What do you think it's like to enjoy life?
At the very least, I want to have a big study, a big garden, and preferably a big swimming pool, and of course it's best to be in Beijing. If you can't do this, you must have a study or musical instrument room. At least it was achieved when I was very young, and if I reached the age of eighty or ninety, was it a little old?
And if you want to achieve all this through your own efforts, it is actually quite difficult. Of course, if you have a high degree, a high IQ, and a job that pays millions a year, it is also relatively simple. When reading, you must read well, if some conditions do not allow, I also hope that you will pick up the books after you go to society.
Reading is really a way to change destiny, very good to walk, very simple. It is also the lowest cost method of changing fate, or he is the most serious way for rural children to come out. When you've been in society for a while, or many years later, you'll find that this is a truth.
I have a colleague who came out to work when he was seventeen or eighteen, and his relatives in Beijing's MuxiYuan in 20 years old do business. Also set up a shop for him, and you can think about how hot the business was in the 1990s. Even when he talks about the past many years, his two eyes are still shining and full of stars.
It was the expression of envy and remembrance of his own past self. He himself regretted why the money of that year was not invested, even if there was a property or a product that made money.
When he was in his 20s, he changed his girlfriend like drinking water, muxiyuan was originally around the city center, and the girls there were beautiful, of course, beautiful girls, and there was a commonality - very good at spending money.
In the city, we all know that there are many luxury goods, and there are tens of thousands of single goods. Even in those days there were tens of thousands of single goods, even if you cared about making money, if such a beautiful girl helped you spend money, could you still save money?
Maybe you will say that when you are young, you should live like this, and you can't waste time. Let me ask you: Is that how youth is squandered? Is your youth on the road to all kinds of play, all kinds of girlfriends, all kinds of spending money? Is that called youth? I think that's called wasted youth.
Now this colleague is also middle-aged, in his fifties. Still, eating, drinking and having fun every day, as for playing with women or not, we are not clear. The eldest sister-in-law is also the kind of person who especially loves beauty.
Dress yourself up every day, wear a mink every day, wear a high heel. Probably in his fifties, he looks really stylish and beautiful. But there really is no asset, and I don't know whether this attitude to life is good or not, but if it were me, I would never be like this.
In my opinion, this is the reckless enjoyment of life. As a result, I may still be able to earn a few years now, and I don't know how to live at the age of seventy or eighty. Spend all your money squandering and leave no assets at all. Many people who do business do not have five insurances and one gold, and advanced thinking may also buy a little social security, and many people do not recognize insurance.
I am really worried about their pension, some time ago the business was not particularly bad, I think it is difficult for them to pay tuition fees for children. I borrowed a circle with our sisters, and I actually felt very helpless about this kind of life.
Is that how they are now? Isn't it time to prepare when you're young? Isn't that the phrase that was popular on the Internet many years ago?
: I try to make money, not because I love money. It's what I hope. I don't shy away from my child before I need it. When my parents are old and sick, I don't fail to come up with money.
You work hard to make money, but you also have to manage your money, and there is a way to let the money continue, not let him waste it. You have to be the master of the money, not the slave to the money, let the money dominate you, and your life is a mess.
All your current situations are caused by your own decisions. Absolutely not, he already existed or complained about the world or complained about this era or the epidemic. These results have been displayed, but you don't know it. If you blindly enjoy life, you will naturally forget the ancient adage of thinking of danger in times of peace.
I'm going to take stock this morning. So now I'm on my way to work. You must arrive at the store before 9 o'clock this morning, and think about your shop also arriving at 9 o'clock. But it almost seems like I haven't arrived at the store on time for many years, and I don't leave early if I'm late!
Suddenly there was that anxiety, that very strong sense of urgency, when I went to work for someone. All the time should be on time, and you should go early. From the boss of many years to the clerk, and the smallest kind of clerk.
I don't know if this step may be right or wrong, but I told myself that no matter whether it is right or wrong, don't regret it. It's about finding material for writing, or you have to experience life, find some highlights of other careers and some detailed descriptions of characters.
Change an environment, change a dimension, it should be tourism. Writing requires a lot of material, either through professional experience or travel. In addition to finding ways to describe it from other people's books, we also have to experience it with our own hearts. Only if you have really done this thing, and I have really experienced it, you know how he feels.
The sense of urgency of squeezing the bus to work and getting up early hasn't felt in years. Because of the tight time, there was no time to argue with my eldest son. In fact, this is still very good for the overall life.
If you want to write a manuscript, you can write it whenever and wherever you want, and when you stand at the bus stop and wait for the bus, you can also write a 1,000-word word. You have to turn your manuscript into oral broadcasting, because voice input is really too fast and too convenient. One minute can really recognize five or six hundred words, 10 minutes if there is no typo, the mind can keep up, can recognize a 3000 ~ 5000 words. These are all ways to improve your efficiency!
But there is really no sense of ceremony, pick up the computer, pour up a cup of coffee, and write quietly there, which is called the sense of ceremony. But I don't think the environment in which I write is very important, looking at the comings and goings of vehicles, looking at the rising sun.
Holding a mobile phone to write a manuscript is also a self-evident joy. Maybe it's a joy you haven't felt, but to tell you a little secret, you must stay away from other people waiting for the car, otherwise you will think that you are neurotic. It's also scary to talk to a person on a cell phone, especially since I've been listening to psychoanalysis on the road lately.
There's a book called that I've kind of forgotten, but it probably means that in the Middle Ages, if you didn't like the person or wanted to get a star, you had enough power and wealth. You can collude with a psychiatric hospital to pay for him to be sent to a psychiatric hospital, and maybe this person will not be able to get out for the rest of his life.
Listening to it, I really think that people at that time were so sad, why did they teach us ideological character from a young age, so that we have good qualities and education? I'm afraid that one day you will become a billionaire, but you are a very poor quality person. If a bad guy rules the world, he will really destroy the world with his own money.
It turned out that the car in the morning was so crowded, and the gap between the cars was also so long, and it came out 5 minutes late, feeling that I was going to be late today. It was 8 o'clock in 4 minutes, but the car hadn't come yet. Every time I was in a hurry, I would tell myself: Practice the art of driving well.
People are always content with pleasure in this way, thinking that the technology is really good when they need it, and throwing it aside when they don't need it. This is exactly the same book as our reading, and when it is used, there is less hatred. All techniques are the same, only when he is usually trained solidly, can he be picked up and used in times of crisis or extreme speed.
Think of this urgent life and this helpless struggle now. It must be related to their own expansion period, if the business is very good at that time, people do not expand, down-to-earth, step by step slowly moving forward. It should not have led to such an embarrassing situation as it is now.
Now the only thing I have left is to be very young, full of strength and full of fighting spirit, and the personality of the person is very cheerful. If you fall, you will get up in the same place. It's the only thing I can promise myself and to the future.
Well, come on the future.
Thursday, November 25, 2021, the weather is sunny, Beijing Bus Station
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