Jude Law has a line in "Genius Ripley" that goes like this, he asks Matt Damon: "Everyone should have a specialty, what is your specialty"? Indeed, each of us should have special skills, otherwise it is as inconspicuous as the two or five hundred and eighty thousand in the mahjong pile, the ordinary people among ordinary people. In fact, what he meant by this was: Who are you and what value can you provide?
So, no matter what age you are in now, what class of society you are in, you may wish to ask yourself what your strengths are. Of course, high emotional intelligence, talking, and other people are comfortable with you (emotional value).