Ancient women, regardless of their noble origins, were completely in an attached position, and even in marriage matters, they could not be autonomous, which led to the saying of "marrying chickens with chickens, marrying dogs with dogs". For this reason, the women who were suspended by their husbands' families were simply worse off alive than dead. However, in the emperor's harem, even if he is not favored, he is only beaten into the cold palace, and he will not really be suspended. However, in the Qing Dynasty, there was such an empress, who remarried someone else after she was deposed and obtained her own happiness.
She was of the Borjigit clan, and because her family was a Mongolian nobleman with a particularly beautiful appearance, she became the first empress of Shunzhi when she married her. Although the two people were doll relatives when they were young, there was no contact, and the relationship with emperor Shun was particularly stiff. It turned out that she was from a prominent background, spoiled from an early age, and did not want other women to share her husband with herself, to put it bluntly, she was jealous.
You must know that there are too many women in the harem, and they all try their best to compete for favors in front of the emperor, and her style is naturally intolerable to the emperor. In addition, she has been extravagant since she was a child, and when she arrived in the palace, the conditions became better, and naturally continued to maintain this style, but these were just the opposite of Shunzhi, who liked simplicity, so the two often made a lot of unhappiness about it.
Although she entered the palace as the empress' honor, after all, she served the emperor of the Ninth Five-Year-Old, two young and vigorous young men and women, neither of whom refused to compromise, and the final result was that within two years, she was deposed by the emperor. In other dynasties, this kind of deposed empress usually suffered a particularly miserable situation, and could only live in the cold palace, but at that time, it was an exception for her.
Because the Qing army had not yet entered the customs at that time, although she was trying to learn the etiquette system of the Central Plains Dynasty, the change of concept was not a matter of time and a half, coupled with the mediation of her family through the empress dowager, she was finally able to return to the Mongolian steppe. But this is not the most surprising, because when she left the palace, she was actually pregnant, which made people wonder - if the emperor did not like her, why should he spoil her?
After returning to Mongolia, what she did was even more shocking. It turned out that her father was very powerful in Mongolia, and the locals did not take the person she had married seriously at all- even if the person she married was the emperor. Not long after, he found a very good husband for her and married her with gongs and drums.
In fact, this matter really had to be handled urgently, because at that time she was already pregnant with Liujia, and she would have to show her stuffing if she did not do marriage. It may be difficult for everyone to imagine, but the main reason why this matter can be successful is the local customs, and there are not too many rules and regulations like the Central Plains Dynasty, which makes her find her own happiness after being suspended, and the second half of her life is quite happy.