What should I do if I have a sticky baby at home?

They all say that their daughter is her parents' little cotton jacket and her father's lover in her previous life, which I really agree with! My daughter is very clingy to her father, not to me.

Every time I see me and her dad back from work, she can't help but call her dad, reach out and let her dad hug, and then turn her head sideways to kiss her dad, there is no follow-up behind, even look at me is not willing to look, it is simply to treat me as an "invisible person". I was a little lost and even jealous, thinking to myself, "How come this bear child is so unkind to me!" It seems that it hurt her in vain! "Seeing his dad go out in his shoes, she'll be in a hurry, screaming there!" Seeing that none of us took care of her, she kicked me with her legs and exerted all her strength to get her father to take her out with her to "fool around". If he saw his father still not holding her, she would cry and throw things around, hoping to get her father's attention by throwing a small tantrum, and then be able to join her father as she wished! Those sticky daddy scenes are vivid, let's take a look now!

Scenario 1: Every time Yuxuan wants to eat any snack, her father will let her do whatever she wants. For example: Yu Xuante loves to eat watermelon, Grandma Bao has eaten a lot of food for her during the day, and when she sees us eating watermelon at night, she will not resist the "temptation", and will watch the drooling on the side, her father saw the special pain, and said that it should be fine to eat a little more. Immediately, the watermelon seeds will be removed and put into small pieces and placed in the baby's bowl to feed her. But Yu Xuan was not at all at ease, asking her father to take a whole piece in his hand and feed her to eat, while eating and "squeezing her eyebrows and making eyes" with her father, it was simply a "eyebrow communication" between lovers! Her father wanted to eat what she had in his hand, and she would give it right away, and I coaxed her to give me something to eat, which was more difficult than ascending to heaven. Sometimes I meet her in a good mood, and I will occasionally "give generously"!

Scenario two: Every time she takes Yuxuan to the supermarket, she will only ask her father to hold it, and if her father wants to smoke, she can only avoid the need for me to have this "spare tire"! When she saw her dad smoking, she also had to reach for it, touching her nose with ash every time, because his dad pretended to be angry and said he wouldn't take her to the supermarket. When I arrived at the supermarket, I looked at the dazzling and colorful goods and danced happily! I wanted to replace his dad hug, and she just wouldn't! It seems that I can be my "hand-throwing treasurer" and have a good time!

Scenario three: Every time she bathes Yuxuan, she will want me, but when it comes to the important moment of getting dressed, she will only let her father help her change clothes, occasionally her father is on a business trip, I give her a bath is a very headache, that is crying snot and saliva is a mess, so I am really helpless!

Scenario 4: Every morning Yuxuan wakes up first thing is to "wake up" her father, see her father does not respond, will directly climb into her father's arms, and then slap with his hand or shout on the side. Her father looked at her sleepily and said, "Baby, how did you wake up like this?" Come on, sleep more! "After saying that, I took her into my arms, and she did what she did, and she had to get up." Her father was afraid that she would fall and said, "My little ancestor, I still obediently get up and take you out to play!" “

Yuxuan is such a small person who loves to stick to daddy, for the baby to love sticky people I later also summarized, it turns out that the baby after half a year old, the baby will enter the attachment period, forming a special attachment to the parents, especially at night the performance is more prominent. How to treat a sticky baby, you can do this:

1, do not meet the sticky baby, feel headaches, overwhelmed. Parents can change the baby step by step, and can divert the baby's attention through different ways, such as: you can use the baby's playful toys or snacks that he likes to eat or even nursery rhymes to divert attention.

2, you can let Grandma Bao or Grandma help with the belt, so that you can be more familiar with it and enhance your feelings. Even if the mother or father has something or work, it will not be impossible to leave because the baby is clingy. At the beginning, I looked for Grandma Bao or Grandma to bring, but it didn't mean that I could be a hand-throwing treasurer, and I couldn't ask anything. As parents, we should use all available time to accompany our children and play with them more, which can increase the baby's sense of security.

3, usually give the baby enough love and companionship. You can give your baby more hugs, kisses and touches, and even talk to your baby often, even if she doesn't know much, but your baby understands. So I personally think that careful companionship is the best love to give!

4, to create an independent environment and atmosphere for the baby, so that the baby can be independent. If the baby is used to playing with familiar people from a young age, and is not willing to play with the raw person, then the baby will be very clingy. Parents can cultivate the baby's independent personality from an early age, such as allowing the baby to drink milk from the bottle, play with toys by himself, and eat by himself.

5, to take the baby out to meet the world, make more playmates, so that the child will not go to the strange environment, will feel uneasy, and will not be so clingy.

5, new mothers in the encounter with such a situation, do not shrink back, do not escape, to have enough confidence to face difficulties, believe that everything will be solved.

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