Whether we admit it or not, there are always all kinds of people in this world.
Some talents are in their early twenties and have already entered marriage, and some people have never been in love even if they are thirty years old.
In all those years, I have always been just a person, and I have never started with anyone, let alone had too intimate behavior with anyone.
Not young or single, the number of loves is zero, in the impression of many people, unconsciously, they will feel that such a person must have something wrong, such as a strange personality, too introverted, physical defects, poor conditions or something.
However, after the real contact, we will find that people who are single in the mother's fetus may not be abnormal.
There are also those with more cheerful personalities, very good appearance, and better conditions.
They really don't have any big problems, they're not different from most people, but they just haven't been in love in the past years.
I regard love as less, and like to follow fate.
When a person values feelings and feels that they should get married at a certain age, then it is not easy for him to remain.
You will always look for the right person, and once you meet, you will quickly take the initiative to make each other have a possibility.
People feel that what is important, they will be willing to spend more energy on it, and when a person spends a lot of energy to chase love, even if sometimes it is not successful, there will always be a time when it happens to be with a person.
Love is a big thing in life, but unfortunately, not everyone will be very enthusiastic about it.
There are also some people, although their hearts will also be more eager to have a love, marry and have children with each other, have ordinary happiness, but for him, love, he does not feel, it must be necessary.
All along, he has looked at his feelings very lightly, some people like himself, he is not easy to give a response, will always be slow and half a beat, he likes a person, he always does not know to fight, it will only be very Buddhist.
With the opposite sex, rather than who must be caught, he will always have a small problem, and then tell himself to forget.
His feelings are always light, never too warm, and he always likes to tell himself, just follow the fate, don't have to be too demanding.
Lazy, prefer to immerse yourself in your own world.
As the saying goes, looking for an object, the object needs to be found by yourself, but not everyone is willing to find it.
Especially a single person who is single in the mother's womb, it can be said that in his world, there are few opposite sexes at all, and there is no suitable candidate, even so, whenever someone calls him out, he is still not willing to go at all.
On weekdays, he prefers to stay at home than to eat, drink, and play with others.
Just a person who stays at home silently, doing something he likes, or even if he doesn't do anything, he doesn't feel anything, he just enjoys that little day.
I can't say why, anyway, I am too lazy to go out, too lazy to know anyone, and too lazy to maintain a relationship.
Sometimes I feel that this is not good, and I have the idea of wanting to change, but most of the time, I am too lazy to change.
Occasionally, he would worry that if he went on like this, he would become more and more lonely, and the days in the future would become more and more deserted, but between thoughts, he did not want to think about it so much first, and he just wanted to live quietly like this first.
Even if he is alone, he rarely feels how terrible it is, but just feels that a person is still very good, he can do whatever he wants, and he lives a special freedom and a special freedom.
Get used to it, it's hard to break this kind of life.
In the face of unfamiliar environments and new ways of life, everyone is the same and will need to adapt.
Adapt to a place, you will not want to change easily, think that this is very good, adapt to a life, will form inertia, do not want to let their behavior patterns easily change, they also have to re-run.
It is precisely because of this that people around them, all of a sudden return to single, will feel very awkward, will take some time to be able to ease up, a person who has been single, when so many years are a person, will have long liked such a life.
It's really not easy to get him to come out and live a different life and accept another person.
Most of the time, he did not think about breaking his comfort zone, even if he sometimes thought, simply try it, it is easy to choose to give up, because he feels from the bottom of his heart, this is not bad, can not find the motivation to change.
Change, that is never an easy thing, it requires courage, courage, and adjustment of yourself.
However, people who do not feel pain and do not really realize that they are not good will not put it into action.
Therefore, year after year, I just keep repeating my life, trapping myself in the same place, unable to go out by myself, and unable to walk in by others.
People who are single in the mother's womb are really not strange people.
It is even said that they may have a more correct view than anyone else, a normal heart than anyone else, and take care of their lives better than anyone else.
They are not bad, but they have less contact with the opposite sex and have no experience in love.
When we meet such a person, if we like it, we may as well be patient and guide each other more.
If we can open each other's hearts and make the other party willing to come to our side, we will find that the other party may be a treasure, and will be more serious than anyone, and more pure than anyone.
There's nothing wrong with making yourself the first love person for the other person.
If after falling in love, you can still go all the way to the end, it will be a very beautiful thing.
Text/Tan Meng
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