In the matter of finding a partner, today's young people do not seem to be in much of a hurry.
Even if you are not young and do not even have a target object around you, you will not take it too seriously at all.
Anyway, while feeling that you should hurry up to talk about a relationship, say goodbye to singleness, and on the other hand, there is no action at all, rather than taking the initiative to know some of the opposite sex, you will often only live in your own small world.
In this way, saying goodbye to singleness, of course, will only be particularly difficult.
It is precisely because of this that the introduction of the object, to some extent, is still quite common.
Originally, there are always some people who hope that the young people around them can say goodbye to singleness and form a family, and there are always some people who will be anxious for young people and give themselves to the young men and women they know.
And when one day, if someone really introduces you to someone, no matter what, you better not be too pretentious and be grateful.
Even if it is very inappropriate, it is worth thanking.
Indeed, when it comes to the introduction of the object, many people introduce the opposite sex, which may not be appropriate.
Not only are the conditions not at all compatible at all, it is even possible that all aspects are very different, it is completely opposite, the two people have no match, and there is no possibility.
In such a situation, you will feel very unhappy, and even feel that the other party deliberately did so, which is inevitable. However, even if this is the case, you don't have to be too grumpy about the person who introduced you to the person.
Understand that when someone introduces you to someone, it may also be just a piece of good intentions and not think so much.
People and people, that is not the same after all, you think the introduction of the object, should be you know each other enough, feel that it is indeed appropriate so to introduce, but for some people, they only care that you are just single, want you to try.
It's not necessarily that someone else wants to embarrass you, it's just a different perception.
Therefore, no matter when someone introduces you to an object, even if it is not appropriate, you do not have to feel that the other party deliberately targeted you, and began to hate the introducer, just and kindly, thank others for their introduction, but also express their own meaning.
If someone thinks you are too picky and says something sarcastic about this, you should just ignore it.
If you succeed, you should express your gratitude.
Between men and women, if they can come together through free love without being introduced, this is of course very beautiful.
However, after walking out of school, limited by the circle, this is really not easy.
In reality, many people can get married smoothly, in fact, they rely on blind dates and others' introductions.
Blind date, the probability of success, some times may really not be too high, but there are also some times, maybe just once, or after several times, it really succeeds.
When one day, through others to introduce you to the object, you meet people who are in love with each other, feel very good about each other, really open a relationship with each other, and even enter a marriage, while rejoicing in each other's encounter, you must also remember your introducer.
Although you can have a later acquaintance and love, it is because of your mutual efforts, and you all know how to cherish, but you can know each other, in the end, it is because of others' connections.
Therefore, after marriage, for the introducer, you may wish to say some words of thanks, and you can also appropriately use money to express your gratitude.
Between people, nothing is taken for granted, even if the other party does not ask for any return, as a person, you should still have a grateful heart, to do what you should do, as far as possible.
Don't blame yourself for not having a good time in the future.
There are some people who are very interesting, happy when they first met, happy when they married each other, and once one day is not good, they do not reflect on themselves, but they will blame all this on the person who introduced them.
I think it is because of the introduction of people, each other will know each other, they will become so unfortunate.
You may even feel that when you first introduce someone to yourself, you are looking forward to this day.
People who think like this, to be honest, really shouldn't, after all, understand each other, really choose each other to become the other half, and finally live with each other, that is themselves.
No matter who you are with, there will always be contradictions, and there will be a possibility that you will not be able to go on.
Even if one day, you and the other party can only go their separate ways, the other party has done something sorry for you, you should actually remember that the introducer was for your own good, it was you who didn't know people clearly, and you didn't run it well.
In fact, you know, the introducer has long since withdrawn between you, everything is your own problem.
No matter when, in the relationship, everyone should keep a lucidity, no matter what happens in the end, you don't actually have to blame all the responsibility on the introducer, adults, who are making their own decisions, but also know how to be responsible for their own behavior.
Single people, if you really don't have any channels to find the other half and accept blind dates, there is nothing wrong with that.
It's just that when someone introduces you, you really don't have to have too much inner drama.
Just calm down, be more rational, and go to understand first.
As for understanding, if you feel it is appropriate, then come and go, feel that it is inappropriate, just refuse.
Suitable or inappropriate, you don't have to be angry with the introducer, just remember the kindness of others.
In addition, even if you have met several times, you still have not met the right one, you do not have to be discouraged, you began to think that through this way, you can not meet a good person, you just have a normal mind, and keep trying.
Good love, that takes a little time, but also needs a little patience, even if the previous is not right, as long as you don't give up, there will always be a time, everything is right, you will just meet a mutual feel good.
Text/Tan Meng
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