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Women are very sensitive in love, and what they care about most is often not those so-called romances and surprises, but some details of men's daily lives, and some inadvertent warmth.
If men don't love a woman so much, two people together, and they just pretend to love deeply, women can quickly observe these deliberate manifestations of men as long as they keep their sanity.
The sensitivity of women is what Balzac said: "A woman who is really in love is more suspicious than having fun and changing tastes."
Once she was abandoned, she could guess the meaning of a pose, and even the horse smelled the breath of stimulating love in the spring air, not so fast. ”
In love, men want to show their intentions, not by pretending, but by relying on their own involuntary, naturally manifested behavior.
Especially in getting along, in fact, there is no need to deliberately do something for women, as long as the man is truly in love with this woman, he will definitely let the love in his heart be revealed in some details, so that he can be perceived by women and feel this warmth.
Shiqibachev also said: "Love should know how to cherish, and cherish it more with the years." Love is not idle under the bright moon, nor is it sighing on the bench. ”
If a man truly loves a woman, he will naturally cherish this fate and cherish the time together.
Even if they are sometimes very busy, they will not forget the deep love in their hearts, and naturally they will not ignore these details, which is also a proof that a man loves a woman to the extreme.
01 Will not forget to care about you, care about your life.
For men, as long as they have a person in mind, even if they are busy, they will not forget this worry.
When they are busy, they will also take a few minutes to care about women and care about women's living conditions. Knowing that women are in a good state, men will work harder and work hard for each other's future.
Some people may question, since men are so busy, why should women care about these details?
Love has a magic power, and since we are in love, it is not something we can give up if we want to.
Good love is not a stumbling block to work and study, but will become our motivation, let us continue to work hard, make ourselves better.
As long as a man loves a woman deeply, he naturally has a way to balance his work and life. And the motivation given to him by women will make many things easier and more efficient.
What women want is not that men take a lot of time to accompany her, but in the case that men are very busy, they still will not neglect to care for her, which is the performance of men who love a woman to the extreme.
02 When a woman takes the initiative to contact him, he will not directly say "I am busy" or "no time", but will patiently explain to the woman what he is busy with and how long he will be busy.
Voltaire said: "The noble element of love is no less than the element of tenderness, the power to make people upward is no less than the power to make people wither, and sometimes it can inspire other virtues." ”
Men who love a woman deeply will certainly treat women tenderly and patiently, and no matter what the situation, men will not ignore this.
Because he doesn't want to be with a woman, he will make women sad and disappointed because of himself.
We often feel that when men are very busy, women should be sensible and empathetic, don't always think about the so-called love, and have been pestering men.
However, for women, these truths are also very clear, but they only think that if men are very busy, they will not ignore them, which is what love should look like, in order to feel the warmth of this love.
A man who has love in his heart will naturally not ignore this.
Even if they are busy, when women take the initiative to ask, they will not impatiently say to women such things as "I am busy" or "not available", but will take a few minutes to explain to women, so that women can really understand their difficulties. This is the performance of a man who loves a woman to the extreme.
03 Even if you are busy, you will notice changes in women's mood.
Emerson said: "In the end, love is a reflection of a person's self-worth in others. ”
If a woman is deeply loved by a man, she can naturally feel her own value in this man and feel that men care about themselves.
When men really care about a woman, they pay attention to everything about women. Many things, even if women don't say, men can observe and feel for themselves.
Especially when getting along, men will want women to be happy and happy, and naturally they will always pay attention to changes in women's emotions.
When a woman is happy, the man's heart will also feel very sweet. If the woman is unhappy, even when the mood is very low, the man can feel it at the first time.
Such concern does not happen to men in a very idle situation.
Truly loving a woman, even if the man is busy, will pay attention to the change in the woman's mood. The tone of the woman, the woman's behavior, is actually a hint to the man.
The busier a man is, the less he will ignore the woman's emotional changes, which is the best embodiment of love to the extreme.
Molière also said: "If you don't harm lovesickness, happiness will not be your share." Drive love out of life, and you drive out joy. Smooth love, in fact, is tasteless. ”
Women know that when a man is cold and impatient with you, stop using him as an excuse that he is busy. Men who truly love you, no matter how busy they are, will not ignore your feelings and will not forget to care about you.
To know how much a man loves you, it depends on whether he ignores these details.