Carson McCullers once said, "Love is a common experience that occurs between two people." ”
In life, it is not difficult to find that two people who can come together often have a lot of common topics and common interests, two people have something to say and do together, and those who have no common language and can't speak together can't become lovers, and even friends are difficult to do.
In fact, a lot of feelings are generated through chat and communication, maybe at first you don't have any good feelings for a person, but through chatting, you feel that this person is more and more attractive, and you also began to like her. So, men should know that if they want to capture a woman's heart, then talk to her about these 4 topics!
1. Things she's interested in
She likes to read books you talk to her about playing ball, she likes to dance you talk to her about playing games, you completely ignore women's hobbies, only talk about the things you are interested in, then you not only can't catch a woman's heart, but also let a woman's heart get farther and farther away from you, and women may not even bother to reply to your messages in the future.
Since it is a chat between two people, you can't just consider the feelings of one person, those things you think are particularly interesting, but women feel bored, completely uninterested. When a man and a woman chat, they must know how to do what they like, and talk to the woman more about the things she likes, so that the woman will find it very interesting to chat with you, and the woman will slowly like you.
2. Topics that make her happy
She tells you that she did something wrong, was criticized by her superiors, and the first thing you did was not to comfort her, but to tell her a bunch of big truths. She tells you that you accidentally lost something, and instead of comforting her, you're teaching her to put it away next time. Everyone is already an adult, and everyone understands that women chatting with you want to get your comfort, not to listen to you talk about the big truth.
So when a man chats with a woman, he should try to talk about some topics that can make her happy, don't always know that she will be unhappy when she listens, but you still insist on saying it, and even in the name of being good for her, this is actually the most annoying behavior for women. Many times women want your understanding, so a man must take care of her mood when chatting with a woman and talk more about topics that can make her happy.
3. Planning for the future
Women prefer men with mature minds, if you still only want to eat and drink all day long, count the day, have no plan for the future, and chat with women about some very immature topics, then women's impression of you will only get worse and worse.
Men don't always talk to women about things that have passed, those things, good or bad, are already over, the important thing is to focus on the future. So when men chat, they should talk more with women about future planning, let women know that you are a thoughtful, have a chance, you are not messing around, but trying to live every day.
4, talk about emotions, let her understand your view of emotions
In fact, women are very emotional, men may pay more attention to career, and feelings account for a high proportion of women's world, so when it comes to emotional topics, women are often more interested.
In the process of getting along with women, men can talk more about their views on feelings, let her understand your emotional view, and your attitude to feelings, etc. Two people often have feelings after continuously talking about emotional topics, which is a natural thing.
A few simple words can actually reflect a person's thoughts. If you're not very good at talking, you can choose to talk less instead of talking to women all day about something that lowers your impression.
Don't think that you chat with women, the more you talk about yourself, the better, so that you can make women have feelings for themselves, but it is not. Feelings are actually a kind of communication within thoughts, don't let women think that you are a thoughtless person.
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