If you really love children, 3 things must be given early, and none of them can be less

As a parent, teach children not to love their children with enthusiasm alone, coddling is just a sugar-coated injury, and it is difficult for children who grow up in coddling to have a chance in the future.

If you really love your children, parents must give their children 3 things, which are related to the future of their children, and parents must give even if they are frugal.

1. Companionship

We all know the importance of accompanying the child's growth, but forced by the pressure of life, the time left for the child every day is so little, so that the child is not close to himself, sometimes want to talk to him about the heart, but do not know how to open, can only secretly feel guilty in the heart of the lack of the child's growth.

But true companionship is not measured in terms of time, but in terms of "quality". As long as we can achieve high-quality companionship, we can also make children our closest partners.

The famous writer Long Yingtai once said: "Parents, like food, have a time limit, but food can be bought when it expires, but the child's growth is only once, and there is no second." I believe that every parent does not want to miss the growth of their children, so please give your children real companionship!

Don't think that being with your child is companionship, put down your mobile phone, throw away your troubles at work, forget the trivialities of life, get along with your children with your heart, and believe that we as parents will gain a lot.

2. Vision

A person's vision determines his life pattern, and the vision you give to your child is the boundary of his future life. Children who see more of the world, think all-encompassing, have wild ideas, have more awe and exploration of everything, and will have more advantages in the fierce competition.

So, now, it's not too late... Take your kids to see the world.

A person's vision determines his life pattern, let the children experience it without restraint! Great rivers and mountains, flexible nature, expand the breadth of ideas in beautiful illustrations, feel the aesthetic beauty of art in play.....

3. Assume responsibility

As the child grows up over time, we can give the child more responsibility:

Sweep floors, take out garbage, wipe tables.

Let the child understand that it is his responsibility for mom and dad to work hard, and it is also his responsibility to read.

Encourage children to bravely take responsibility, independently complete the tasks assigned by parents and teachers, and do every small and big thing well from beginning to end. If you make a mistake, you must also dare to take responsibility.

Teaching children to take responsibility is the last lazy parent should steal.

Finally, I would like to say, what can benefit a child for a lifetime? It must not be a rich material property, but a spiritual wealth, an idea and concept of how to live and how to base on society for children.