Author: Yu Orange
At the end of the movie, Li Baoli, as a single mother, doing the dirtiest and most tiring work, after cultivating her son into a talent, her son turned his face and no longer recognized Li Baoli, and even asked for the family's real estate certificate, since then, Li Baoli's ending is destined to be sad, she has no place to live, no relatives to rely on, who does not know what kind of life she should have in the future?
In fact, I really feel very distressed, heartache Li Baoli such a woman, she is not a bad woman, when her husband is alive, Although Li Baoli often scolds and grins in her mouth, but the family she has been well managed, and after her husband died, in order to pick up the burden of the family, she resolutely chose the dirtiest and most tired "pick flat burden", the wind and the sun 'wind and rain' for decades of time, and finally took good care of her son's in-laws, but so paid, her son and mother-in-law remember, but only her rudeness and badness, This makes people feel particularly sad every time they think about it.
Marrying for the sake of profit is bound to be a tragedy
Accepting the good brought by marriage, but not accepting the bad brought by marriage, this is what this man of Ma Xuewu did. Ma Xuewu did not like Li Baoli from the beginning, and the union of their marriage was a combination of interests.
Ma Xuewu was a countryman, an intellectual of that era, and although Li Baoli was a city person, she did live in the city at the bottom of society and had no culture, while Ma Xuewu chose Li Baoli to be able to gain a better foothold in the city, and Li Baoli chose Ma Xuewu because Ma Xuewu's title of intellectual could find a good job and support his family in that era.
The combination of their marriage made them feel that they should have a backer between each other, but they didn't know that the days were long and thin, and as time went on, Ma Xuewu couldn't stand Li Baoli's domineering and tough, and even more couldn't stand Li Baoli's mouth that often made him lose face, and Li Baoli, who was grinning a lot, did not realize this, and still went his own way.
In the end, Ma Xuewu really betrayed the marriage, and Li Baoli resolutely chose to call the police on the night he found Ma Xuewu's betrayal, and in the end, Ma Xuewu not only lost face, but also lost the opportunity for promotion, after knowing that the person who reported him was his wife Li Baoli, Ma Xuewu chose to end his life.
Ma Xuewu can choose to accept Li Baoli, whom he does not love, in order to get a better future, but he has no way to accept Li Baoli's rude and bad aspects, obviously he can slowly teach Li Baoli and let Li Baoli also make appropriate changes, but he does not say anything, does nothing, and thus forces Li Baoli to go crazy.
So this unloading and killing of donkeys, is Ma Xuewu the culprit?
When Li Baoli was needed, when he was directly married and achieved his goal of promotion and wealth, he wanted to kick Li Baoli away, and poor Li Baoli lost her life to pay for Ma Xuewu.
It seems that the honest man Ma Xuewu, and the humble woman Li Baoli are the most unsuitable to become husband and wife, because in fact, their three views are not at all compatible, each with their own thoughts to get married, and finally Ma Xuewu's dream of becoming rich was in vain, and finally lost his life, and Li Baoli used the second half of her own life to support her son and mother-in-law, but in the end did not end up with a good ending, this marriage, they all lost, lost a mess.
Li Baoli, who lost in emotional control, was the most pitiful
I also wrote in my previous film reviews that I felt that Li Baoli had lost in her mouth, in controlling her emotions. However, time has changed, and I have a deeper understanding of controlling emotions.
After Li Baoli found that her husband betrayed herself, she could not control her emotions, and it was very excusable to directly choose to call the police, because Li Baoli was such a person, she had not read books, what happened in her life, what thoughts and dissatisfaction she had, she would all express it. She didn't know what it was like to hide.
And if the real Li Baoli can be patient and solve this matter in other ways when her husband betrays herself, in fact, she is not Li Baoli, she may have a good life with Ma Xuewu, but the personalities of the two of them are different, so it is difficult for them to be together.
It is precisely because Li Baoli was a very ordinary woman of that era that her approach can be understood. After her hard work, she found that her husband betrayed herself, and when she was ready to rush into the room with a fire extinguisher, she directly chose to call the police, which showed that it was the best way she could think of at that time, and Li Baoli did not spill on the street, which was already very good.
When encountering such a thing, even if many intellectual women are now, they may not be so calm at that time, let alone Li Baoli, who is not literate?
Therefore, I think that li Baoli, the humble woman, is the most pitiful, and her husband is the most hateful. Because he personally pulled Li Baoli into his life, and then he ignored it and wanted to kick out without mercy, Li Baoli is the stepping stone on his life road, he doesn't care, he cares, only himself, his ungratefulness is what Li Baoli can't learn. At least after Ma Xuewu's death, Li Baoli's diligent and earnest efforts to raise her family have proved that Li Baoli, a humble woman, is much better than Ma Xuewu.
Human nature cannot be tested, and women still have to be kind to themselves
Li Baoli dedicated her life, and in the end, she was exchanged for Ma Xuewu's disgust, her mother-in-law's guidance, and her son's use.
The mother-son relationship between Li Baoli's son Ma Xiaobao and Li Baoli has always been bad, and after Ma Xuewu's death, Ma Xuewu's mother, that is, Li Baoli's mother-in-law, did not act as a moderator of their mother-daughter relationship, but more provoked the feelings of their mother and daughter. She took Li Baoli's decades of picking up flat burdens in the wind and rain to earn money to support her family, she could not afford to earn money herself, and lived carefree with Li Baoli's money, but let Li Baoli earn more money, go home less, and drink less to communicate with her son, so that Ma Xiaobao did not know what kind of life her mother lived in order to provoke a worry-free life for him.
After Ma Xiaobao was admitted to college, the first thing Ma Xiaobao did was to ask Li Baoli to transfer the house to him, and then he blew Li Baoli out of the house, and such ideas and practices are estimated to be indispensable to Li Baoli's mother-in-law.
When there is no ability and economy, Li Baoli is still more or less ignored, and when she is admitted to college to prepare for fame, kicking away her mother who has contributed for decades, is this use more shameful than Li Baoli's humble woman's character?
Human nature can not be tested, women should still be kind to themselves, in fact, in Ma Xuewu, Ma Xiaobao, Ma Xuewu mother, Li Baoli, the best person is actually Li Baoli, although she has no culture, although she speaks loudly, although she loves to be careful, but she is not ashamed of anyone, but other people have been ashamed of her.
Human nature cannot be tempted, so women should still be kind to themselves, because if the whole world does not hurt you, at least you can't live up to yourself.
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