Every child is a little angel, in the process of parenting, what can parents do to make their children grow up healthier? When it comes to the word "inferiority", I think everyone is familiar with it, especially in the process of children's growth, such a situation will happen more or less. And the inferiority mentality will also affect the child's self-confidence, if the child appears the following signs, indicating that they are moving closer to "inferiority", parents should understand early, early intervention.
Xiao Li said that his son is almost four years old this year, but he is timid and afraid of life, and the guests who usually come to the family can only hide behind the adults to let their sons say hello, he either does not say a word, or he turns his head and runs, hiding in the room and not coming out. Originally, I thought that this situation was because my son had less contact with people, so he was shy. But after entering the kindergarten, the son is very afraid of life and never plays with children, while other children will refuse if they want to play with his toys and do not participate in the children's play.
My son used to play in the community, and if a child wanted to play with him and touched him, his son cried. Xiao Li said that in such a situation, his son was almost sad to die. Every time I saw my son like this, I couldn't help but argue with him. But in this case, the worse the effect, the more he is afraid of contact with people.
In fact, this situation of the son of the Xiao Li family is mainly due to the child's personality is too introverted, and the main reason for introversion is lack of self-confidence and inferiority. In this way, compared with small partners of the same age, it seems a little incongruous. And if the child has low self-esteem in the heart, it will inevitably cause harm to the psychology, so what are the ways in which the child's inferiority is manifested, parents should understand.
There are several ways in which children show inferiority, do parents know?
Excessive pursuit of praise
Some children love to show too much in life, in fact, this is not how cheerful the child's personality is, but because the child is extremely insecure and too eager to be recognized by others. Therefore, do everything as hard as you can, and then share the results with joy, and this performance of trying to sell yourself is actually a manifestation of the child's inferiority, using the praise of others to fill the inferiority heart.
Overly introverted and doesn't like to make friends
Suppose that children are introverted at a young age in life, and do not like to play with children of the same age. At that time, parents should pay attention to it, because this excessive introversion and shyness of the character, not the child is young, do not like to play, but the child's inner fear of socialization, there is a great rejection of socialization, which is also the child's excessive uneasiness and fear because of inferiority.
Strong jealousy
Everyone has jealousy, but if there is a strong jealousy at a young age, it is very abnormal. So, at their innocent age, they can enjoy the good, share the joy, share the success. And jealousy of this dark emotion should not appear prematurely in the child's world. However, if the child has this emotion, it is likely that the parents are too demanding of the child in the usual education and do not agree with it. Therefore, children have low self-esteem in their hearts and encounter people who are better than themselves, and the psychology of jealousy will be at work.
When parents face their children's inferiority complex, what can they do to let their children open their hearts and be a happy child?
Don't set goals for your child too much
Every parent wants their child to become a person, so in life, whether it is learning or interest cultivation, they will set high goals for their children. If the child can't do it, the parents will turn on the grumpy mode and blame the child. Such an education method will not only not improve the child's ability, but also make the child have an inferiority complex. Parents should give their children proper planning, and learn to praise their children and recognize their efforts, only then will their children be more motivated and better.
Parents should learn psychological compensation
Every child has a side that he is good at, parents should learn to make up for it psychologically, have a pair of eyes, promote their strengths and avoid weaknesses in education, do not always stare at the shortcomings of their children, find the advantages of children, and then cultivate them. And strengthen the child's advantages, will make the child psychologically satisfied, full of self-confidence, and taste the taste of success, the child will work harder and harder, become more and more excellent.
Give your child full of love and banish the dark side
Every child has a more or less injured side, perhaps caused by the parents' carelessness in education. In fact, any kind of harm can be repaired, as long as parents know how to review themselves, and then use more love to impress their children. I believe that some harm will also be smoothed out, parents are also people, people will also make mistakes, as long as they know that mistakes can be changed, I believe that children will also understand, in the heart will also resolve their own troubles and troubles.
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