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Hello everyone, I'm Themi's mother~
There is a joke called: "Bao Dad with the baby, just live."
In recent years, Bao Dad's proportion of work with babies has become higher and higher, and at the same time, various jokes have been made.
No, a recent incident has made people laugh.
01. Bao Dad took the baby for 1 hour, and he couldn't stop the child from collapsing and crying
In the past two days, a video of Bao Dad and Baby Collapsing and Crying in Xinyang, Henan Province, has aroused heated discussion among everyone, which makes people sympathize and can't help but be funny.
It turned out that Bao Mom needed to go out for a while because of something, so the heavy responsibility of taking the baby naturally fell on Bao Dad's head, but what people didn't expect was that from the moment Bao Mom went out, the baby cried non-stop.
Watching his baby crying non-stop, Bao Dad did everything in his power to no avail, and he was also very distressed, so he also cried.
In addition, Bao Dad also carried out a "serial urge to kill his wife" to let Bao Mom come back quickly to take care of the child.
Seeing this matter, it really makes people want to cry without tears, a seven-foot man, actually cried by the child helplessly, and the reason for this, perhaps as many netizens said, with too little baby.
In fact, if the father can actively participate in the process of taking care of the child, then there are many benefits and benefits for the family.
02. What are the benefits of bao dad with a baby for the family?
At present, both WHO and some professional authorities for children are strongly appealing to Bao Dad to participate in the process of caring for the baby.
In fact, the reason for this is because bao dad with a baby, for a family, there are many benefits.
First of all, the baby father with the baby can promote the relationship between husband and wife.
Before many men imagined the matter of taking a baby too simple, it was generally believed that stay-at-home mothers were an easy profession, but in fact, when men personally experienced it, they found out how difficult it was to take a baby.
Then through this process, Bao Dad can fully experience the difficulty of Bao Mom, so that deep down in his heart, he will more recognize his mother's dedication to the family, so that he can be more distressed about his wife, which has a great role in promoting the feelings of husband and wife.
Secondly, Bao Dad takes the baby, and the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law is better.
There have been some good people who have conducted relevant research on the impact of the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law on the father-in-law and the baby.
The results of the study show that in the family where the father participates in the baby, the probability of the contradiction between the mother-in-law and the daughter-in-law is lower, and the relationship between the husband and wife is more harmonious.
We often say that home and everything is happy, so in this regard, bao dad with baby, but also contribute to the prosperity of a family.
So, if that's the case, why not?
03. What are the benefits of a baby with a baby for the child?
In addition to the many benefits for the family, for the children, the baby father personally brought out, is also different.
First, the baby brought out by Bao Dad is more adaptable to the environment.
Psychological studies have shown that children who are often with their fathers show better adaptive function for the environment and less likely to have problem behaviors.
This is because some of the activities carried out by bao dads when they get along with their children are more conducive to promoting their children's positive and healthy attitudes and psychology, which will make it easier to cultivate their children's strong, brave and confident qualities, and can help children improve their social interaction and social integration ability to the greatest extent.
Second, the baby brought out by The baby father is more independent.
In the process of taking the baby, Bao Dad always adopts a free-range attitude, but this parenting style has great benefits.
Psychologist Gerdy once said: Father is a unique existence, has a special power to cultivate children.
Moreover, Harvard University once did a study that showed that the more time a father spends with his child, the stronger the child's independence.
This is because although this free-range style is obviously very incompetent, in this parenting environment, children have more opportunities to try and experience for themselves, so that children develop the habit of doing their own things.
Third, the baby brought out by Bao Dad is more creative.
Psychologist Piaget said: Childhood is a critical period of children's cognitive development, and play is their daily activity and the best way to educate children.
If the father takes the baby, their way of thinking and behavior is very different from that of the mother, which can better broaden the child's thinking and stimulate the child's imagination and creativity from different angles.
Therefore, from the above points, bao dad with baby, in fact, there are many benefits.
Mother Themi's message:
In fact, in a family, the best way to bring a baby is for both husband and wife to bear it together, only in this way can each other feel how difficult it is for each other, and can they have empathy through practice and facts.
In addition, husband and wife bring the baby together, share with each other, can give the child a full range of love, including wei an brave father's love, but also gentle and delicate maternal love, only in this way, the child can grow up healthy and strong.