As the saying goes, improper parents do not know the grace of their parents, but they must know the grace of their parents and hold their children and grandchildren in their arms.
Many fathers believe that their wives are not as tired as they are when they are at home every day, and the credit is greater than that of their own outcrops. As a result, many husbands will put their wives on the face when they return home, thinking that they are the heroes of this family.
As everyone knows, when the roles are changed, the husbands can truly understand that it is not easy for wives to take care of their children.
On January 14, when a father from Xinyang, Henan Province, was at home with his child, he was crushed by the cries of the children, and he cried and cried: Daughter-in-law, when are you coming back? I was so sad that my baby had been crying for an hour.
According to insiders, the mother went out that day, and she asked her husband to help take care of the children at home. The husband readily agreed, he carefully found the diapers, milk powder, bottles, trembling at the baby, afraid that he would have something wrong.
But many times it backfires, and the more you worry about things, the more they will happen. Just as the husband let his guard down, put the baby on the couch, and went to make coffee himself to refresh, an accident occurred, and the baby slid off the couch and cried.
After hearing the sound, the father quickly ran over to pick up the baby and coaxed him up, but no matter how much he tried, it still didn't help, and the baby cried more and more, until he broke down and cried out: The heart hurts and dies, he has been crying for an hour, and he has not stopped.
After this funny scene was posted on the Internet, it attracted onlookers and heated discussions among netizens.
A netizen said that your mentality, originally the child did not cry are scared to cry, after this experience, you know the importance of the wife.
Many husbands think that it is easy for their wives to watch their children at home, and only when they really change roles can husbands understand that it is not easy for their wives and change their self-righteous and condescending attitudes.
Another netizen said that since having a child, the time of day is not her own, and her mother has completely lost her personal freedom.
The author believes that the home is maintained and operated by both husband and wife. As a wife, we must understand the hard work of her husband outside the home and constantly give him spiritual comfort. As a husband, you should understand the bitterness and pain of your wife with children at home, and often give encouragement and praise.
Children are the crystallization of the love of husband and wife, and the bond of family happiness. When it comes to bringing children, both parties should be involved. If the husband could find time to help his wife with the child after work, I believe there would be no situation like the man in this incident: he did not coax the child for an hour.
As the saying goes, a glimpse of the whole leopard, looking at the dripping water can know the sea. Through the husband's behavior, we can conclude that he should rarely take children at home, so he does not know how to coax the children and make the children stop crying.
Of course, it is also possible that the wife usually does not give her husband the opportunity to bring children at all, for fear that he will not be able to bring it well, so she always carries it alone.
Between husband and wife, there is nothing wrong with performing their duties, but for the growth and companionship of children, I hope that both parties will not be absent. You know, time flies, the years are like shuttles, children will grow up in the blink of an eye, and then you want to participate in their growth, it will be too late.