"Maybe years from now, you'll forget that man's countenance, those joys and sorrows. However, a person's breath can never be forgotten. ”
Yeah, love is such a thing, how sweet it is when we are together, how painful it is when we are apart. So, many people are together, very sweet when in love, and especially painful when they break up.
As a person who has had emotional experiences, I can also feel that these sweet things have turned into painful processes.
Indeed, it's really painful to want to forget about someone.
In particular, the kind of people who, when they were young, because of their lack of ability, fell in love but could not be together. When I had enough of my ability, I found that the person I once loved the most did not belong to me anymore.
So you start complaining, why is God torturing you like this? Why can't two people like this go to the end?
It wasn't until later that you understood that the real fate was that there was no distinction between you and that you were talking about people like you. However, your fate has been nailed down, and there is no way for the two of you to go back to the past.
In desperation, you figured this out and planned to start forgetting about him.
But just when you plan to forget him, you find that you have been unwilling to give up this love. I forgot it by all means, but that memory just lingered.
You begin to suffer, and even for a long time in the future, you say that you have found the object, and you have never jumped away from his figure.
In fact, if you can't forget it, a person will not be heartbroken when he does this.
You can try to see him again, facing the lover now, how to love him. When you see that scene is warm, I admit that your heart will be very painful.
That violent tearing sensation can even hurt you, and there is no way to accept it all. But as soon as you go through this process, you see that the love doesn't belong to you.
Your heart will be like ashes, and you will begin to face all this calmly.
Later, you finally understand that you and his past are just a little bit of each other's lives.
Maybe it's the pain that makes it clear that you can't go on like this. Helplessly, you silently cut off all contact with him, ending your unforgettable love.
Years later, you may become calm at first when you hear that kind of love from a friend's mouth. Like your love, the clouds blow lightly like the wind.
Until a certain month of a certain year, when you met him on the street where you had dated many times. Only then do you realize that your heart is like the water on the surface of the lake, without waves.
Even if there is another gust of wind, there will be no sparkling side.
At this time, you have figured out that the so-called love is just like this. It's just that for the beauty of the past, you may be a little unwilling and a little difficult to accept.
But the two of you, there is really no possibility of being together again. So instead of making both people so miserable, it is better to calmly let go and choose a new life.
Can't put down a person, you can try to see his current lover, see how he loves the person in front of him, the kind of heart-rending pain that will make you have the urge to forget.
Then, all his connections, all his memories that belong to you, are all removed, and at this time, you will clearly feel that it is so simple to let go of a person.
After letting go, you meet the person who really really loves himself again through your own changes, and after seeing all his love for you, you can completely understand that when a person really loves you, his eyes are full of you.
This kind of love is the love you pursue; such a person is also the person who will accompany you from green silk to whitehead.
However, in this process, you may need to improve your ability to ensure that you are fully prepared before you meet that person who is really yours.
If you're not quite ready, then please don't worry. Ning Que is not indiscriminate, this sentence you must be clear, if you always feel that there is no suitable, just meet one.
Then the love you encounter later will definitely be like him, going through the waves, and finally the two people parted ways.
Therefore, in order to make your way forward no longer like that, you must empty all your love and accept a new person, so that the love behind you can go on with you.