Many people say that their children are timid and cowardly, but they don't know that this is caused by their parents' own problems, but absolutely most parents do not recognize their own problems.
They attribute the child's timidity and cowardice to the child's own reasons, which is a very wrong perception.
If you want to improve your child's courage, it is actually not difficult, mainly to do the following 2 points.
Respect is a prerequisite
In traditional culture, parents are authoritative, so many parents always have a lofty posture, criticizing their children at every turn, even if it is a small mistake of the child, it is a harsh or harsh loud rebuke, even in front of many people, do not save face for the child.
Originally, children are timid, so that children will be more reluctant to speak in their hearts, and their courage will be smaller.
Therefore, parents should have a respectful mindset.
Do not overly criticize, but establish equal communication channels to give them full respect.
Let go when it's time to let go
As a parent, the most important thing is to properly "shut up" and not speak.
The so-called non-talk is to let go and let the child try it for himself.
Some parents, the child fell, the parents rushed to help;
Some parents, children go to climb trees, play climbing, parents rush to stop;
This is actually the release of children's self-nature, they are exploring nature, but also the tempering of their own exercise.
Therefore, parents should let their children exercise and get character growth through their own exploration.
Therefore, as long as parents do the above 2 points, they can make their children bold.
In addition, parents should also take their children to the outdoors to carry out some adventure activities, and gradually adapt their children to nature and society through the way of companionship, so that children will gain a sense of security through the company of parents, gradually establish their own ability, and the courage will naturally be greater.
Therefore, if the child has a problem, parents should first reflect on themselves, rather than blaming the child.