Parents should learn to be their children's mirrors, which is an important educational method - mirror reflection
Today, I will share with you an effective specular reflection method. Think of a baby who can finally climb today, how happy he is! I turned my head to my mother, eager to get her attention. As a result, my mother did not seem to see his thoughts, and he would be particularly disappointed, and even doubt her existence in her mother's eyes.
And if the mother sees the baby's movements, the same joy will appear on her face, and she will excitedly say: "The baby grows up, the baby will climb, awesome!" "He'll think he's so cute and capable. In fact, it is to give encouragement to the child's growth.
The best thing we can do for the sake of our child's success is to be a mirror of our child as before, to describe what he does truthfully and objectively, to be in tune with his emotions, to express our feelings and gratitude, and to avoid using the language of judgment. Because the mirror is not decorated and marked. Let's take a look at the following scenario.
What should I say about the right way to praise? The child said, Mom, I got a math 99, the highest score in the class. Mom said, it sounds like you are very satisfied with this result, and mom is happy for you. 99 points higher than last time. Can you tell Dad how you did it?
Message: The mother sympathizes with the child and leaves the right to evaluate and attribute to the child himself, so the child will learn to evaluate and affirm himself. When a child can affirm himself and believe in himself from the heart, he will be brave enough to be himself, and will not shrink back and escape.