The achievement of young people does not mean that a person can go smoothly and smoothly in life, life is actually a choice interspersed with another choice test.
For this sentence, Zhong Jiaxin's long-standing competitor yang Siqi in TVB can best understand the meaning.
Zhong Jiaxin worked hard in TVB for many years, and finally fought for the position of a sister, and if it were not for the wrong choice in life, this position may be the pocket of Yang Siqi, the champion of the 2001 Hong Kong sisters.
After all, when Zhong Jiaxin entered the show business circle, there were still people who disputed her appearance, and Yang Siqi won the championship with six awards when she first appeared, and became the most awarded Hong Kong sister champion in history.
The starting point is high, whether it is in the filming or in vanity fair is on the list, everyone knows that the rich are partial to the beauty pageant Hong Kong sister, especially the Hong Kong sister champion is particularly preferential.
And Yang Siqi, the champion of Hong Kong sisters, has lived a life in everyone's ridicule.
1. Grassroots Hong Kong sister's counterattack road
Yang Siqi has just participated in the early days of the "Hong Kong Sister" competition, and he is not optimistic.
First of all, she is not highly educated, only has a college degree, has no study abroad experience, and has no beautiful resume to make her eye-catching.
Secondly, she lives in a remote village, which is a well-known poor area, and even if she is poor, her uncle still likes to borrow money, owes a lot of debts, and has a bad reputation.
However, Hong Kong Sister's campaign has made ordinary people like Yang Siqi famous overnight, not only recognized as the most photogenic and popular, but also won the praise of the most slender and beautiful legs and the sweetest smile.
The media gave her a nickname "House Village Hong Kong Sister", full of irony, Hong Kong Sister on the Hong Kong Sister to add two words to the house village, banging gongs and drums to remind everyone that Yang Siqi came from a humble background and wanted to get rid of class imprisonment through the Hong Kong Sister campaign.
Yang Siqi, who was originally from a bitter cold background, did not respond to such a report, because the opportunity was not easy to come by, no matter when she treated the camera with a smile on her face, she did not express any dissatisfaction, she swallowed all the grievances herself, and there was actually a heart that did not admit defeat under her smile.
Because she had a good mentality, was well-behaved and obedient, and was willing to endure hardships, TVB also had the heart to cultivate her at that time, when TVB was ready to shoot a "Nameless Angel 3D", and the script was compared to an international blockbuster.
The actress found she Shiman and Guo Xianni, who were just red, both of whom already had famous works at that time, but Yang Siqi was not as hot as them.
But it has become one of the main actors of this drama, the character and role are not worse than the two popular actors, when the three people promote the film together, the jewelry carried by Yang Siqi is actually the most expensive among the sponsors.
Clear-eyed people can see that the company attaches great importance to Yang Siqi and gives the best resources.
Later, he cooperated with Huang Zongze in "A Thousand Lies and Hundreds of Tricks" and was praised by everyone for his acting skills in "Breakout Action".
She has her own comprehension, the company is heavy, and its future is bright, but because of the successive wrong choices in several stages of her life, her life has always been the laughing stock of others.
Whether girls are beautiful or not, whether they are strong or not, they must learn to choose their own life path. See more, listen more, learn more, analyze more, no one is born with anything.
Having an analytical mind and sharp judgment is better than listening to the wrong guidance of others and regretting it for a lifetime.
2. Fall in love with an ordinary man for 9 years, and the other party does not want to get married and have children
In 2003, Yang Siqi had just debuted in the second year. During the filming of "Blood Recommendation", she accidentally fell off a horse and was injured.
Li Yonghao, an actor with the crew, immediately carried Yang Siqi to the hospital. During his hospitalization, Li Yonghao cared deeply for this beautiful woman, and Yang Siqi, who had been cold-eyed since childhood, had just come out of society and suffered all kinds of criticism from the media, and was very grateful for Li Yonghao's kindness. Slowly from gratitude to touch, I accepted the other's pursuit.
And this Li Yonghao is not a rich child, Li Yonghao's father is also an actor, with the convenience of his father, Li Yonghao has been filming since he was a child, but he has not been able to make a splash, which is the evergreen leaves in the film.
At that time, Yang Siqi, whether it was income or fame, was much better than Li Yonghao. However, Yang Siqi, who was moved to the head, had no scruples, and even thought that he had found true love, and he poured out his heart and lungs for Li Yonghao.
In order to repay Li Yonghao's life-saving grace, Yang Siqi took the initiative to move into Li Yonghao's home, not only took the initiative to repay the mortgage for the other party, but also treated Li Yonghao's parents with all their hearts and minds, and lived with Li Yonghao's brother.
For Li Yonghao, not only earned a domestic maid but also earned a money-making machine, Yang Siqi was smiling and patient in order to make money outside, even if he was oiled, just to make more money and subsidize the family.
Yang Siqi made a lot of money, but he didn't invest much in himself. Even Xiong Dailin can afford to buy a luxury car for himself, yang Siqi only drives a Japanese car of 100,000 yuan; in addition to wearing luxury goods provided by sponsors, Yang Siqi usually never buys more than 2,000 clothes, and all the money is used to pay for loans and households.
Li Yonghao, who only has a salary of 10,000 yuan per month, is addicted to racing and is very willing to spend money for hobbies. Sometimes, Yang Siqi also has to help Li Yonghao pay off his credit card bills.
TVB invested so much money in Yang Siqi, not to let her raise a small white face, and after this love was announced to the world, Yang Siqi's popularity dropped a lot in an instant. The company advised Yang Siqi to focus on his career and break up or turn into an underground love, but Yang Siqi did not listen to the advice.
In the end, TVB could only give up investment to hide her.
For the sake of love, Yang Siqi even gave up the opportunity to make money, but year after year, his wish to marry and have children with Joy and Li Yonghao was disappointed again and again.
In 2011, Yang Siqi suddenly unilaterally announced the breakup, and Li Yonghao cried and accepted an interview, saying: "I was already planning a wedding, and I didn't expect Yang Siqi to be pregnant with someone else's child."
The two families began to tear each other apart, telling each other about each other's badness, but the truth is that Yang Siqi has not yet broken up with Li Yonghao, and she cheated on her pregnancy.
The image plummeted, Yang Siqi did so much is nothing more than because she is 33 years old, her boyfriend has been unwilling to give birth, heartbroken, she met former diver Wu Shuai under the introduction of her mother, it is said that doing business in the mainland is very expensive.
At the behest of her mother, Yang Siqi began to contact Wu Shuai, and only when she found out that she was pregnant did she make up her mind to break up with her ex-boyfriend.
This ugly incident made Yang Siqi shout and beat everyone, in order to escape public opinion, Yang Siqi also deliberately fled to the United States to install a fetus.
Yang Siqi's cheating has a direct relationship with her mother, on the one hand, her mother has felt that Li Yonghao has not appeared for many years, and her daughter has no vision and will only be affected, on the other hand, Li Yonghao has been unwilling to marry and have children, and also makes Yang Siqi's mother and daughter think that this man just wants to eat the woman's home and does not want to be responsible.
I jumped out of the grassroots class to change my fate, but I didn't expect that because of the traditional ideological constraints in my bones, I took the initiative to go to the man's house to do all the things that a daughter-in-law should do, so that men feel that they don't need to get married and already have everything.
When it was cut off, it was not cut off in time, and the breakup of its own reasonableness became a derailment of its own loss.
One wrong choice after another made the days that had gone smoothly up and down.
Women must have a backbone and reason, even if they love a person, they can't love themselves enough to become each other's servants, otherwise no matter how much money they make, they will subsidize others.
3. The road of feelings is all scumbags, only they earn money to raise babies
I thought that marrying into a rich family could enjoy Qingfu without work from then on, and as a result, since the revelation of the relationship with Wu Shuai, the media began to deeply pick up Wu Shuai, so that Yang Siqi clearly realized that he had just left the quagmire and entered the tiger's den.
Although Wu Shuai was a former diving team member and also opened a cram school to make money on his own, because he was addicted to gambling, he often borrowed money from others and had no money to pay off debts, which led to the defendant going to court.
The identity of the rich man is fake, even the single is also fake, Wu Shuai already has a fiancée in the mainland, and when he is with Yang Siqi, he also steps on two boats.
Angry, Yang Siqi and Wu Shuai were cut off and raised their daughters alone.
Yang Siqi put down her face and begged TVB executives to give her another chance, and she must be obedient and do her best to make money for the company this time.
Since then, she has held several positions, as long as she has a job is not too bitter or too tired, she does everything on the platform, and once did beer promotion activities and was ridiculed by the media for falling into "selling alcohol at night".
Last year, Yang Siqi gave birth to a son, but the father disappeared the whole time, even Yang Siqi had a car accident, did not see the son's father to visit her, three times and twice only Yang Siqi alone with the child, let everyone think that Yang Siqi was just abandoned by people, and refused to admit it.
Now she is alone with a pair of children, in addition to taking care of the family is desperately trying to make money, the starting point is very high but does not live a leisurely life, everywhere become the laughing stock of others. However, she herself does not mind the opinions of others, buries her head in work, desperately saves money, and now has 3 properties with more than 10 million under her name.
Whether others laugh or not, Yang Siqi's mistakes have become irreparable, and he can only work hard to make money to live his life.
If it were not for the love of the wrong person according to her earning power, she would have already experienced a happy life with a face and money. Because of the successive emotional failures, she was disappointed in love, and since then she has made up her mind to raise her children only by her own ability.
It is good that women have the ability to make money, but also to enrich their minds, do not follow the crowd, the elders think that the correct concept of marriage and love, not necessarily applicable to today's society. Learning to recognize people, helping their own career and family, and blindly investing in the wrong feelings will only make them physically and mentally exhausted.
Author | Yu Bing graduated from Beijing Normal University majoring in finance, has been engaged in the financial industry, and then transferred to the media industry for 3 years, a domestic and foreign film and television analysis researcher, good at thinking about life from watching dramas, as well as exploring realistic emotional values from the current situation of women's existence at home and abroad, deeply inspiring many women to marry and self-improvement.