I am a mother, the baby is about to be two years old, from the confinement is my own belt, until the age of one and a half years, and then my mother came to help me with it, I started to work. At first I thought that the baby would not adapt, the unexpected thing is that the baby adapted very well, I went to work, most of them are still sleeping, waking up and not making trouble, following my mother during the day, even if sometimes he gets up early when I go out, as long as I don't have to face him, I will find that I am not still talking to my grandmother about my mother's work, and even occasionally I can say goodbye to me. Nearly a month before the New Year this year, my mother wanted to go back to her hometown in advance, although I had a lot of reluctance in my heart, but I still sent my mother and baby back to my hometown in advance. After returning to my hometown, my mother and I feedback that the baby has been very well-behaved, others asked him where his mother went, he said that his mother went to work, even the habit of sleeping late was corrected, he slept around nine o'clock, and it used to be around 11 o'clock when I was around. I was relieved to hear my mom say this. Before the New Year, I used the weekend to see him once, and then I waited until the New Year holiday, and the seven days of the New Year's holiday had a special fun with the baby. We went back to the city together in the sixth grade, and we started working in the seventh grade, and then the nightmare came, and every day I cried when I went out. I used to get up late in the morning, and now around seven o'clock as long as I have a little movement (in the past I used to get up around seven o'clock), I immediately cried and made a fuss about finding my mother, I accompanied him to continue to sleep, two hands grabbed me, took his hand off and woke up immediately, and then cried, and then stopped sleeping, saw me take the bag and immediately dragged my bag and cried that my mother did not go to work, and my father went to work by himself. Every day is in his crying and leaving, at first I thought that everyone would play crazy with him for a few days in the New Year, but now it is almost a month or so, and even more intense, although my mother said that every time I leave after crying for two or three minutes, I will not cry, and then I am very obedient all day, but my heart is still very sour. My husband and I both think that it was because of the month before the New Year left mom and dad caused, let him be wrong because as long as the mother left him for a long time can not see, so do not let the mother leave, that month of separation makes him insecure, he is very obedient because he can not find the object of the child, and my mother swore that because the time to leave us is short, let him stay back to his hometown for two months, but never look for his father and mother (of course, it is his grandson, from birth is her belt, and it is a baby who eats milk powder, She also slept with her at night, and at that time she often took her grandson back to her hometown and never looked for her parents). There is still half a month to go to the Qingming Festival, my mother wants to take the baby back to her hometown, and then let us go to pick up the Dragon Boat Festival (mid-June), to be honest, I do not want her to bring the baby back, I am afraid that the situation will be more serious after coming back, but from my mother's point of view, there are three elderly people in the family who need to take care of it from time to time (my grandparents and grandmothers are eighty or ninety years old, and their health is not good), and she is more free in the countryside. I feel that my mother's appeal is also very reasonable, so now I am very entangled, I don't know whether to let her take the baby back to her hometown, nor is it very clear whether the baby's current separation anxiety is caused by the separation of the month before, and I am really afraid that the situation will be more serious after he takes it back.
