The age of 3 is exactly the time when the child's first rebellious period, and many mothers will be angry with the children at this time. All kinds of disobedience, all kinds of bad things, all kinds of. At this time, Bao Mom will give education and let the child correct various bad habits in time. But for some habits, the mother should turn a blind eye, and don't have to interfere with the child too much, or even hit the child.
3-year-old girls often do this kind of thing, and when their mother sees them once, the doctor says that they are wrong.
Xiaomei's daughter is 3 years old this year, usually brought by herself, and she is quite obedient, which basically rarely makes Xiaomei angry. That is, sometimes the daughter is bored at home alone without a playmate, and the toy is played over and over again. And one night when she was going to sleep, Xiaomei helped her daughter change her pajamas as usual, and then let her daughter sleep after telling the story. Not long after, when Xiaomei entered the room to get something, she saw her daughter half-curled, her legs clamped tightly, and her face was red. Xiaomei directly hit her daughter and shouted what she was doing and how she didn't sleep. After the daughter was startled, she immediately hid in the bed and slept.
Afterwards, the more Xiaomei thought about it, the more she felt that something was wrong, so she secretly had to observe whether her daughter usually did this. Sure enough, two days later, Xiaomei found that her daughter had clamped her legs several times. Xiaomei was angry to see one fight at a time. After finding that her daughter's bad habit could not be changed, Xiaomei was very worried. Finally, I told my husband that my husband said that it was not the child who had any disease. So Xiaomei and his wife took the child to the hospital.
After Xiaomei told the doctor about her daughter's situation, the doctor said: You hit the wrong child, and this is not a disease, but called "leg clamping syndrome". For the child to appear in this situation later, do not scold and force the child to stop. Instead, something else (such as a toy) should be used to attract your child's attention. Slowly, the child must dilute this habit, and it will not be after the child grows up. Xiaomei and his wife listened to the doctor's words before they were relieved, thinking that they would pay close attention to their daughter in the future.
Seeing this, some people don't quite understand what "leg clamping syndrome" is? This "leg clamp syndrome" is a kind of generalized compression of the external genitalia in the child's subconscious, which is actually the child's curiosity about his own body, just like the boy likes to scratch and play with his own "chicken cock". This is an instinctive physiological reaction that occurs when the child is 1 to 5 years old, and generally disappears after the child is 10 years old.
So why do some children behave this way? The reasons for this are as follows.
1, parents have too much stimulation of the child's thighs or perineal area, such as washing too often during the bath.
2. Itching due to vulvar eczema, pinworm disease, or friction caused by pants too tight.
3, the sympathetic feeling caused by calcium deficiency in children is enhanced by stress.
4, because of some bad information and stimulate the child, but the child can not understand the information.