The "two-child" policy is open, and the answers to the question of whether to have a second child are also diverse. New ideas in the new era, there is no longer a trend of son preference, many people choose to have a child in order to reduce the pressure of life and save time.
In fact, many parents prefer their daughter's well-behaved and sensible after getting rid of the idea of son preference, so many families choose to have only one daughter.
What happened to a family that had only one daughter?
What will life be like for couples who have only one daughter in 25 years? Some of the heartache no one complained about
Many parents said that the pressure of contemporary life is too great, they are busy at work, and they like their daughters very much, because they are well-behaved and obedient.
Therefore, when I was young, I gave birth to only one daughter. But after that, the heartache has nowhere to say, why is it?
In fact, the family only had one daughter, and when I was a child, I was fine, but when I grew up, various contradictions occurred frequently. As time passes, the parents grow older, and the daughter will one day leave her parents.
When the daughter leaves her parents, the parents are getting older, and who will take care of the parents has become the first problem to be solved.
Some people say that parents can be sent to a nursing home, but where is the condition of a nursing home comparable to having a family company?
In addition, the daughter is far away from marriage, the parents are not around, and the parents do not know whether the daughter is doing well or not. When the daughter is bullied, the parents cannot come out in time to support the daughter.
Parents and elders want to be with their children, but the phenomenon of daughters marrying away and empty nesters is increasing, which is also poignant.
Therefore, it is inevitable that families who only have one daughter will have unspeakable heartache. Therefore, it is recommended that after the opening of the family planning policy, parents should try to have a second child as much as possible, so that the child will not be too lonely in the process of growing up.
After getting married in the future, the children themselves can also take care of each other, and parents do not have to worry too much.
What should parents pay attention to when it comes to girls' education?
1. Pay attention to the psychological education of girls
For girls, girls and boys are not educated in the same way, girls are psychologically fragile, and emotional changes fluctuate greatly.
In fact, many people think that they are girls, so the education method for girls is much gentler than boys, it is precisely because many parents know that girls' psychological vulnerability, so the education of girls is more relaxed, so girls' psychology is more fragile.
Parents should pay attention to the psychological changes of girls, many girls can't figure it out, so parents should always teach girls to be independent and strong. Do your own thing and develop a good habit of independence from an early age.
2. Pay attention to correcting the three views of girls
The three-way problem is still very important for a girl. Everyone has a heart for beauty, and it is natural for girls to love beauty. This has been proven since childhood.
Girls like to wear beautiful clothes, so many girls are easy to compare, in the clothes and appearance of the comparison, a lot of jealousy and other incorrect psychology is derived from this.
Parents must put more thought into the education of their girls. Parents should start from themselves, lead by example, and cultivate their children's correct outlook on life and values.
From an early age, pay attention to the cultivation of children's outlook on life. Teach children to be kind and responsible people from an early age. These educations, in the child's later growth, will give the child a big extra point.
3, give the child more affirmation
In the process of growing up, the encouragement and affirmation of parents is essential. In the process of children's growth, especially small children, parents should adopt the method of encouragement and praise.
In this way, many children always look a little more confident than other children when they grow up. According to the survey, the probability of self-confident people succeeding in doing things is 83%, while the probability of people with low self-esteem doing things is 37%.
In fact, from this data, we can see how important self-confidence is for a person. In the process of growing up, the encouragement and praise of parents and the affirmation of children are very important.