From a young age, Qiao Zhiyong and Jiang Xueying, who were relatives and relatives, originally thought that the marriage between the two was a natural thing, but everything was unpredictable, and the rise and fall of the family directly led to the fate of the two changing at a node, and all this was impossible for personal preferences to be willful when it was related to the life and death of the general direction.
Jiang Xueying is a poor person, and she has always thought that she is the one who has been abandoned and failed, she regards herself as a victim, after Qiao Zhiyong resisted in every way and helplessly married Lu Yuhan, the eldest lady of the Lu family arranged for him by his sister-in-law, in Qiao Zhiyong's heart, why did he not think that he was also the victim who was at the mercy of fate and was unable to choose his own life.
However, the mission of the family and the survival of the ancestral inheritance, no matter when they are placed in front of the fate of the individual, are a matter of no choice, and can only give up small profits to achieve great righteousness.
The TV series made Jiang Xueying quite rational and understanding, but in the original work, Jiang Xueying's performance was a bit crazy.
<h1 class="pgc-h-arrow-right" data-track="5" > love can not be, everything is difficult, this is the world</h1>
As a large family, Qiao Zhiyong grew up under the protection of his brother and sister-in-law, never indulged in the business world and officialdom, and only wanted to get away from the world and live a life of children and children with Jiang Xueying.
But the kind of shrewdness and the boldness of the merchant family that Qiao Zhiyong showed was in his bones, and perhaps it was the mission entrusted to him by heaven. The decline of the Qiao family and the sudden death of the eldest brother forced him to take control of the overall situation, inherit the family business, and do everything possible to save the efforts of the Qiao family's ancestors in the most dangerous time.
Fortunately, the eldest sister-in-law Cao Shi came up with the fastest and most effective way to re-inject funds, marriage. It doesn't matter whether Qiao Zhiyong is willing or not, because this is the last way out, so it is bound to fail Jiang Xueying, who has long promised Qiao Zhiyong, how can everything be two.
At the critical moment of the Qiao family, where did the rogue smoking father of the Jiang family have the ability to help the Qiao family, even if Jiang Xueying loved again, in front of Dayi, love seemed so pale and powerless. Solving the problem and allowing the Qiao family to be reborn is the key, and it is also the benefactor of the Qiao family.
The Lu family and the Qiao family just happen to be in the right place, and there is a daughter of the right age in the family to be married, the Lu family has money and heart, this is really the opportunity sent by heaven to give Qiao Zhiyong, the heavens will not die Qiao family.
On the day that Qiao Zhiyong and Lu Yuhan became intimate, the two met in the swore Caishen Temple, and Jiang Xueying was prepared with both hands, on the one hand, she thought that Qiao Zhiyong would really go far away with her for love, on the other hand, if Qiao Zhiyong left with absolute affection, then she would wear a mourning dress and marry the young master of the He family who asked to marry her.
The young Jiang Xueying has never understood a man's responsibility for the family business, and in her eyes there is only love, but in Qiao Zhiyong's responsibility for the survival and ancestral inheritance of several people in the Qiao family, Qiao Zhiyong has greater helplessness and unspeakable affection than her.
In the Temple of Wealth, after Jiang Xueying listened to Qiao Zhiyong's words of rejection, she slapped Qiao Zhiyong, returned the Mandarin Duck Jade Ring that Qiao Zhiyong had given her before, and then pulled back the sachet she gave to Qiao Zhiyong. Qiao Zhiyong simply broke Jiang Xueying's heart with absolute affection, wanting her not to be sad for him, a negative man, so he said that the Lu family had silver to save the Qiao family, but you did not, and Lu Yuhan's raw rice cooked mature rice, these insincere words made Jiang Xueying's heart like ashes and decided to marry He Jisi, who had made a fortune and was sick at the Big Tobacco House.
When Qiao Zhiyong learned that Jiang Xueying was going to marry such a dying person, he was so sad that he fell ill, so he persuaded Lu Yuhan to come forward to persuade Jiang Xueying not to marry, but Jiang Xueying said that she wanted to marry in order to make Qiao Zhiyong feel sad for the rest of his life.
Qiao Zhiyong was able to marry a wife like Lu Yuhan, which was really the cultivation of his predecessors, not only taking money, but also coming forward to settle her husband's love affair. Lu Yuhan told Jiang Xueying that as long as she was there, she would not let her husband die of pain for other women.
Under the comparison of these two women, it can be seen that the difference between the small family jasper and everyone's boudoir, the broad-mindedness and the way of doing things are related to the tutor. One has only a little love in his heart to take revenge, and the other has great righteousness and great love.
<h1 class="pgc-h-arrow-right" data-track="20" > by love and hate, precipitous</h1>
When Jiang Xueying married He Jisi, she prepared two sets of clothes and married in mourning clothes, crying herself and saying goodbye to her past feelings. But after entering the gate of the He family, she changed into a big red wedding dress, which showed her rebirth from this time on.
Jiang Xueying had to let Qiao Zhiyong come to marry himself, Qiao Zhiyong let his wife Lu Yuhan come, and his wife's infinite tolerance and generosity were really for love, and under the comparison of the two, Qiao Zhiyong had no reason to live up to Lu Yuhan's kindness to him.
As soon as Jiang Xueying passed the door, He Jisi fell ill in bed and needed her to take care of her day and night, and it didn't take long to go, and the second elder also went three months after his son left, and before He Father left, he arranged everything after the He family. Jiang Xueying passed through the door but did not become the real daughter-in-law of the He family for a day, but for the sake of the He family's family business, he wanted Jiang Xueying to choose to remarry or inherit the family business, quietly raise a son to come back, and then the He family will inherit the generations and guard the He family in this life. Jiang Xueying chose the latter, choosing that for a daughter, this is a long and difficult road, but for Jiang Xueying, who was hurt by love at this time, she was powerless to love anymore, nor did she have the heart to toss the rest of her life.
Jiang Xueying raised her son Chunguan, who had brought her back, to run the business of the He family, and secretly made a sworn enemy with the Qiao family, in order to get out of the breath in her heart, not to let Qiao Zhiyong and Lu Yuhan's life be better, to add to their blockage, and to live happily. As a result, Jiang Xueying took the He family's money and wealth everywhere to embarrass the Qiao family's business, did countless things behind his back, and also reported the collusion between Qiao Zhiyong and Liu Heiqi of the Taiping Army, causing Qiao Zhiyong to be arrested and imprisoned.
The consequences of this incident directly led to the decline of the Qiao family and the Lu family, and the imperial court seized the opportunity to extort money from the large Jin merchants, and granted Bao Qiao Zhiyong a release from prison on the condition of a ransom of 8 million taels and an annual military supply of 1 million taels.
For the sake of his son-in-law, Lu Dake, the old man, directly sold all the family property at a low price of 2 million taels, and the Qiao family also took out 3 million taels, but the difference of 3 million taels was that Jiang Xueying secretly found someone to buy the money delivered by the Qiao family's family property, which was the result that Jiang Xueying did not expect, and it was also that she underestimated the corrupt situation of the imperial court at that time, and the situation developed to such a serious extent.
After paying a one-time ransom of 8 million yuan and releasing people, Lu Dake completely returned to his hometown and returned to his old age, and the annual 1 million taels also made Lu Yuhan think of how much he quit to become Jiang Xueying's long-cherished wish, the Lu family had no money, but now Jiang Xueying has become a rich man, after she took over the He family business over the years, she made a comprehensive transformation, closed all the tobacco houses, went to the capital to open a pawn shop, and inserted a lot of the same industry as the Qiao family, earning a lot of silver. At present, only Jiang Xueying can save the Qiao family and save Qiao Zhiyong.
It was really feng shui that took turns, because Jiang Xueying had no money, the Lu family had money, the Qiao family had to choose the Lu family, but now things have reversed, the Lu family's silver is all spent on the Qiao family, Jiang Xueying has become a person who has money to save the Qiao family.
The 1 million taels handed over to the imperial court every year are ten years, and Lu Yuhan's withdrawal cannot complete the current Jiang Qiao and the two of them, the love of that year has long changed with the years, and the money that Jiang Xueying took out was only the price paid for the mistakes he had committed in retaliation.
Jiang Xueying's years in the He family, relying on herself to take care of the He family's business, and lonely and helpless, the psychology is somewhat distorted, every time the pleasure of retaliating against Qiao Zhiyong's success, let her feel that her pain has eased a little again and again, until she extends from emotional revenge to the intimate dowry of her relatives, Cui'er, her viciousness is really chilling.
Cui'er and qiao family's retinue long plug fell in love, after the two became intimate, Jiang Xueying was worried that all the things she did would be told by Cui'er, so he wanted to poison her and keep secrets for her, although the author finally let Jiang Xueying stop the horse on the cliff, did not do it, but the jealousy caused by her love and hate had already made her look beyond recognition.
<h1 class="pgc-h-arrow-right" data-track="34" > unfulfilled love, is the best arrangement of heaven</h1>
In fact, after reading the whole book, I think that Qiao Zhiyong and Jiang Xueying's failure to complete it was a good thing for each of them, and it was also the best arrangement in heaven, why?
Because, if Qiao Zhiyong really insisted on marrying Jiang Xueying at that time, then the Qiao family really could not get back to life, could not borrow silver, and the Qiao family, including this big mansion, would pay off the debt, then, Qiao Zhiyong guarded the love of his children, would he really let go? It is impossible for a lifetime, he will feel that he is a sinner of the Qiao family, and he has not contributed to the revitalization of the Qiao family, but has coveted the love of this young and crazy.
Burdened with huge psychological pressure, enduring the shadow of no money and bankruptcy, do you really have the heart to keep each other in love? Poor couples mourn, after a moment of passion, all that remains is endless pity and regret.
Jiang Xueying's family environment makes her a delicate and sensitive little woman, Qiao Zhiyong is loose in nature, and yearns for unrestrained, can support his dream of economic conditions, how to achieve this dream of a broken little family, when there is no money as the basis, all wishes are empty talk, will only tear the pain of memories again and again.
Also, no matter how much Jiang Xueying loves Qiao Zhiyong, but her original family cannot be changed, in the face of a father who likes to smoke a lot, how much is needed to fill his preferences, Jiang Xueying can not let his father care, if his father runs into trouble outside, she must be guaranteed, in the face of the bankrupt Qiao family, the life of his small family is a mess, and take life to solve the problem of his mother's family.
With the two together, the passion is consumed, life is trivial, and the contradictions of personality are sharply exposed, both of them are strong people, no one is soft or willing to compromise, how far can such feelings go in the face of reality, not to mention the hardships of life.
However, Qiao Zhiyong endured the pain of choosing the Lu family, choosing to support the Qiao family, which is to save countless families, coupled with Lu Yuhan's empathy and ability, and Qiao Zhiyong is definitely a good match.
Therefore, Qiao Zhiyong had no choice but not to marry Jiang Xueying, and his fate did not fulfill them, but it was really the best arrangement for the fate of the two, and they all had their own missions and more important roads.
If Jiang Xueying had married Qiao Zhiyong that year, she would only become one of the countless resentful women or little women at that time, and Jiang Xueying would have inherited the He family's property, relying on her to stand up to the He family and become a capable businesswoman in the Jin merchants, and in the history of the Jin merchants, there would be one more strong woman who could sing, rather than an indispensable little woman, which was also the best arrangement for Jiang Xueying's life's achievements.
If it backfires, please believe that Heaven has other arrangements, don't hold grudges, harm others and harm yourself, what is not complete, not necessarily a bad thing, start over, and live in the present moment, because really everything is what should happen in your destiny, and it is the best arrangement.
Just be blessed!