On December 2, 2018, a vicious case of a 12-year-old boy hacking his biological mother to death occurred in Sihushan Town, Yuanjiang, Hunan Province. The victim was stabbed with more than twenty knives, his hands were cut off, a deep cut in his neck, and his scalp was cut to a blur of blood and flesh, and he died on the spot.
The boy who killed the killer was Named Wu Moukang, a 12-year-old sixth-grade elementary school student. The victim, Chen Xin, 34, was Wu Moukang's biological mother.
A 12-year-old elementary school student, you have a hard time associating him with the bloody crime scene above. It is also difficult for you to imagine how such a child could be so vicious in the face of his own biological mother.
The cause of the case is very simple, just because the mother saw the child smoking, very angry and quarreled with him, and then when she was angry, she hit him several times, and as a result, the child grabbed the kitchen knife and slashed at his mother, slashing more than twenty knives in a row, until he wanted his mother's life.
A 12-year-old child, before graduating from primary school, was infected with the bad problem of smoking, which parent can not be angry when he sees it? Isn't it normal to argue with a child for a few words? It is to go up and hit the child a few times, which is also reasonable, how did this child pick up the kitchen knife and ask for his mother's life? He could slash his mother more than twenty times, cut off both hands, and create such a bloody scene, where did his hatred come from?
With these questions, let's start with Wu Moukang's family environment and growth experience.
Wu Moukang was brought up by his grandparents from childhood, his parents have been working in other places for many years, only going home once or twice a year, staying for a few days and leaving again, usually through the phone to contact their son feelings. When Wu Moukang grew to the age of ten, his mother gave birth to a second son, and the old man was too old to take two children, so he returned to his hometown and left his father alone to continue to work in other places. After Wu Moukang's mother returned to her hometown, Wu Moukang still lived with her grandfather and lived with her mother more than a month before the crime.
Grandpa is more doting on him, Wu Moukang often asks for money from grandpa, buys cigarettes and buys betel nuts when he wants money, grandpa has bad legs and feet, and he doesn't know that the child is infected with these bad diseases, and thinks that the child wants money to buy snacks to eat. Once Wu Moukang stole more than 1,000 yuan from his grandfather, and his grandfather did not criticize him, just when the police took Wu Moukang back to the scene of the crime on December 5 to understand the situation, his grandfather still touched his face to comfort him, without the slightest intention of blame. Wu Moukang is introverted, does not like to communicate with others, he lived with his grandfather for ten years, it can be said that it is completely free-range growth.
Wu Moukang has had two more serious injuries. When he was 7 years old, he was hit by a van on the way out of school, and when he hit his head, his face was bleeding, his parents were not at home, and his grandfather carried him to the hospital for treatment. When he called his parents at the time, his parents did not come back when they heard that the child's injuries were not so serious, and now he can still see the scars left by that year on his forehead.
More than a year after the car accident, Wu Moukang was pushed down in the process of playing with his classmates at school, his head hit the corner, he did not tell his grandfather after he went back, and his grandfather saw that his grandson's head was swollen with a large bag, and there was a lot of bruises before asking about the situation. The big package didn't go away until more than a month later.
Compared with the grandparents' free-range education, the mother's requirements are much stricter. Wu Moukang lived with his mother for more than a month, often quarreling with his mother, sometimes even beating his mother, and the reason for the quarrel was often playing with mobile phones and asking for money.
Grandpa said that Wu Moukang was fascinated by playing with mobile phones around the age of 9, around relatives and friends who have mobile phones in their hands, he will go to play, after school home bag lost began to play mobile phones, sometimes play until very late to start writing homework, and always while writing while searching for answers with mobile phones to copy.
From Wu Moukang's living environment and growth experience, we can find that he is a left-behind child, and his problems are widespread among left-behind children.
First of all, parents are not around for many years, children can not get life care and emotional communication, encounter problems that they cannot solve, and do not get timely guidance and help. The child's inner insecurity will even produce a feeling of abandonment.
In the process of growing up in this child, there have been two experiences of injury, and neither parent has appeared when the child needs the comfort and protection of the parents most. This experience should be said to be a great harm to the child, from the parents he did not feel the care, let alone the parents love for him, this should be wu Moukang was taken away by the police, when the villagers asked him why he killed your own biological mother, he said very calmly: "Nothing, I just hate her" one of the reasons.
Secondly, children live with grandparents for many years, and the elderly cannot be compared with their parents in terms of energy, physical strength, cultural knowledge and observation. Children make mistakes, talk about it, they can't fight, there are also problems in communication between generations, and the education of children has long stayed at the level of eating, dressing warmly, and not having problems, let alone paying attention to the level of children's mental health.
Wu Moukang grew up in such an environment for ten years from childhood to adulthood, and he has accumulated a lot of bad habits. The mother's love has been absent for ten years, and she has just lived with this child for more than a month, and it is obviously unrealistic to want the child to quickly change her previous bad habits. At this time, Wu Moukang had not yet accepted his mother from the heart, and even had a feeling of resentment of being abandoned by his mother, who believed that his mother did not love him and was not qualified to manage him.
Here I would like to say to all the parents of left-behind children, love is not enough to eat, wear warm, have money to spend so low-level, simple, children grow up more need is companionship, the need is the irreplaceable sense of security given by parents. Children with a sense of security are solid at heart, even if they are materially weak, it is not a big problem.
In today's society, the economy and network are so developed, as long as you work hard, you can support your family anywhere, and you don't have to work in other places. You may earn some money by leaving your children behind and working outside alone, but what is the point of making more money compared to the harm caused to your children and the series of educational problems that may arise later?
If you must go out to work, then please also bring your child, give your child a complete home, let the child witness your hard work, it is also a good thing for the growth of the child.
Appeal to all parents: if we want children, we must be responsible for our children to the end, do not let your father's love or maternal love be absent, and do not let such a tragedy happen again. At present, Wu Moukang has been taken away from his original living environment, because he is under 14 years old and has not reached the age of criminal responsibility, and temporarily adopted educational control measures against him.