The country's family planning policy has been opened up a lot, following the opening of the second child and then opened up the third child, but many people have found that there are not many families actively having three children now, and even the families who have a second child are some families with very general economic conditions, or even relatively poor families.
For such a phenomenon, some people evaluate these ordinary families who have a second child as "ignorant and fearless", so why do they say so?
The economic pressure to have a second child has surged
Raising a child is not a simple thing, and its financial requirements for the family are still very high.
Before a friend has calculated the annual expenditure after giving birth to the second child, he lives in the eighteen-line small county, the eldest son goes to kindergarten, the second son is still a small baby who eats milk powder, usually the husband and wife are not even willing to buy a new dress, it is such a saving situation, the total annual family expenditure reached 85,000 yuan, equivalent to more than 7,000 yuan per month.
The monthly income of the two small families adds up to less than 10,000, which is such an income, and it is still a relatively ideal income in the county. It can be seen how much economic pressure on the family is caused by having a second child.
It's hard to imagine how they would respond if there was any emergency in the family that required money.
The time cost of having a second child is larger
Giving birth to a child requires a pregnancy in October, and after giving birth to a child, you also need to confinement, and the completion of confinement does not mean that the mother can live and work normally, but also need to breastfeed, continue to recover the body, etc., and there are many taboos in life. All of these factors can require a significant time cost. And we need to know that not all families can have so much free time.
More energy is invested in having a second child
What the second child brings to parents is not only the pressure of economy and the consumption of time, but also the consumption of energy. Therefore, when parents give birth to their second child, they also need to be prepared for labor, parents not only need to worry about their children eating and drinking Lasa, but also need to worry about the safety and health of their children, as well as educational psychology and so on. When giving birth to a second child, the age of parents is generally older, the energy is already insufficient, and after having a second child, it is even more insufficient, and even affects the usual life and work.
It is precisely because of this concern that many people believe that those families with ordinary families have a second child, which is the behavior of the "ignorant and fearless". But is it really "ignorant" for families who have a second child? In fact, it is not that those families who have a second child have their own reasons for having a second child.
Why have a second child? That's the best reason, not sure if I can convince you
※ One more child to rely on
The economic conditions of the plum family are very general, plums and husbands are working class, although they usually eat and wear without worry, but there is no way to buy things without looking at the price.
Therefore, after having a child, Meizi wants to have another child, so that after he is old, the pressure of the child's pension will be much smaller, and the old age of the second old will be more moist, after all, the pension of two children will be better than the pension of one child.
In addition, to put it mildly, in case one of the children has an accident or becomes an unfilial child, then there is another child who can rely on it, which will give their old age more guarantees.
※ Two children can help each other
The economic conditions in The Gondor family were also relatively general, but Gondor also had a second child, if nothing else, because Gondor did not want his children to be helped when they encountered difficulties.
This is related to Gondor's own life experience, Gondor is an only child, a person in the city to work hard, during the period also encountered a lot of opportunities, but he did not have an acquaintance in a strange city, whether he has brothers and sisters can help himself, so he missed the opportunity again and again.
Therefore, now Gondor feels that children must have brothers and sisters, so that they can better grasp the opportunity when they encounter it, and when they encounter difficulties, two people can better solve it, so that the children can have more happiness and less sadness in their lives.
※ I want a "perfect family"
Many families with ordinary economic conditions actually have a relatively deep traditional thinking, that is, they hope to establish a family of four with children and daughters, and feel that this is a happy and happy family.
So, after one child, parents with these ideas want to have another child to achieve the perfect family structure they expect.
In fact, strictly speaking, it is not the parents with general economic conditions in the family "ignorant who are fearless", but it is precisely because of the limited economic conditions that they choose to have a second child, and their expectations for alleviating economic pressure are pinned on the family structure with two children.
However, having a second child will indeed increase the economic burden of these families, so if you want to have a second child, you must find some ways to alleviate the family's economic situation:
"6" clothes are not shameful to wear: "6" clothes are actually clothes that Dabao can't wear, and it is worn for Erbao, which can effectively reduce the economic expenses of the family and reduce the economic pressure of parents.
Let two children learn to share: what you usually buy for a child is actually something that both children can use. Therefore, let the child learn to share, so that buying an item can meet the needs of two children.
Pay more attention to some "group buying" goods: Now whether it is eating and drinking, or using clothing, most of them will have some group buying activities, such as buying one get one free, buying two discounts, etc. Parents can pay more attention to these activities, both to buy good things for their children, and the price is more appropriate.
Broken thoughts
Each family has its own different views on having a second child, there may be some people who are economically strong, but they are not willing to have a second child, but some people seem to be financially strapped, but they want to have a second child.
In fact, as long as the parents can be responsible for the second child, the economic conditions are good, there are good conditions for raising the law, the economic conditions are not good, there are bad conditions for the law, the benevolent see the benevolent, the wise see the wisdom.
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