Since YingruDi began to participate in the Winter Olympic Games, his father Yingda escorted all the way, and also served as an ice hockey game commentator, cheering for his son many times during the live broadcast, showing full of fatherly love. Although Ying rudi's team eventually lost 0-8 to the United States team and was eliminated, but the momentum was played, coupled with Indah's crazy "business" for his son's fame, Ying Rudi's popularity soared and began to become popular on the Internet.
Yingrudi's first response to her relationship with her brother Batuu caused controversy
On February 18, YingruDi opened the live broadcast, interacted with fans and chatted, and when many netizens asked whether they had contacted their brother Batu, Yingrudi responded for the first time to the relationship with his brother Batu.
Some netizens asked you are Batuu's younger brother? Yingrudi affirmed that she was Batu's younger brother, but had no contact with her older brother Batuu. YingRudi said that he hoped that he (Batuu) would contact him, but he never contacted me, and my family always welcomed him back.
Ying Rudi also said that some netizens hope that they can contact him, but they will not take the initiative to contact him, because they cannot disturb the family life of others, not to mention that what you have not considered is that he may not want me as a brother.
From Ying Rudi's words, it can be seen that he very much hopes to recognize his brother, and because his brother has not contacted himself, he is full of regrets, but it is this response that has caused a lot of controversy.
Some netizens think that Yingru Di said this in fact, a bit of tea talk, isn't it your younger brother who took the initiative to contact your brother first? Some netizens said bluntly: you don't want to disturb each other's lives if you don't contact each other, and if others don't contact you, you will not want your brother, which is also too double standard.
Some netizens remembered the tone of Yingda's face to the media at that time, and bluntly said that the tone of father and son was exactly the same.
Rationally speaking, Yingrudi may have considered that his father Yingda has always been "not in contact" with Song Dandan and Batu, and if he contacts privately without Yingda's consent, he will definitely anger his father, so he cannot be blamed for not contacting his brother. However, throwing the pot to my brother is a bit underconsidered.
In fact, this is not the first time that Yingrudi has caused controversy due to lack of consideration. Previously, some netizens shouted on the Internet that there is no opportunity for brothers to cooperate in a play in the future? Yingru Di directly left a message "I have never seen Batuu and I", and the 10-word response was slightly cold.
And during the Winter Olympics, yingrudi, released the training video below, some netizens can not help but compare him and his brother Batu, praising him for "beating his brother in all aspects", did not expect that Yingrudi is not modest, directly liked the comment. Some netizens can't look past it, saying that Batuu's biggest advantage is kindness. Ying Rudi asked, "How do you know I'm not kind?" Competitiveness at a glance.
Yingda's attitude towards the two children is very double-standard, and Song Dandan has written a scolding
After Yingda and Song Dandan divorced that year, they once said a word to the outside world, saying that if they were divorced, they would not come to me again, and everyone thought that they were saying it to Song Dandan alone, but they did not expect to include Batu.
Later, Yingda and his third wife Liang Huan gave birth to Yingrudi, and they could not take care of Batuu. Batuu had begged his father to come back and see him and take him out to play, but Indah did not agree. Even later, all contact was severed and directly ignored.
On the other hand, Yingda for the youngest son Yingrudi, is to hold him in the palm of his hand, give him the best education, in front of the media all kinds of fatherly love, every time he talks about the athlete's son, his face is full of pride, once said to the media: "I am particularly willing, being called Yingrudi's father."
Song Dandan saw that Yingda was in the media to show his father's love, but also angry, once sent a small as a kaiqi Yingda, said that Yingda performed a loving father, but on ba graphics with a strange road, 7 years old Batu begged his father Indah to take him out to play, Indah ignored, when he was 11 years old, he wanted a phone number Yingda not to give, performing a loving father please do not hurt his son.
However, when Yingda later faced the reporter, he said: "As long as I am given this opportunity, I will treat everyone equally", which seems to be complaining that he did not fulfill his responsibilities and that Song Dandan did not give himself the opportunity.
Now, looking at the relationship between Yingrudi and her brother in response, she said that she did not recognize her brother, that her brother did not contact herself, and that her father Yingda's tone was indeed the same.
Since ancient times, the most difficult thing for a Qing official to decide is family chores, if fathers and sons and brothers really want to recognize each other, even if they cross mountains and mountains, it is difficult to stop them from crossing the ocean, if they do not want to recognize each other, even if they come head-on, there are thousands of reasons to avoid.
It seems that if Batuu and Yingda and Yingrudi father and son really want to recognize each other, they still need to open their hearts to each other.