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A leaf knows autumn. In the course of the suffering modern struggle of the Chinese nation, yan fu is really the most suitable candidate to find a very representative individual specimen and examine the changes in modern Chinese society and thought.
Yan Fu, who has studied both Chinese and Western styles, has also left many insights in the inheritance of family style and family education, but it has not yet been fully understood, which is worth mentioning in particular.
In the autumn of 1921, Yan Fu was bedridden. He felt that he was seriously ill, and on October 3, he became ill and wrote a will to future generations, including "six whiskers":
It must be known that China will not perish, and the old law will gain and lose, and it will not be betrayed.
It is necessary to know that people should be happy and take good health as the first priority.
Be diligent in what you do, and know that the time and time will not return to the opportunity.
Think diligently and be organized.
It is necessary to learn, increase knowledge, and know the weight of being a person, which is not easy to be perfect.
When dealing with the group, we must think of ourselves and the group, and we must not create sins.
In 1912, Yan Fu was appointed as the chief supervisor of the Beijing Normal University
Article 1 | It must be known that China will not perish, and the old law will gain and lose, and it will not be betrayed.
Yan Fu is the first thinker who enlightened Chinese society into a modern society by western studies, and actively advocated "opening up the wisdom of the people, rejuvenating the people's morality, and drumming up the people's strength", but he also soberly realized that the transformation of Chinese society can neither cling to the shortcomings and eat the ancient, nor can it only seek the new and completely Westernize.
Yan Fu admired the traditional Confucian culture represented by "Rigaku", and he pointed out that "the so-called loyalty of kings and benevolent subjects, the filial piety of fathers and sons, and the virginity of husbands and wives, if the chinese people believe in the precepts of all things, how can they violate them, but have other ways to follow?" ”
He said: "It is difficult to care about the old customs of the pingting ancient law, and it is difficult to know what is the cause of the revolution, and if it is not reformed, it is difficult to make progress; and if it is not the cause, it will become chaotic." The establishment of a good system, the success of a beautiful custom, moving for thousands of years and then having, why abandon what it has, and be ignorant of the unknowable of those who come? ”
In his view, "there is no beauty and evil in the system, and the time is at the right time; there is no delay in changing, and it must be done at the right time." "Understanding this, we are on the road to promoting cultural self-confidence, and promoting the creative transformation and innovative development of traditional culture in order to maintain a foundation that will never be lost."
Article 2 | It is necessary to know that people should be happy and take good health as the first priority.
Yan Fu warned his children: "It is necessary to know that people should be happy and have good health as the first priority." "Attaching importance to the body, paying attention to hygiene, and believing in science are important insights for people when Yan Fu surpasses."
He bitterly warned the third son: "As long as the body is strong, the rest can be placed as Xu Tu, and the child must be deeply examined." This statement should not be taken as the east wind blowing Marl also. He warned his niece not to eat well, not to follow the current desires, to pay attention to hygiene, and not to rely on drugs.
Yan Fu attaches particular importance to gender equality and mental health. In 1907, he was an examiner in a higher school, and there was a student surnamed Wang, who denounced the ancient phenomenon of "killing concubines and eating troops" and advocated equal emphasis on men and women. Yan Fu praised this greatly, not only listing the article as superior, but also rewarding him with ten yuan himself, lamenting that there was no suitable daughter, otherwise he would be recruited as a son-in-law. Yan Fu also attaches great importance to his family fun.
Article 3 | Be diligent in what you do, and know that the time and time will not return to the opportunity.
Karma is good at diligence, absurd in play. None of those who have a successful career are lazy and diligently focus on their careers.
As the saying goes, time is like an arrow, the sun and the moon are like shuttles, time is like water, Shaohua is easy to pass, it can be seen that life is short, opportunities are rare is the consensus since ancient times, yanfu is no exception.
Life is precious, time is no more, everyone should have a diligent and rigorous attitude towards the cause, maintain a moderate sense of urgency, and strive to achieve learning, establish merit and improve morality.
Article 4 | Think diligently and be organized.
Only when there is thinking can there be doubt, only when there is doubt can there be enlightenment, and only when there is enlightenment can there be gain. For people, things, and things, we must think diligently, analyze the principles, and organize them in a coherent manner.
Yan Fu stressed: We must not absolve the problem, but must "think diligently" and consider all factors, believing that "what was yesterday can be what is wrong today; what is prayed for here can be abandoned later." ”
Article 5 | It is necessary to learn, increase knowledge, and know the weight of being a person, which is not easy to be perfect.
As the saying goes, learning is endless, and being a person requires continuous learning to increase your insight and ability. To know the weight of oneself, especially to know that it is not easy to be very successful in doing things, we should be content and content.
Yan Fu believes that "only the right thing to do" is good to achieve a comfortable point, and there is no need to deliberately demand perfection.
When he once taught his fourth son, Yan Xuan, he said: "It is advisable to cherish reputation in the world, but we must not be too heavy on the outside world and lose our freedom." In the case of all words and actions, it is advisable to be accurate in quantity, and not to follow the customs and others to discuss, how can it be relied upon? Others laugh at them, and it is ear-catching to hear them laugh at. "
Advocate that all words and deeds should have their own standards, and the ridicule of others will be ridiculed by others.
Article 6 | When dealing with the group, we must think of ourselves as light and heavy, and we must not create sins.
Which is more important than the individual or the group? In Yan Fu's heart, it must be that the group is larger than the individual, and the individual must contribute to the whole country and society. This strong sense of family and country is the reason why Yan Fu can become "the first person in China in recent times".
Yan Fu's granddaughter, Qiu Yun, recalled her grandfather: "I always remember that the motto that my grandfather Yan Fu served all his life and passed on as a family training was 'the group comes before the self'. He taught us to 'think of others before we think of ourselves', that we should think of others before we think of ourselves, that we should not be selfish, that we should not think of ourselves alone. ”
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