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Just because we play a ball together, have a meal together, or sleep together doesn't mean we're the same kind of people

author:Dong Dong Journal

I went to Linyi to repair the car.

Honda non-double, to change the turn signals, some time ago let my brother-in-law ride and fell, broke a lamp, because it is the new model without accessories, said need to send from Beijing ...

This car, I was looking for an Internet celebrity girl to buy, she is a student of Linyi University, love the locomotive, this car I waited for eight months, that is, these eight months, our relationship is much better, she also wrote to me.

I invited her to dinner three times.

At least one thing, there is a common language, as long as the problems related to internet celebrities, she encountered, I have encountered, then she is very willing to ask me, called my master, brother, uncle, and what is that?

For example, the simplest example, as long as the girl vibrates, what is the most information in the private message?

Inquiry, do you want to introduce? Come out to eat or not?

Long and ugly, there are also inquiries.

Didn't a reader come to me before? If you originally intended to bid for five thousand yuan, no matter which city you go to, you are no longer alone, this matter has a follow-up, after I wrote it in the diary, some readers also went to try it, and sent the group photo to the reader group.

After I left, my sister asked me, Teacher Dong, what line do you take?

I asked, what's up?

She said, if you take the Yinan Ecological Avenue, I can accompany you.

I asked, have time?

She said I could take time off.

I said, OK.

She rode the KTM390, we agreed on the meeting place, the distance between the two of us was about the same, an hour or so, this time I had a plan to ask her out, because she changed too much before and after, before I picked up the car, she was really good to me, not the kind of good of men and women, is the junior's good to the idol, what about after I picked up the car? Basically didn't contact me, the occasional phone call or I called her, she was either in class or busy.

So, I think she's changed.

Since it has changed, let's have a handover ceremony and worship.

After the meeting, there was a big hug first, saying that he was preparing for graduate school and rarely rode now, and I asked if I had forgotten about it? She said how could it be? You see I vibrato are rarely updated.

I said, you are so bold that you dare to run such a mountain road with me.

She said, you are a good person.

When it came time to eat, I asked if I wanted to eat at the cave restaurant? She nodded and said you're going to stop your broken motorcycle here, I'm driving you.

She hugged me very tightly.

I said, I didn't see it, you are still very material

Of course, she said.

She asked me why I didn't choose to be a teacher.

I said that I was right not to be a teacher, at least one less scumbag teacher, I think according to my disposition, being a teacher must be in love with students.

She told me two things, one was that when she was in elementary school, her music teacher alone helped her play the piano. The second is that when I was in high school, my geography teacher chased after myself.

Saying that they have caused psychological shadows for themselves, no one can say.

I listen to a lot of this.

It should be said that every girl encounters these to a greater or lesser extent in the process of growing up.

I was very curious to ask a question, that is, you new human beings, how much do you generally crack?

She is a high school entrance examination.

It is indeed precocious, I went to college, I don't know what the chicken is doing when she grows up? I thought it was pecking rice.

After eating, I went to ride her car, and when she got out of my car, I hugged her seriously, and she asked me with a confused face: Uncle Dong, do you really like me so much?

I said, your uncle is one of your passers-by, you are an Internet celebrity who sees many people and sleeps a lot.

She said, I really am not that kind of person, clean and self-righteous.

To the 4S shop, changed the lights, I sent her back to school, by the way to meet my old iron here, men of my age, have not liked the little girl, I am here the old iron is mostly riding friends, bicycle acquaintance, and the age is over forty years old, when I went to the office building, a person poked me from behind, I looked back, is a motorcycle girl, has changed into civilian clothes.

I asked, where are you going?

She said I was in the student council, meeting.

At lunch, we discussed some things, it should be said that the greasy uncle routine over her, is to appreciate you, like you, a hundred years of internet celebrity genius and the like, are praise words, she said also like me, very much think of me and the like, a lot of things are natural, just a little cold, in addition to cycling clothes wearing and taking off too much trouble but in the office building met her, suddenly felt, we are not a world of people, you see, people are still a student, we are a bad old man, can not mess with the idea, her father is only a few years older than me?

Let her go.

In the evening, old iron invited me to dinner.

I looked at my phone, and the motorcycle girl sent me a red envelope of 666, which I had to accept, because she said at noon that she would invite me to dinner at night, and as a result, I did not eat, and she wanted to give me the money.

I took it.

My old iron is a goddess, is the person who hosts the municipal program at every turn, there is a song comparable to the original song, "Little Back Basket", I saw her very nervous, when we went to Kenya to shoot animal migration, there were her, two classes, her father, her grandfather, all belong to the famous and famous people, what is my grandfather's name, I can't think of it now, there is another point, she is not from my side of the group, is their group only three people, sold to our group, I took it by the way, there are two people who can not intersect at all, And I don't like her either, I think it's too arrogant, too cold.

At the end of the trip, the two of us flew from Shanghai to Jinan, from Jinan and took a long-distance bus to Linyi, the long-distance bus people are very few, the bus departs in the middle of the night, anyway to Linyi around twelve o'clock, we both don't know why, actually kissed the mouth, she seems to be the female lion in heat on the African savannah, kissed all the way, we don't know why we like to kiss so much, think of hugging and kissing, kissing for two or three hours.

She tricked her family into returning the next day.

I also lied to my family like this.

However, after this matter, we did not have any intersection, because back to reality, the two of us are completely two worlds of people, people who should not intersect, it has been more than ten years, our local campus has a riding friend transferred to the main school, talked about me, she took the initiative to go to my WeChat, this is another acquaintance,

Very disciplined, some things as if never happened, in fact, on the day I knew, this piece of sugar should not be eaten, eat a certain regret, because the rest of my life can no longer eat, will be repeated thinking, become a thought, my only memory now is that I woke up in the morning very early I saw the people around me, is so handsome, I have the feeling of dreaming, how can I?

Just like today, a friend came back from the desert, she told me that suddenly felt that it was easy to cheat in the desert, I understand what she meant, that is, there, you have nothing to rely on, you can only rely on the man who took you, naturally you will fall in love, which is the same reason as I led the team to Africa.

Although shouting old iron, but it can not be old iron, I am calling her teacher X, she also called me Teacher Dong, talking about serious things, not even pulling hands, the only ceremony is the end of the meal. I shook my hand, very strange.

Because of the bookstore, I always meet writers, officials, entrepreneurs come to me to punch the clock, the vice governor has come to punch the card, billionaire I have recently contacted two, but I am very contradictory.

Where is the contradiction?

On the other hand, I would love to have more contact with them and learn more.

On the one hand, I was afraid that once I had more contact, they would find out that I was a straw bag, thus physically isolating me.

The day before yesterday, I went to Qingdao, and in fact, the billionaire called me to go

That night, we drank two bottles of XO, he had to take me to Qingdao to play a ball, and then invited me to drink back, a table also spent more than 10,000 yuan, is the norm of his life, the next day he mobilized me from morning to two o'clock in the afternoon, why did I insist on not going? I just don't want to get too close to him so that he finds out I'm a straw bag

Also, it breeds my jealousy.

Regarding jealousy, I read a passage today, and the more I think about it, the sadder I am: jealousy of my countrymen, or former classmates and colleagues, this is also an anchor mentality. These people think that others have intersected with him or have intersected with him, and they are a type of person. This is a big misunderstanding.

What do you mean?

We thought that when we sat at a table, we were a kind of person.

Actually, it still isn't.

Playing a ball together, having a meal together, sleeping together, does not mean that we are a type of person, but it just happens that there is an intersection, excellent people are physically isolated, I have been isolated by two people, one is a university teacher I took to South Africa to sketch, how romantic I wrote on the roof of the Land Rover Defender, back to Shanghai she will not see me. The other one is this old iron who had dinner with me yesterday, she still saw me, but the division was clear and clear, one bite of a teacher Dong.

Jealousy is useless.

The root cause is that we have two types of people, two classes. What was my biggest takeaway from writing history? Aware of the stability of class and family, the entire history of China is the internal history of several major families, or so to speak, many of the celebrities active today are after the nobility, such as Xie An, whom I write today, Xie Xian is after Xie An, and then such as the Wang Xizhi family, from the Eastern Jin Dynasty to the late Qing Dynasty, the Wang family produced a total of more than ninety prime ministers and more than 600 famous literati.

I also wrote a sentence before, everyone may not be impressed, it should be unconvinced, I can jump, right? In the county, it is my level, are physically isolated by section-level cadres, in daily life, we can occasionally meet officials, mostly deputy sections, the only positive material I know, is a retired eight-year rider, but also a dick, cycling with a lover, the lover is a head nurse, still in office, how close are the two people? Attending the wedding of the riders, the two of them use a red envelope.

What impressed me the most was that the head nurse said that he would be on duty at night and should leave early, and Zhengke directly glanced at him: Your mother is a comparison, you went to try today?

Today, why do you suddenly feel so deeply?

It's a rider who hasn't been in touch for N years, just had dinner together, he called me and asked me to borrow money, borrow 100,000 yuan, I was thinking how do you define me and us? We have intersected, but, not friends, it is impossible to lend you money, he should have made the same mistake as me, just think that everyone has played together is a friend, there are difficulties will help...

At that time, the vice governor came to read the book, and a friend asked me to carry a note, and my father reminded me: Don't talk about these things, he will come to read the book next time he passes by, if you mention this? Your whole being is no longer a trustworthy unit.

Eat ginger, or my dad spicy!

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