There's a song called "Believe in true love for a long time, but in the end you have nothing..."
When love first began, what I thought in my heart was "to live with my lover for a long time, love to the white head, and from then on, I will walk hand in hand at the end of the world."
However, reality is always cruel, many times what you think and reality are always the opposite, obviously calm down to talk about a vigorous, long-lasting love, but in the end you find that everything is self-inflicted.
Some people think that there is no right or wrong in love, some just pay more and less, after the breakup, the party who pays less will quickly forget, let go of everything, and even quickly open a new relationship.
And the party who gives more will fall into deep pain and cannot extricate himself.
One day, two days, one year, two years... Thinking about the past and the promises made all the time, until the heart is exhausted and the heart is like ashes...
A netizen encountered such a thing on the street, a woman was abandoned by her boyfriend, crying bitterly on the street, and the appearance of pear blossoms with rain was painful.

The woman was abandoned by her boyfriend, suffered from severe depression, and cried bitterly on the street
Judging from the live video, this woman looks dignified and beautiful, tall and tall, and belongs to the category of beautiful women.
According to common sense, in today's society with an imbalance between men and women, meeting such a beautiful girlfriend will be doubly cherished, holding her in the palm of your hand to warm and protect.
However, the reality is very cruel, and beautiful women will also encounter emotional setbacks.
According to the woman's own account, she was cheated by her boyfriend, has been unable to get out of the shadow of feelings, and has been suffering from severe depression for four years.
The reason why I had an emotional breakdown and cried bitterly on the street was because when the depression recurred at the time of the incident, I did not bring medicine, and I could not hold back for a while, so I cried on the street.
Watching the woman crying tears her heart out, pear blossoms with rain, people feel doubly distressed, what kind of love will make a beautiful woman miss for four years? What kind of man would abandon a beautiful woman?
The appearance of the woman's pear blossom with rain is painful, is there right or wrong in the feelings?
"Is there right or wrong in love"?
This is something that people have been thinking about.
The woman said that she was abandoned by her boyfriend, and her heart was missing for four years and could not let go, was it too deeply hurt or too real to love?
So some people think that all this is the man's fault, if the man wants to have a good talk with her about a love that will never break up, then the woman will not fall into this.
Of course, some people think that there may be unknown secrets behind the seemingly pitiful, "a slap does not sound", not necessarily the responsibility of the man......
Right and wrong are not the most important, since you have broken up, you should put it down!
Maybe someone thinks, "I gave so much, but she (he) abandoned me fiercely, is this fair to me?" "There are even people who will go into a dead end and wonder why they were abandoned? Can't figure out where you lost?
In fact, the editor believes that there is no right or wrong in love, there is no win or loss, and it is impossible to drill into a dead end.
Because feelings are mutual, not single-minded.
The reason why some people can't put it down and can't think straight is because they don't understand the true meaning of love.
In love, the love of giving to each other, mutual tolerance, mutual understanding, and mutual cherishing will last, and if it is only blindly paid and blindly compromised, this kind of love is just wishful thinking.
There is no right or wrong in feelings, there is no absolute fairness, what we can do is to cherish each other when we are together, sincerely pay, do not go to the end, and do not do "stepping on two boats" and infidelity to feelings.
The last editor advised the woman: don't continue to sink, remember the sentence "Love that can't go to the end must not be true love, people who are willing to abandon themselves are not worth staying in love", true love is not willing to hurt each other, and lovers who can be robbed are not true lovers.
The world is so big and people are so beautiful, why should they be sad for someone who does not love themselves?
Knowing how to let go is also giving yourself a new life.