Wen | Wu Qingqian
In the TV series "The World of Man", Qiao Chunyan once said that Wu Qian, who often complained about Wu Qian, was Xianglin's sister-in-law when the family was beautiful and the work was smooth, but in a few years, she lived to become wu qian, a person who had once laughed, and in the face of her husband's divorce with her and the work stopping, she also complained like Wu Qian. Regarding her marriage, Zhou Bingkun pointed out the problem to the point - all poor, all rich, there can be no poor and rich; about herself, Zhou Zhigang saw through the essence at a glance - people, there is no contentment.
When Qiao Chunyan reinstated her post, re-entered the position of deputy director of the Women's Federation of Tongle District in Jichun City, and lived in a spacious and bright leadership building with a bathroom, Wu Qian encountered embarrassment under the reform of the market economy. Wu Qian's state-run hotel was contracted out, and she was treated far less than a young person in her old age, but there was no other way out, and she could only continue to survive in the hotel. The family is also not harmonious, the eldest sister-in-law squeezed her mother's house with two children after her husband's death, and the family of eight people crowded in a house, so she became a resentful wife, always like to spit on her husband and her husband's family when the six gentlemen and their daughters-in-law gathered, and was therefore said by Qiao Chunyan that she was Xianglin's sister-in-law.
Time flies, the bucket turns to the stars, and after eight years, wu qian and Qiao Chunyan's lives have slowly changed. Wu Qian entered the bookstore under the care of Zhou Bingkun, the work is clean, relaxed, and the treatment is good, Wu Qian and his wife also took the child to live in Zhou Bingkun's old house, no longer have to squeeze with the in-laws and sister-in-law, the life is also stable and comfortable, and the couple's feelings are therefore harmonious. And Qiao Chunyan's work is standing still, and the family is even more of a mess, the couple quarreled over Cao's father's affairs, and also quarreled about divorce.
Qiao Chunyan felt quite aggrieved in the matter of her father-in-law, and not long after marrying into the Cao family, her father-in-law became seriously ill, spent a lot of money, and became seriously ill again in a few years. She complained to her mother, Li Suhua, that the little money she had saved over the years had been made up, and she also owed a bunch of debts. She said to Debao, let's seek truth from facts, and your father's funeral is from Jane. As a result, Cao Debao disagreed, and he jumped on the high ground to argue with her, saying that his father had worked hard all his life and had to walk in the scenery. Qiao Chunyan disagreed, on the grounds that the whole family wanted to drink the northwest wind after the scenery was over, his father was dead, he couldn't come back, he always had to think about the living people, their old and small family. This time, Cao Debao did not compromise, and he had to divorce for this matter, did not live with his wife and children, moved back to his own home to live with his mother, and did not return to Qiao Chunyan's house for a long time.
Cao Debao also felt depressed, he actually did not want to divorce, although he felt that the young female colleague who had last received Bingkun's work to talk about business at the Ji Shan Tang Restaurant was good, and he had a temper, but he knew which head was lighter and which was heavier, not because of this divorce, the wife could not want it, but could not not want the son, and as long as the divorce, the son certainly could not be his, for the sake of the son how can not leave. But he was simply disappointed in his current marriage.
Since marrying Qiao Chunyan, he has been living in Qiao Chunyan's house, living no less, and he has to listen to his wife for big things and small things, and he Cao Debao, who is the only one in the entire guangzi area. Later, when she lived in the building of her unit, she also had to listen to her everything. He endured all this, but he really couldn't hold back in the aftermath of his old father.
He told Zhou Bingkun that when my father left, he said that it was from Jane, in fact, it was equivalent to throwing people into the furnace, throwing the stove to burn, and saying that everything was for the living people. Your mother (Qiao Mother) is a living person, you (Qiao Chunyan) is a living person, your child is a living person, my mother is not a living person, she has thought about it for my mother, she said what is coming, she wants to send my mother to Heilongjiang my aunt, saying that my uncle died, the two sisters are a companion, is this talking about human words? Two sisters together, have a companion? If you do your company and bring my aunt here, it will be over, then the conditions in the city are not stronger than in the countryside. I tell you Kun'er, you don't speak for her, she just wants to rent out the house where my mother lives, and she earns money.
Judging from the opinions of both husband and wife and the personality and style of the two, although Cao Debao did not agree with his father's aftermath, he finally did it according to what Qiao Chunyan said, and it was also too simple, after the shabby was over, Qiao Chunyan still had the idea of a house to drive her mother-in-law to the countryside, so Cao Debao would be intolerable, angry, run away from home, and complain to his good brother Zhou Bingkun. Qiao Chunyan, who has always been strong, accustomed to her husband's obedience, and is distressed about money, partial father-in-law's illness and has spent a lot of money, sees that her husband's family is not returning, and wants to divorce her, not realizing her own problems, she also feels deeply wronged, so she complains in front of her mother.
Qiao Chunyan was going to complain to his brother Zhou Bingkun, and he also wanted Zhou Bingkun to do some cao Debao's ideological work, if he could teach the other party better, as a result, Zhou Bingkun was not there when he arrived at the Zhou family. The reason why she looked for Zhou Bingkun was that she had feelings and a relationship, the two were small, playing together from childhood to adulthood, just like the buddies, and recognized Zhou Bingkun's mother Li Suhua as a dry mother, they are considered to be dry brothers and sisters; second, except for Zhou Bingkun, she has no one to find, and no one is more suitable than Zhou Bingkun to be the mediator of their husband and wife.
Among the six gentlemen, Lü Chuan and Tang Xiangyang parted ways with the other four after being admitted to college, and they did not come to the party every year, and among the remaining four gentlemen, Cao Debao was Qiao Chunyan's husband, and she could not find him to say that Sun Chaochao and his wife Yu Hongdu were unemployed, and she, who had a job or a leadership position, came to them to complain about poverty, which was not hatred, Xiao Guoqing and his wife Wu Qian could not go there, and she said a few years ago that Wu Qian was Xiang Lin's sister-in-law, and often watched the people quarrel in public. Now he went to them to complain that he was not beaten in the face by Wu Qian, and finally there was Bingkun, Bingkun has always been helpful, and she is a good buddy, and Cao Debao is also a good buddy, and it is best to find him to coordinate their husband and wife relationship.
However, Bingkun was busy in the restaurant, and he had not yet returned, so he caught his mother and said it, but after half a day, he found that his mother did not remember what she said earlier. It can be seen from this that Qiao Chunyan rarely went to the Zhou family for many years, so she did not know how busy Zhou Bingkun was, often not at home, nor did she know that her mother's brain was not good, and many things were not remembered. Think about the time when she pursued Zhou Bingkun and Zhou Bingkun in prison because of her brother-in-law's mourning poems before, how diligent and fast she came to the Zhou family, and did not help less. Although as she moved into the leadership building and Zhou Bingkun moved into a new house, they lived not so close, and the change of distance would affect the frequency of communication, but it would not be that the physical condition of the mother and the work of the brother did not know it, and it could only be said that she and the Zhou family rarely moved around in recent years.
Why? It used to be so good, how did it become like this now? Perhaps as Zhou Bingkun interpreted their marriage to Zheng Juan, "All are poor, all are rich, there can be no poor and rich." In the past, when Qiao Chunyan pursued Zhou Bingkun, everyone was poor, and later married, Qiao Chunyan's life became better, and she could help the weak when she was good. And when Zhou Bingkun's life became better than hers, she also wanted to live like Bingkun last week, living in a big house and holding a high income. Therefore, he was angry that his father-in-law spent a lot of money to treat his illness, and after his father-in-law left, he started the idea of a house, thinking of driving his mother-in-law to the countryside to save money, after all, the consumption in the countryside is low, and he can rent out the house to earn a sum.
Qiao Chunyan's plan is just like what Zhou Zhigang said, "Man, there is no time to be satisfied." It is also not satisfied, greedy, selfish, so the sensible Zhou Zhigang does not like her very much, when she came to the Zhou family to complain, he was far away from her and ran to the kitchen to help Zheng Juan get vegetables. Zheng Juan said that he did not need his help to let him talk to Qiao Chunyan, and as a result, Zhou Zhigang said that he did not want to listen to Qiao Chunyan, "Wow, wow, wow, it hurts my brain", when he said this, he was disgusted. It can be seen that Zhou Zhigang saw through Qiao Chunyan as a person, fortunately, Li Suhua did not succeed in matching Zhou Bingkun and Qiao Chunyan, otherwise Zhou Zhigang would definitely be resolutely opposed, more powerful than he was against Zheng Juan at the beginning.
Qiao Chunyan's wishful thinking was to completely annoy Cao Debao, his father was gone, he couldn't let his mother go to the countryside to do the same as no mother, if he compromised on this matter, he would not be a man, let alone a man. He even felt that Qiao Chunyan was not sincere to him, let alone a gentleman, but a villain, and what he exchanged for the villain was to kick his nose on his face and ride your neck to pull, so he resolutely did not compromise.
Yes, over the years, although Qiao Chunyan has experienced ups and downs in her work due to the reasons of the times, from deputy director to foot washer, but on the whole, her work is more decent than Cao Debao, and she has also been assigned to the house, and the economy is rich, and Cao Debao was originally a slag worker in the soy sauce factory, and later became the director of the workshop, and then when the soy sauce factory was about to close, she also came out instead of the factory director to talk about business, but the work was always not as decent as Cao Chunyan, and she was in a poor state. This is poor and rich, coupled with the personality of Qiao Chunyan strong, Cao Debao is weaker, the family of Qiao family three are girls, Qiao Chunyan is the smallest, the most favored, the family is looking forward to her husband is the door-to-door son-in-law, although the Cao family feels that the son is not good at plugging the door, but the soft nature of them did not insist too much on this matter, which makes Qiao Chunyan have a sense of superiority in marriage, Cao Debao is the angry party, it is no wonder that the final divorce this step.
Marriage has never been happy with love, not to mention that Qiao Chunyan and Cao Debao are not so much two lovers and happy to combine, but rather that Qiao Chunyan is willing to force marriage, Cao Debao wants to marry a high-ranking cadre girl who is in distress, and seeing each other's young and beautiful under qiao chunyan's persecution is also half pushed and half pushed. After marriage, Qiao Chunyan, as Feng Huacheng said Zhou Rong, is accustomed to self-centered, how he wants to be, will not think too much about Cao Debao, and is not satisfied, although it is not wrong to live a better life, but if you sacrifice the interests of others for a better life, it is not advisable, and the final result is that you will not get anything. Although Qiao Chunyan and Cao Debao did not divorce in the end, their marriage was full of holes under their respective problems and various setbacks, which corresponded to the sentence of poor couples and Pepsi lamentations, and their marriage is also a true portrayal of the marriage of many small people.
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