There is a father playing a video game in the online video, and the child stands next to the father to watch the netizens raise objections, saying that the child is watching in the back Why doesn't the father refuse? Needless to say, this dad left a message below very seriously, but his answer really subverted the three views of many of our parents.
"I play a single-player game, not an online game, the child to see I should not refuse, because this is also a process of children learning, to be honest, if this game my son can play well, it means that his IQ is higher than mine" You can see that this father is really a very enlightened father!
Later, I learned that this father was also from an extraordinary background, as a student of a prestigious school, he was originally an IT worker, and since becoming a father, he has taken care of the responsibility of taking care of the children.
And everything did not stop him from loving to play games, but he himself believed that there were many kinds of games, and the games he played would only have a benign impact on the child's intelligence and would not hurt the child.
And the six-year-old child, under the influence of his father, has already completed the Mario Fitness Ring Adventure and Plants vs. Zombies. I don't know the attitude of this father who is open to playing games, as a parent, do you also agree with it?
Netizen Mr. Liu said: I think this father is not wrong, as long as the child plays in front of us, instead of secretly playing behind our backs, so that we can correct his behavior at any time, but also exercise the child's intelligence, isn't it very good?
Netizen Ms. He said: Oh my God, this father is simply too strange, if this is my husband a day, we will fight three times.
Well, everyone has a reason for everyone. We should actually let children contact some games, after all, it is now the era of electronics, even if as parents, we do not let children contact children, we may also be exposed to video games from other children, but the difference is that under the guidance and constraints of parents, children can selectively do some meaningful games, such as single-player games.
Compared with online games, stand-alone games are more likely to be controlled by children, and parents can also control the time of children playing games well.
This is not the case with online games, because to cooperate with others, it is not possible to end the time at any time. In addition, the single-player game does not have the situation of online games to compare equipment, that is, he is very economical. It is not necessary to compare the game of financial resources to be able to truly consider the child's game level.
It can be seen that even in the eyes of experts, it is believed that children are not afraid of playing games, mainly the games we choose for children, right or not! Also, what you may not understand is that there may be three benefits to having children play games.
The first benefit is to help the child regulate his mood and relax his mood
Now the child is actually quite tired, because the learning pressure is relatively large, and there is no one at home to play with him, he is still very lonely, so playing games can help children to regulate their mood and emotions.
For some younger children, like little cream, super Mary, are very interesting, small games can completely let children touch it.
The second benefit is the ability to expand your child's cognitive abilities
This is beyond the imagination of many parents! In fact, before every child plays a game, he needs to understand the rules of the game, so this is a good process for children to learn language and improve their comprehension skills.
I wonder if you have ever found some children who play games particularly well? Usually the level of emotional intelligence is also quite high.
Although playing games is still very good for a child, but parents should also pay attention to it, do not let the child become addicted, in addition, it is best for parents to accompany the child to play together, then you constantly switch the child through games and work to imitate your appearance, and you can also switch the frequency of learning or playing at will, which is very beneficial to the growth of children.
On the road to parenting, we are all novices, how to take better care of children, you can pay attention to me, and discuss with me those things on the road to parenting.