Yi Shu: "When I was forty years old, I was in good health and had a little savings. Married, the husband is considerate and the children are obedient. Have a job that you really enjoy. That's success. ”
What do people live for? Success, happiness, value, happiness.
1, what is success
When people reach middle age, they are in good health, have a little savings, are married, have a considerate spouse, have obedient children, have a job they like more, do not have to become famous, do not have to get rich, do not have to look at people's eyes and act, and do what they want to do, this is success.
2, what is happiness
Yu Juan, a teacher at Fudan University who died of cancer, wrote in her diary: At the critical point of life and death, you will find that any overtime (staying up late for a long time is equal to chronic suicide), giving yourself too much pressure, and the need to buy a house and a car are all floating clouds.
If you have time, accompany your children, give the money to buy a car to your parents to buy a pair of shoes, don't desperately change what big house, change what luxury car, and the people you love, the snail is also warm, the bicycle is also happy!
3, where is your value
If you fall ill or die suddenly, your service unit will find someone to replace you as soon as possible, everything will work as usual, you are not as important as you think; and the sky of your parents, family, lovers and children will fall, and you are the most important thing to them.
So don't hold on to what you are sick and don't go to see; work moderately, spend more time with your family, cherish yourself, and live a normal life.
4, what is happiness
There are no patients at home, no relatives in prison, no enemies outside, no villains in the circle, no bad people around; it seems that there are no lovers, there are acquaintances in things, there are philosophers who talk and laugh, there are high people in parties, there are sages in tea, there are people who gossip, and there are a large number of forwarders on Clockwork WeChat.
In life, there are things you like to do, there is a healthy body, there are people who love you, there is a well-behaved and sunny child, there are several friends who think about it after a period of not seeing, this is happiness.
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