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Two days ago, I saw a topic that said that people I loved can still be friends? I saw a lot of messages in the back, some people think it is OK, some people can't.
In fact, for this problem, I believe that everyone can accept it to a different degree, and there is nothing wrong with how to choose.
For the world of feelings, as long as it is deeply loved, in fact, no matter which one, it is impossible to return to the beginning, let alone be friends calmly.
To be separated is to be separated, to be able to be friends, that can only mean that there is no real love.
Those who have been separated and can be friends, more often than not, each other has no real intentions, as two people who love each other, once so deeply in love, they cannot accept separation.
It is not so much about being friends, but about continuing to love someone with the fate of a friend.
About whether you can be friends or not, or depends on personal choices and mutual feelings.
People who have really loved, have had a good time, each other is the other's beloved person, is not willing to be friends, keep the identity of friends to continue to get along.
People who have loved, and then be friends, that is also no way to choose, or perhaps have not really loved.
People who have loved deeply cannot be friends, after all, as long as they think of the time they have been, they will want to have the urge to hug at a glance, and they will want to possess when they see each other, and that helplessness cannot be concealed at all.
When you see people who can be friends after breaking up, they don't argue with each other, they still interact with ordinary friends, and they can often ask each other out, so two people didn't really love at the beginning, maybe they were just together, they didn't have that deep feeling.
In fact, as long as it is a person who has been deeply loved, it is impossible to get along peacefully, and will only think about how to reunite and how to win back the other party's heart.
The thing of love, since it is separated, it means that it is not suitable for each other, and after separation, there is no going back.
In real life, many people are divided and merged, and most of them do not have a good ending in the end.
A real relationship will not want to be separated, and when it encounters problems, it will only think about how to solve it, not think about separation.
Feelings that can be separated mean that they are not so deep, or that there is no relationship between you.
Since they are separated, it means that the other party chooses not you, and a person's true heart is only once, and when it is consumed, it is really nothing.
Don't feel that a short separation does not represent anything, nor does it affect anything. When you make this decision, you are actually pushing the other person away.
For the person who loves you deeply, you have chosen to be separated, and she has truly seen your intentions, and she will no longer be obsessed with it, nor can she return to the original form.
Any feeling can not withstand the consumption, once separated, it means that the other party has denied you and let go of you.
A person who can choose to give up on you is not worthy of deep love, let alone being friends after separation, which is absolutely impossible.
Some people, who may turn around for a lifetime, don't expect to give up on each other at the same time, but also enjoy the time of being friends with him.
summary:
Feelings are such things that you love very much, and you will not only be willing to be friends, and once you are separated, you will not continue to sink.
For people who have loved once, the best way is when the other person is dead, and not disturbing each other may be the best way for each other.
Therefore, people who have really loved cannot be friends, but can only be the most familiar strangers.