Wen/Shiyi
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Life is a practice of love.
Everyone wants to meet a lover who matches them, or a partner who is suitable for marriage and can accompany them to the old.
But if you look closely, you'll see that whether it's a couple in love or a loving couple, they're not a good fit to be together in the first place.
The reason why many lovers can love each other and become enviable fairy lovers is often because they are willing to make some changes for each other.
And some people are forced to make these changes, and some people are willing.
Obviously, the nature of forced change and willing change is not the same, and there is a difference in essence between the two, and the most obvious difference is "willing or not".
Some people, although they often say "I love you" to you and habitually put sweet words on their lips, they never put their love for you into practical action and cannot make you feel at ease.
And some people, even if they have never promised you, will not say some nice words to make you happy, but they are always willing to take the initiative for you, willing to let you, and tolerate you.
That is, men fall in love with your apparent change: "yes".
On days when you don't meet, be willing to contact you
People always say: Two people who truly love each other do not see each other for a day, such as three autumns apart. On the days when they can't meet, they will miss each other, they will have trouble sleeping, and their hearts will always look forward to when they can meet each other.
Therefore, in order to be closer to each other, in order to be able to participate in each other's lives, there will always be ways to keep in touch with each other at all times and share interesting things in life.
And the same goes for a person who truly loves you. When you are not together, his thoughts about you will increase with the passage of time, and he will take the initiative to contact you every day, even if you never take the initiative to contact him, he is still willing to take the initiative for you.
Conversely, a man who doesn't love you, on the days you don't meet, won't miss you or take you to heart. The longer the time, the more you will find that most of the time you take the initiative to contact him, and he is never willing to take the initiative for you once, your life he does not want to understand, your situation he will not ask.
When there is an argument, I am willing to let you go and tolerate you
Between lovers, there are disagreements, there will be contradictions, and it is very normal to quarrel.
But when arguing, the other person's attitude towards you often depends on what kind of position you are in his heart.
If you are important to him, and no one can replace your place in his heart, then the frequency of conflicts and quarrels between you must be very small.
The reason is not because you have the right personality and are naturally suitable, but because he knows how to cherish you, and many times he is willing to let you and tolerate you.
In his heart, it doesn't matter who loses and who wins, who is right and who is wrong, what matters is that you don't feel sad because of some small things, and you can have a good time every day.
However, for a man who doesn't love you enough, he will always only put himself first. As for whether you are good or bad, happy or unhappy, he doesn't care too much.
When you have a conflict over something trivial, his voice will be louder than yours, and if you keep arguing with him, he will only argue with him, and he will not let you go.
To put it bluntly, a man who always wants to win or lose with you, always wants to share the high and low with you, you are not important in his heart at all, and he is not willing to take a step back for you.
When a man falls in love with you, there will be a noticeable change, that is, he will willingly pay for you, you don't need to bow your head, he will bend over for you.
For example, many times, there are some things that he himself is very disgusted with and resistant, but as long as you like it, he is willing to do it, and those things that can make you happy and protect you thoroughly, he will never shirk it, never sloppy.
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