A person's life path, it seems smooth sailing at the same time, there are also ordinary people can not see the pain, those happy moments, have their hard work and hard work, success will not come easily, all need to endure hardships and hard work. When looking at the scenery of a successful person, we must also think about their difficulties, everyone will experience suffering, will taste hardships, on the road of career development, everyone has pressure, when facing pain, facing difficulties, feeling that they are powerless, or overwhelmed, do not be discouraged, think about their dreams and goals, move their brains, see if the heart and hand are one? The heart and action must achieve a high degree of unity, and only when the two are united will they have their own successes and gains, and will they have their own future.
Li Xiaoxia, born in 1988, Liaoning Anshan people, parents are ordinary workers, she was 7 years old, her mother led her to the factory where she worked, at that time, the factory was running a table tennis class, she saw and some children of the same age were playing ball, a moment of love for table tennis, the mother saw that she was in love with table tennis, thinking that playing ball can also exercise, she sent her to the class, since then, she and table tennis sports. In order to let her learn to play well, the family also prepared a ping-pong table for her. Early childhood enlightenment is very important, once there are suitable conditions, we must strive to strive for children to learn more skills.
After she studied in the table tennis class for a while, the class was dissolved, so her mother sent her to the Tiedong District Sports School for study, after practicing for a while, his father planned to send her to the Liaoning Provincial Sports School to play, but in 1997, she went to Shandong to participate in the National Rising Star Junior Table Tennis Competition, because of her outstanding performance, she was favored by the coach of the Jinan Sports School, invited her to train at the Jinan Sports School, and promised many favorable conditions and was willing to train her. After careful consideration, her parents decided to let her develop in Shandong, and a year later, she entered the Shandong sports team. A pair of eyes of a coach is very important, and a good seedling can quickly stand out once it is favored by a good coach.
In 2000, Li Xiaoxia was selected for the national second team, after the training, because the results were not very outstanding, she was sent back to the Shandong sports team, but she had a momentum of not accepting defeat, once she felt that she could not do it, she worked hard to train, and then, she was selected for the national second team again, and participated in the training, so that, in and out, when she was 13 years old, she officially entered the national second team. Sometimes, you need to have a spirit of holding on to the green mountain and not relaxing, once you identify the goal, then try to persevere, as long as you pay, improve your own achievements, there will be good results.
In 2002, at the national championship, Li Xiaoxia won the championship, showed her strength, was selected into the national first team, and wanted to achieve the ideal goal, the first thing that was needed was strength, only with excellent strength, could she realize her dreams and meet her expectations. This year, Li Falcon became her head coach for fifteen years. Moreover, Li Xiaoxia played an important role in promoting the entire ping-pong sport in the masculinization of women's technology, and when she first talked to Li Falcon, Li Falcon asked her what her future goals were, and she said, to be a world champion. A person with a goal, there will be achievements, at any time, you need to set the goal you pursue, only with a lofty goal in mind, talent may progress and be promoted.
When Li Xiaoxia first joined the national team, she was sick, had a fever, went to the hospital to show her, spent 40,000 yuan, could not check out what the disease came, saw that the World Table Tennis Championships were about to be held, the fever was over, and the toothache, her coach Li Falcon was very anxious, specially set a policy for her, where sick, look at where. Once, Li Falcon took her to the Union Hospital to see a doctor, looking for a neurologist who had returned from studying in the United States, who was also a relative of Li Falcon, and the other party looked at Li Xiaoxia's situation and said that her illness was not in the body. When he woke up Li Falcon for a while, he found that the main reason for the illness was that she was too stressed, had a sense of fear of the game, and was worried that she would not do well. So, he took countermeasures, when Li Xiaoxia had a fever, he continued to let her practice, and sure enough, after two days, her illness was better. Li Falcon later said that when she became her coach, the pressure itself brought her was very great. Sometimes, it is said that famous teachers produce high apprentices, and when the apprentices of famous masters are also under heavy pressure and need to be overcome, first of all, they must have a big heart that resists pressure.
Although Li Xiaoxia lacks confidence, Li Falcon is still optimistic about her, especially Li Xiaoxia's backhand and forehand pulling the ball, even Li Falcon feels absolutely stronger than other team members. However, her temperament is urgent, afraid of difficulties, afraid of failure, once she encounters difficulties, her face is black, people fall down, do not speak, emotional changes are very large, easy to be depressed, between 2008 and 2010, is the downturn in her playing career, and she still has a tenacity in her personality, not to accept defeat, once forced to the bottom line, you have to think of a strong rebound. In response to her situation, Li Falcon began to force her, setting a four-year plan for her, what to do at each stage, what results to get, and even down to what coaches and team members should do in each class. And told her that as long as she could keep up with the training plan, she would definitely make it. After that, in the Moscow match, Li Xiaoxia won 16 consecutive games. It can be seen that a person's fighting spirit is all trained, but Li Xiaoxia has a fighting spirit, and still lacks the desire to win, always pinning her hopes on the future, and under the high-pressure training of master, she shouted to master, I am not Zhang Yining. In the face of her protests, Master told her that if you want to get Zhang Yining's achievements, you must pay as much as she does, you must strive for excellence in every cricket ball, you must face difficulties and perseverance, it can be seen that playing ball is no longer playing technology, but playing a spirit, a quality, a perseverance.
In order to let Li Xiaoxia put down the burden in her heart and reduce the pressure, Li Falcon changed her working method and began to talk to her every day, but this method did not work, in Li Falcon's case, taking the championship is like climbing Mount Everest, first of all, you have to climb to 8,000 meters, in order to rush up with a bang, but when Li Xiaoxia reached the middle of the mountain, she felt that the top of the mountain was too far away and did not want to climb. Then he began to encourage and flicker, because she had won the Asian Games, he told her that she was suitable for the big multi-sport games, hoping that through this encouragement, she would feel that she could do the Olympic games. And taught her that playing ball must be fully committed, can not easily lose the ball, to use the brain to play, to achieve the unity of heart and hand, the field must be fierce. Under the strict training of Li Falcon, Li Xiaoxia finally won the championship at the London Olympic Games. Someone asked Li Falcon what trick he had given li Xiaoxia. Li Falcon said, I did not recruit, but when she was in a bad condition, I stayed up with her. On the road to success, those who come with them are their staunchest supporters, no one can rely on the strength of a person to achieve outstanding and great achievements, and his side will always be concerned about the people who love him, inspire him, and help him.
After the 2016 Rio Olympic Games, Li Xiaoxia chose to retire, and then got married and had children, and did table tennis publicity work in a table tennis training institution, her lover Zhai Yiming is also a table tennis coach, the two married, the feelings have been very good, Zhai Yiming was born in 1987, also a Liaoning, one year older than Li Xiaoxia, joined the national team in 2004, won the mixed doubles runner-up at the National Games in 2009, the two met in the Spring Festival of 2005, the two went home together for the New Year, took a car, a 10-hour journey, Providing an opportunity for the two, Zhai Yiming took the initiative to chat with Li Xiaoxia and became acquainted. In 2013, Zhai Yiming retired, before parting, confessed his feelings to Li Xiaoxia, he said, I am not only friendship with you, more is love, on the eve of parting, I found that I love you so deeply. The next day, Li Xiaoxia took him to the train station and told him that no matter what the height of my career in the future, my feelings for you will never change. Zhai Yiming said emotionally, you are the goddess in my heart, and I will take care of you for the rest of my life. Love requires a brave confession, but also a sea oath, once you find yourself in love with someone, then don't miss it, but speak out boldly and loudly.
When their love affair became public, many people told Zhai Yiming that Li Xiaoxia was already a Grand Slam winner, and her sister Wang Nan and Zhang Yining had all married into the giants, and she would definitely marry into the giants. This made Zhai Yiming very uneasy, and soon went to see Li Xiaoxia, and, every month and month, he looked at the opportunity and said to Li Xiaoxia, I am an ordinary person, if there is a rich man chasing you, I am willing to choose to quit. Li Xiaoxia immediately said that every girl's pursuit of love is different, the giants are not attractive to me, my parents are very loving, they are ordinary people, but they are very happy, I yearn for their kind of long-flowing love. On the eve of the Olympic preparations, he frequently visited Li Xiaoxia, causing Li Xia to be distracted, so he proposed to him to break up briefly. And said to the outside world, saying that he broke up with his boyfriend who had been in love for many years for a better game. Love sometimes, there are accidents, when there is a conflict between career and love, you can choose to temporarily give up love, career is no more, love will continue, only true love, each other will definitely wait.
After playing the Olympic games, Li Xiaoxia resolutely retired, she said to Zhai Yiming, forgive me, in special circumstances proposed to break up, I don't know if you have a girlfriend? Love sometimes needs to take the initiative, and if there is love in the heart, it needs to be insisted on, and it cannot be easily said to give up. Zhai Yiming immediately said, you don't come, I'm not old, I'll always be waiting for you where I am. Li Xiaoxia said that everything was the best arrangement. At the wedding of the two, Zhai Yiming promised Li Xiaoxia, he said, from now on, my role in life has changed, and I will love you for a lifetime and make you happy. Li Xiaoxia followed in the footsteps of her lover and returned to her hometown of Liaoning from Shandong, and the two lived together in love and affection. Happiness is to love only one person in a lifetime, and to accept only one person's love for a lifetime.
From a child of an ordinary family, step by step to the peak of the career, to the most brilliant period of life, but for love, willing to give up everything, resolutely follow the lover, live the life of an ordinary person, and continue to make some efforts in their favorite ping-pong sports, this love is pure and beautiful, sincere and no utilitarian. Love needs a long stream, but also needs to accompany the old, to be loved by a person, willing to be with him, such love, is the most beautiful love in the world, but also the happiest love in the world. Because of the same cause, let them have a connection, a best arrangement, let them walk together, each other's choice, let them enjoy their love, every confession, is the true confession of their love and love mood, because of love, they are united, because of love, they entrust each other to each other.
Text/House Slave