Today we will talk about a problem about marriage management, that is, many people complain to me, saying that life is getting more and more plain, what is the impact of trivial life on marriage?
Someone will complain to me: My life is every day with children, doing housework, laundry, cooking, mopping the floor, buying vegetables, just this thing, it seems that every day seems to be very fulfilling, but it seems to be very empty, then she will ask me: This life feels very painful, what should I do?
In fact, you can come to find the teacher, it means that you have realized that such a life has an impact on your feelings, so life is trivial, what is the impact on the feelings, in fact, I say an example, maybe everyone has a concept.
I asked everyone, if I let you eat turnips and pickles every day, will you be able to stand it? Can't stand it, then this eating has no nutrition at all, but if you are tired of eating mountain treasures and seafood, occasionally let you eat a white porridge, let you eat a pickle or something, you think this is life! This is the simple life I need, as long as I occasionally want to go to some small farms and eat some simple farm meals, but you can only occasionally eat you will get tired.
Therefore, the trivial life of chai rice oil and salt can only become a part of your marriage. If it becomes all, you are around the stove every day, around your more than 100 square meters there, it will indeed feel very uncomfortable, and what is the biggest impact it has on feelings? It's women who think that I'm going around the house every day around the stove, not your wife, I'm a nanny who's very wronged.
Men think that is even more infuriating, what is it? If I marry you back, I might as well find a babysitter!" Both of you have a strong grudge against each other, and then your life, which is a trivial life of chai rice oil and salt, will lack emotional communication. Without communication, both sides will have more resentment and cannot be expressed! Then one day when the blandness is broken, when you are hysterical, there will be a big fight.
Maybe your husband said to you: I have long been unaccustomed to you, every day to cook so many dishes, feed the pigs! The wife said: I have long seen that you are not pleasing to the eye, never help me when I go home, the housework is like I am alone, and the resentment of the two people has completely exploded!
Therefore, if there is a mixture of feelings, chai rice oil and salt is an embellishment, but also the essence of life, after all, we all need to eat, but if there is no feeling, only chai rice oil salt, that has a great impact on feelings.
How do you break the mundane life and re-establish happiness? Because what marriage is, is a way for us to be happy, but if you only have chai rice oil and salt, you are bound by marriage, I hope that everyone can find themselves whether they are single or married!