In addition to being a husband, there is another reason for the woman to be a woman

"On every side of life, there are beautiful scenery."

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Original: The edge of life

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Si Woman

The heart of the woman in the boudoir is the most long.

Modern people may be difficult to appreciate the ancient people's longing, the development of science and technology is thousands of miles a day, today's people miss a certain person, you can video at any time, and even use the fastest way to go to the scene, but for the ancients, these are impossible.

All they can do is miss it.

Long and long thoughts.

Every day, every minute, every second, is immersed in deep thoughts about someone.

He Zhu's "Tricksters", the theme of which is exactly what is the woman in the boudoir:

The anvil face is ying, the pestle is in unison, and the ink ink is written on the clothes and tears. Sent to Yuguan Ying Wanli, shu people are still in Yuguanxi.

Under the oblique moon, before the north wind, thousands of pestles and anvils are pounding. Do not work hard for the pounding of clothes, do not sleep, and break tonight and night like a year.

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Still there

Near Dunhuang in Gansu, there is a pass, known as Yumen Pass.

The green spring breeze on the south bank of the river is green but the jade gate is closed.

Yumen Pass, the name is beautiful, but in fact, it is the place where thousands of ancient people's liver and intestines are broken.

In the middle and late period of the Northern Song Dynasty, the Western Xia and Qiang people frequently attacked, and the frontier wars continued for many years.

Thousands of Chinese people have enlisted in the army to defend their families, and corresponding to this is the weak woman behind these hot-blooded men.

They were left in the rear, temporarily safe, but also suffered from longing.

Not only that, but many of them also have to take care of their families and do their duty in front of their parents for their absent husbands.

If they have children, they have to bear more.

This also explains why the work of making clothes is basically arranged in the evening.

If modern people wash clothes at night, they will definitely be complained about by people around them, and perhaps they will be complained about by neighbors.

But in ancient times, for a long time, everyone dealt with the problem of clothes at night, whether it was making clothes, mending clothes, or making clothes, all of which were carried out in the moonlight.

Chang'an is a month, and the sound of thousands of families pounding clothes.

People who don't know will think it's beautiful, so beautiful that people want to cry.

However, in "Trickstering", the pounding of clothes shown by He Zhu is a very serious social problem-

Thousands of boys are far away from their homeland, and countless bridesmaids can only make clothes and tears in the long night.

The sound of his clothes is pounding, full of tears, and the person in his heart is not around, but he is still worried about his food and clothing.

Thinking that after this new clothes are completed, it will be sent to Yuguan to shield him from the wind and cold, even if they are not together, it is also a heavy heart.

However, the Jade Pass is thousands of miles, and the Shu people are still in the Jade Pass West.

Can the clothes she pounded with one pestle after another be sent out smoothly, can she be smooth all the way, and can she finally be safely hugged by her sweetheart?

Shu ren is still outside the Jade Pass.

All these problems, she does not know, she really does not know.

But she couldn't convince herself to put down the trick in her hand.

The anvil is bright, and the pestle sounds in unison.

Is this the case of her alone?

03

Break

Mashing clothes is a social problem.

Tinkering is also a personal issue.

Thousands of households, is the whole.

One family, one individual.

When the camera zooms out and focuses on a specific figure, we see the following scene:

Under the oblique moon, before the north wind, thousands of pestles and anvils are pounding.

We all know that the iron pestle can be ground into a needle, and a few people know the taste of a thousand pestles.

Whenever the repetitive and repetitive actions are done for a long time, it is inevitable that there will be a sense of monotony, and it is inevitable that there will be a tired heart.

However, such an action has a special advantage, that is, it allows people to empty their minds.

Because it doesn't bother, the mind can naturally wander around.

Or, without thinking of anything, let yourself become a hollow man, a tool man.

A man who only knows how to simply repeat cookie-cutter movements.

Mash clothes, pound clothes.

The glimmer of the oblique moon is just right for this thousand pestles and anvils.

The whistling of the north wind is just right for the mind to drift around, or numb.

The long night is long, how to dissolve?

Do not work hard for the pounding of clothes, do not sleep, and break tonight and night like a year.

Some people must say, can it really be used as a way to spend time, is this method really useful?

However, for an ancient boudoir woman, her social circle is pitifully small, even if she can go out, everyone's situation is not bad for each other, how much can the situation improve?

When there is no method, the method that can be used at hand is the best method.

There is no way, many times, revealing not the effectiveness of the method, but the helplessness of life and the cruelty of reality.

04

sound

A popular scene in song ci is the Qin Lou Chu Pavilion under the moon before the flower.

In this way, the description of "Trickster" is too realistic.

Even, it is so realistic that it is unbearable to look at it directly.

Most people in the world only see si women care about their husbands and prepare winter clothes for their families in a foreign land, but He Zhu has opened up a new road and entered their inner world.

Therefore, the action of pounding clothes has another meaning, that is, "constantly pounding clothes and not sleeping, breaking tonight and night like a year.".

As a straight man of five years and three thick, He Zhu in the eyes of the people at the time is likely to be just a rough person, but the truth of the truth is so surprising.

Obviously, He Zhu's heart is extremely delicate, and there is even no lack of gentleness rare in men.

Only such thoughts and visions can we notice the unknown side of the woman in the boudoir.

He Zhu is undoubtedly speaking for thousands of si women, so that they themselves do not understand or have not perceived the emotions, have a voice.

Of course, it is the voice of an era, but it is also the voice of thousands of individual women.

Oblique under the moon, before the north wind.

Because of He Zhu, this voice did not drift away, but through the dust of long history, it was straight to us who were shocked countless years later.

Life Jun said

"All beings in the world, everyone has a soft place in their hearts."