For these one-child families, it has reached the age of only one child who needs to get married and have children, while the parents of only children have entered the life of old age, followed by the responsibility of both couples who are only children need to support four elderly people and children under their knees at the same time.
So, for very real problems, will you regret it after 20 years as a family with only one child?
Let's talk.
First, for the troubles of the one-child family, the old man's statement is too praised
The confusion that exists for one-child families is also particularly prominent in Aunt Ren. For Aunt Ren's generation, the family was several children, all of whom worked since childhood, and hard-working was a unique symbol of the people of their time. Even if you later start a family and have children, you will often return to your mother's house to help your parents work and buy them practical food and clothing items.
Aunt Ren also caught up with family planning and gave birth to a child, and Aunt Ren said that compared to their generation, the only child generation is much better, whether it is material or parental care is more. Because they have a child, it is okay for the two husbands and wives to support together, and unconsciously they will pull the child up.
Now young people are under pressure, and their children stay in big cities after graduating from college. Later married and had children, Aunt Ren is rich in money, strong contribution, thinking that she can help the children as much as possible, the children are working hard outside to listen to it is very easy, every day early out, sometimes overtime at night after arriving home are very late. After the grandson was born, she helped with the child, and Aunt Ren said that it would be good if the grandson could go to school when he was older.
For the pressure faced by the only child now, Aunt Ren also expressed her own thoughts, her son and daughter-in-law are only children, the pressure in the future will be very large, so now we all try to protect the body, can help some help in life, and now look at the family are happy, healthy and content.
Second, home is a warm, common place
Like Aunt Ren, the children of the family with only one child have grown up, will face the different family composition of the past parents, will face many new problems, and need the couple who are only children to take care of the old age of the four people, but also take into account the living arrangements of the young children. These are not easy things.
Just like the view expressed by Aunt Ren, as long as the family is happy and healthy together, no matter what kind of difficulties they encounter, they can face it together, and everyone will work together to face it, even if there are more problems and more difficulties, they will feel warm and contented.
For Aunt Ren's generation, some of them caught up with family planning and gave birth to a child, and some reasons only had a child, but their optimistic and positive attitude towards life is very admirable, and home is always a warm and common place.