The point of this sentence is "men cry". You know, men crying is not the norm, they will not easily shed tears, then he broke up when he cried, many girls will think, he shed tears for me, the heart must be reluctant to me, breakup must have pain, maybe in a few days will come back to me.
stop! Men who mention breakups are generally well thought out, and he cries not necessarily to love you, it may be these situations:
1. Continue to be affectionate: when breaking up, too decisive, cold and ruthless, it will appear that he is very scummy, and the reputation is not good, and crying will appear that he is very affectionate, and the heart will not be too guilty, and it will be better.
2. Put an end to the feelings: This is like a mourning ceremony, you used to be so beautiful, you loved each other warmly, but now, you can't go back, he doesn't love, he's going to leave, he may never see it again, so he will end the relationship with crying.
3. Withdrawal reaction: a relationship for a long time, very familiar with each other, suddenly to withdraw, it will be very uncomfortable, just like smoking for decades, cold to quit, that kind of abrupt interruption will be maddening.
Therefore, when the man cries when breaking up, don't make up the reason for his brain, crying can't cover up the fact that he proposed to break up /promised to break up, at this time, we must first understand when he began to weigh the relationship, began to want to break up, and when the emotions turned.
For example, he began to become very busy, reply to messages very slowly, perfunctory to what you said, did not like your circle of friends, did not share daily life with you, began to argue with you, did not care about your feelings, quarreled and did not coax you, cold and violent to you, let you become a gain and loss in your feelings, you feel that your relationship has changed.
Breaking up is a turning point in your relationship, and your emotional link will break at this moment, which shows that your relationship has already had problems.
For example, the loss of freshness, ineffective communication, unhealthy mode of getting along, no same frequency resonance, no flow of love, etc., these many factors have led to breakups.
After the breakup, it is useless to please, if you still can't put it down, you are very unwilling, if you want to save him, secondary attraction is the key. Forget your ex-girlfriend's identity, put yourself back into the position of the ambiguous object, let him invest time, money, and energy into you again, and he may be attracted to you again.
In fact, it is not difficult to save, in addition to the correct operation, this is a psychological battle, when you are firm enough, objective and calm inside, not to be swayed by his emotions, the easier it is to succeed.