Netizens who have observed will find that many female celebrities in Hong Kong choose not to marry and not have children for a lifetime, even if they are asked whether they regret their choice when they are old, they will not. Many people think that women have to get married and have children, life is complete, otherwise it will be very pitiful to be old without lovers and children. So those Hong Kong female stars who are single all their lives and do not have children, in the eyes of these people, life is incomplete. But whether life is complete or not is really determined by marriage and children?
Xiao Su: Not ready, don't get married and have a baby easily
Life is not complete, no one can define, I think no matter how to choose, life will always have regrets, for women, marriage and having children are very big things, some people think that only marriage and having children is what women should do in their lifetime, but I think that if you are not prepared, do not easily get married and have children. I was because of the family to urge marriage, there is no opinion to marry myself in a hurry, not long after marriage and because of the pressure of the in-laws to have children, now I look like both children, but whether it is really happy only I know. The in-laws are not in pain, the husband does not love, if it were not for the thought of two children, I would have chosen to go away a long time ago, but the child is always my concern, I am reluctant and blame myself for making a rash decision. If I could do it all over again, I would definitely keep my mind on my mind and be ready to go back to marriage and children.
He Yan: Women must have a home, and getting married and having children is the ultimate destination
I am a more traditional girl, in our hometown, girls over 22 years old is already late marriage, so the girls in my hometown are married earlier, I myself am just 22 years old married. In my opinion, sooner or later women are going to get married and have children, which is also the ultimate destination of women, and when women who do not marry are old, they know that their years are no longer there, the pain of no one to accompany them, and there are no children, and they will be old in the future, and there will be no one to send themselves to the end of their lives. There is a woman in our hometown who is because of the vision is too high, pick and choose to delay herself, now more than forty is still single, there is no child, every New Year's Festival she is a person, lonely, not to mention how pitiful, so advise many girls who do not want to get married, marriage is very difficult, but not married, later life to carry alone, it is too hard.
Bingbing: As long as you have a good time, you can be single or Dink
When it comes to getting married and having children, my views may be different from traditional women. I'm more casual about marriage and with kids. Getting married and having children is a natural thing for me, and no one can force it, so no matter what others say, being happy is the most important thing, and some decisions can be done by themselves. Even if you don't get married for a lifetime, and if you don't have children when you get married, it's not a big deal, after all, life is your own, and only you can decide. In my opinion, do not marry or have a baby, put your energy on your career, earn a little more money for yourself, and when you retire, you can play everywhere, spend your own money, get a babysitter when you are not in good health, and you are very comfortable, it is better than spending your husband and children's money.
Today's society is no longer the feudal time before, everyone has a different view of marriage and children, in fact, life has never been complete or incomplete, some are just different ways for everyone. What do you think about the idea that a woman does not marry and does not have a baby, and her life is incomplete? Welcome to comment and share.