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No matter what era a child is born in, the meaning of a good childhood is that there is love and freedom, which is beautiful.
Parents are willing to listen to their feelings. When children encounter some unhappy things at school, there are parents who can listen to them carefully, encourage them to express, and accept any emotions, including negative emotions. Treat the child as an ordinary person, all the emotions that ordinary people can have, the child has, anger, jealousy, happiness, frustration, sadness... and these emotions are allowed, seen, understood and accepted by the parents, then the child gets emotional freedom. Children who are free of emotions can feel deeply loved. Children who can feel this way, childhood is beautiful.
Parents are able to direct their behavior. In the process of growing up, children need a role model to let him see what the adult world is like, and what an adult who has a sense of responsibility, dares to take responsibility, and has the courage to explore is like. Parents should strive to be role models for their children and constantly improve themselves through learning. By imitating their parents, children will make themselves like parents. When children become adults, one day remember their parents, lead by example, and teach them many correct truths, the child will feel loved.
Parents respect their children's choices. Every child has their own choices, perhaps these choices will be different from the parents, then in any case, the child's choices should be respected, respecting the choice, is to give the child freedom. With free children, there is a good childhood. If we have the opportunity to read the autobiographies of some successful people, we will find an interesting phenomenon, and the understatement parents in their books have a respectful side to their children. In the book "Deep Thinking", chanel's global CEO's father is a lawyer, his child turned in a white paper during the bar exam, he respected his child's choice, went to learn marketing, joined L'Oréal to sell shampoo, and finally this humble girl who started from scratch, all the way to the next level, became Chanel global CEO. The author of the book "Eclectic", who runs a company with a market value of more than $200 billion in the United States, mentions that one of his parents in the book is, "Whatever I do, my parents support me"... There are many other examples that can provide us with evidence that respecting the child can not only give the child a good childhood, but also make him "wonderful in the future life".