In May 2010, for Cao Jiaying in Suining, Sichuan, the diagnosis results of West China Hospital completely changed her life. It turned out that her 15-month-old daughter Wenwen was born deaf.
Cao Jiaying and her husband Yang Jiangang are both healthy people who can sing and dance, why is her daughter a deaf and mute person? Could it be that the doctor's judgment was wrong? Is there really no cure for this?
As a mother, Cao Jiaying had a hard time accepting the fact that she took Wenwen everywhere to find a doctor and owed a lot of money, but Wenwen's condition did not improve at all.
Cao Jiaying, persuaded by her family, became pregnant with another child, and in late 2012, her youngest daughter Pingping was born. When Pingping was three months old, her parents sent her to the hospital for a physical examination, and the results showed that everything was normal. Confirming that her daughter Pingping was in good health, the two sons put their minds at ease.
Since Pingping was born, the family's expenses have been increasing. Yang Jiangang's father, a man who favored sons over daughters, persuaded Yang Jian just a few times: "Girls are all money-losing goods, and it is impossible to pass on the generations." Wenwen is deaf and mute, and will only drag down her family. Just let him not be hungry, don't waste too much time! ”
At the instigation of his father, Yang Jiangang's feelings for Wenwen became more and more indifferent, and he poured all his fatherly love into his second daughter.
Cao Jiaying really couldn't stand it, and asked him to care more about Wenwen: "Wenwen has had a disability since she was a child, and she is already very pitiful. We should be kinder to her, and we should love her well. ”
Yang Jiangang said, "The money I have worked so hard to earn cannot be wasted on a wasted person!" ”
Cao Jiaying was furious: "What are you talking about?" Isn't Wenwen your own child? ”
Yang Jiangang once wanted to give Wenwen to a couple who could not have children, but Cao Jiaying noticed it in time and tried her best to stop it. Since then, no matter where Cao Jiaying goes, she will take Wenwen with her, afraid that her girlfriend will be sold by her husband. In Wenwen's life, there are no grandparents, some are just mothers.
In 2015, Wenwen reached the age of being able to go to school, but because she was deaf and mute, she could not attend a regular primary school, and the resources for special education were scarce.
Cao Jiaying searched around and eventually found a private special education school in Shehong County, hundreds of kilometers away from Suining City. Due to school conditions, students must study with family members and board outside the school.
Cao Jiaying advised her husband: "You are an electrician, you can earn money wherever you go." Or will our family go to Shehong County and study with Wenwen? ”
Yang Jiangang is firmly opposed: "Deaf and mute people don't have to go to school, just let her eat enough, when she grows up and marries, she can also reduce the burden on the family!" ”
Yang Jiangang's father also echoed: "Having a daughter is originally a loss-making transaction, and it is really delusional to let a deaf-mute daughter go to school!" ”
Cao Jiaying said stubbornly, "Well, you don't go, I'll go myself!" You don't want her, I want it! ”
The husband is financially blocked, and the wife makes money by live broadcasting
Wenwen has enrolled in school, while Cao Jiaying rents a dilapidated cottage not far from the school. Even if she saves money, her monthly tuition and other expenses will cost more than 2,000 yuan. Yang Jiangang was very distressed and kept persuading them to come back.
Two months after Wenwen enrolled in school, Yang Jiangang stopped giving money to his wife, so he forced Cao Jiaying to go home: "You have two daughters, Pingping also needs to take care of, you can't just take care of Wenwen!" ”
Her husband's words made Cao Jiaying's heart ache. Pingping has grandparents and father by her side, but Wenwen is the only one. If it weren't for her care, her child would have died a long time ago. Cao Jiaying was very dissatisfied with her husband's approach: "Even if it is begging, I will send Wenwen to school!" ”
Yang Jiangang looked at his gentle and lovely wife in a tit-for-tat confrontation with himself, and he was angry, "From now on, I will no longer care about your affairs!" ”
When God closes a door, he must leave a window. Although Wenwen is born deaf and mute, her hands are very clever, and she can learn to cut paper and draw. Cao Jiaying believes that if Wenwen can learn a craft, she will never have to worry about life in the future, even if she is gone, she can rest assured. She secretly decided that no matter what, she would let Wenwen go to school.
When Cao Jiaying was in Suining, she once learned pedicure from someone. So she got a job in foot-washing city in Shehong County, and her life finally got better. Every morning, she sends her daughter to school and then makes dinner. She went to work in the afternoon and came home late in the evening.
Wenwen is very sensible, and every day after school, she not only eats and practices her own handicrafts, but also heats up the meal before her mother returns. Every night Cao Jiaying came back, she would have a steaming meal. She felt that all the effort was worth it.
After working for more than a month, Cao Jiaying's colleague Wang Fang told her: "You are so beautiful, it is a waste to do this kind of errand of serving people." You might as well go online and have a live broadcast, sing simply, the money will come fast, and you won't delay taking care of your children. ”
Cao Jiaying was a little confused, she didn't quite understand what kind of profession this was. Wang Fang took her to the house of her best friend Xiaoying.
In Cao Jiaying's view, the people who can get on this TV must be handsome and beautiful, and the work place is definitely very high-end. That night, Wang Fang took her to a farmhouse. The room was a mess, and a scantily clad woman was showing off her style in front of the computer.
Wang Fang leaned over to Cao Jiaying's ear and whispered, "Her name is Xiaoying, but when she removes her makeup, her appearance is also average." ”
Xiaoying's live broadcast ended thirty minutes later. Three women you said a word, Xiaoying said: "This year, this line is not good, if you are lucky, you can earn ten thousand yuan a month." ”
Cao Jiaying was surprised that she did so much work in the foot washing city, and it was only more than 2,000 yuan per month. Next, Xiaoying explained to her what equipment to buy and how to broadcast it live. Xiaoying reminded: "My current live broadcast platform, you better not go on, I will recommend you a formal point!" ”
When Cao Jiaying was leaving, Xiaoying instructed again: "If you are too conservative, you will not be able to make money!" ”
Cao Jiaying suddenly realized that she was also the mother of two children, and Xiaoying's doing so was tantamount to showing off the wind. If you learn from her, if this is passed out, the faces of your parents and children will be lost. If you let your husband know, the consequences are unimaginable.
Therefore, Cao Jiaying finally gave up the idea of being an anchor, and she told Wang Fang: "It is safest to work hard with both hands." ”
In February 2016, Cao Jiaying and Wenwen returned to Suining for the Chinese New Year. After a long absence, the couple's relationship has warmed up again and returned to the days of love.
Yang Jiangang also made some concessions: "I will not stop Wenwen from going to school, I am now a plumber in a decoration company, and my salary is quite OK." You don't have to work so hard, just take good care of Wenwen. ”
After the end of the year, Wenwen went to school, Yang Jiangang took their mother and daughter to Shehong County, and Cao Jiaying also resigned.
Who knows, Yang Jian just returned to Suining to work, just when he was working, he cut out a hole in his hand, he lost his job, and the family suddenly had no income. So, he changed his mind and called his wife every day to drop the child out of school. Cao Jiaying refused, and Yang Jiangang also said that he would not give them a dime again.
Cao Jiaying watched her husband return to his former appearance, her heart was cold, and her disappointment for him overflowed into words. Considering that Wenwen needs to spend money on school and life, she finally chose to broadcast live.
Cao Jiaying bought live broadcast equipment, cleaned up her room, and in early April of that year, she registered a live broadcast account online.
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However, after more than half a month of live broadcasting, few people watched her videos. She didn't have a loyal fan, no one willing to communicate with her, not even received a gift, and didn't earn a penny.
A netizen went into the live broadcast room to take a look, and actually left a message saying: "Wow, I went to the wrong room, is this CCTV?" ”
Cao Jiaying was puzzled and asked Xiaoying. Xiaoying glanced at Cao Jiaying's dress, and then looked at the live broadcast equipment and the background behind.
Xiao Ying couldn't help but laugh: "Big sister, are you mistaken, this kind of live broadcast is impossible to make money!" Image is the most important, you can choose the style of wear according to different occasions, different environments. The best way is to dress less, secretly send autumn waves to fans, and occasionally have a flying kiss. Fans are willing to spend money just for fun. If there are fans who want to communicate offline, then go, in case you are lucky and come across a really big money, then it is developed. ”
Cao Jiaying decided to make a desperate bet, borrowed money from Wang Fang, added live broadcast equipment, changed into sexy clothes, and bought a set of cosmetics. Sure enough, after she let go of herself, the heat of the live broadcast room soared. By the end of May, you can earn 500 yuan a day. She was very happy, and if she persisted, it would be difficult not to get rich.
A friend of Yang Jiangang's, who also often watches live broadcasts, once went to Cao Jiaying's live broadcast room. Therefore, the news about the Yang family's daughter-in-law working as a pornographic anchor on the Internet spread rapidly.
On the night of June 27, Yang Jiangang angrily ran to the house rented by his daughter-in-law and saw his wife in sexy underwear broadcasting live. Cao Jiaying had not yet withdrawn from the live broadcast room, and he grabbed his hair: "You stinky ladies, you actually did such a harmful thing!" ”
Cao Jiaying cried and mourned: "You forced me to do this!" We have already negotiated Wenwen's tuition, but you regret it! Cao Jiaying said. That same night, the couple took a gamble and signed a divorce agreement.
The picture of Cao Jiaying being beaten by her husband is also clearly seen by fan Zou Lin. The next day, Zou Lin asked a question with concern in Cao Jiaying's live broadcast room. Cao Jiaying couldn't help but say her pain.
Zou Lin said angrily, "Your husband is so unmasked that he can beat his own wife!" ”
Then the two privately added contact information, and in the conversation, the two people quickly became friends, talked very happily, and he took the opportunity to see Cao Jiaying. Previously, Zou Lin wanted to see Cao Jiaying several times, but she refused. This time, Cao Jiaying, who was relatively depressed, agreed after a brief hesitation.
On July 3, they met in Chengdu. After dinner, Zou Lin took Cao Jiaying to a hypermarket, bought her more than 2,000 yuan of clothes, and bought Wenwen a high-end dress.
Since the birth of his second daughter Pingping, Yang Jiangang has never bought anything for Wenwen. This scene made Cao Jiaying have mixed feelings and couldn't help but shed tears. That night, the two had a relationship and have often had private meetings since then.
Because both parents did not want them to divorce, cao Jiaying and Yang Jiangang signed a divorce agreement, but did not go to the Civil Affairs Bureau to handle the real divorce procedures.
After Yang Jiangang calmed down, he regretted his impulsive decision and did not want to divorce. He felt that as long as his wife was not allowed to open the live broadcast again, the two could return to their former sweet life.
On July 23, after lunch, Cao Jiaying and Wenwen went shopping together in the mall. Yang Jiangang came to the rental house, dismantled the live broadcast equipment, put it in a box and took it away.
At 3:30 p.m., Wenwen and her mother went home and went to the neighbor's house to play. Cao Jiaying went back to her room and saw that it was a mess inside. The two argued: "Who allows you to touch my things?" ”
Cao Jiaying felt that her husband never knew how to respect herself, and she was so angry that she competed with him for live broadcast equipment.
At this moment, Yang Jiangang thought that his wife not only did explicit live broadcasting, but also did not go home several times at night, and in anger, he slapped his wife's face: "Are you still looking for a man on the Internet?" I'll kill you!" With that, he went to the kitchen and found a kitchen knife.
Cao Jiaying saw this scene and rushed out of the house, shouting "Help.". When the neighbors ran over, they found Cao Jiaying lying on the side of the stair corner platform on the second floor, and Yang Jiangang rode on her, crazy and slashed at her several times.
The neighbor next to him tried to stop him, and the crazy Yang Jiangang raised the kitchen knife in his hand and shouted, "Don't move, or I will kill you!" Then, he slashed several knives on Cao Jiaying's body until his wife was motionless.
After Cao Jiaying's death, Yang Jiangang sat next to her, first calling his mother-in-law and his father-in-law, and then dialing 110, waiting for the police to come.
On March 29, 2017, the Suining Intermediate People's Court considered that the case was caused by family conflicts, and Yang Jiangang voluntarily pleaded guilty after committing the crime, and pronounced his death sentence in the first instance, but could not be executed immediately.
After the verdict, Yang Jiangang appealed to the Sichuan Provincial High Court on the grounds that his wife had made a serious mistake and that he was in a rage at the time. On November 8, the second instance dismissed his appeal.
Since then, Cao Jiaying's eldest daughter Wenwen has been taken away and raised by Cao Jiaying's mother, while the younger daughter Pingping has lived with her grandparents. Unfortunately, the sisters will never see their parents again. (In order to protect the privacy of the parties, the names in the text are pseudonyms, the pictures are from the Network, and the pictures and texts are irrelevant)