Be yourself, even if it's not good, it doesn't matter, you are you, the unique you.
I like a sentence: everyone has a dark side, there is nothing strange about it, different attitudes towards different people, like to communicate, dislike on the strange road, do not understand, do not suspect, you are you, she is her, each has its own way.
It's like how you feel about a person and you think he's good, it's because he's interested in you, or what he's doing to make you happy, and the other person doesn't feel too good because he's not doing what the other person wants. It's like whenever someone praises me for being good, I often think, maybe it's not how good I am, but what I do, the kindness I give, the sincerity, they feel it, and they will give me the same kindness, not only that I am good, but that they are also very good. Because they are all mutual, if it is only one party, blindly paying, it will not last long.
Personality varies from person to person, does not advocate blind kindness, does not accept moral kidnapping, has a culture that does not harm people, and does not lack the ability to protect themselves. Be yourself well, make yourself happy, even if it is not very good, it does not matter, hard work is success.
A hundred people will have a hundred Hamlets, the crowd is difficult to reconcile, so why care about other people's opinions, always live in the eyes of others, you are you, the unique individual in this world, life, is to learn to live with many voices, there will be approval, there will be opposition, this is the most balanced state, so if you do not want to be left and right, affected by other voices, then try to be yourself, only become yourself, even if not very good, it does not matter.