Waiting for someone who doesn't love you is like waiting for a boat at the airport.
Backstage, fans often ask me: "Old Jiang, how can I know if he likes me or not?" ”
There is no answer to this kind of question, and only you know what a person does to you. Even if he loves you only a little, you can actually feel it. If you're never sure how he feels about you, he just doesn't like you.
When you love someone in particular, you will constantly make excuses for him, even if you know in your heart that he does not love you, but you do not want to admit it, this is the truth.
I especially love watching a movie called "He's Just Not That Into You", where every line is like a basin of cold water suddenly poured on your head, which can keep you awake.
I like this passage the most:
If a man really likes you, but he will never drag the mud and water, he will let you know immediately. He will not let you hang a heart, because he himself will be sure that you will not be discouraged by this and turn to another good person.
The adult world is supposed to be decisive and crisp. Not delaying anyone, not consuming anyone, not wasting anyone, it is a kind of kindness.
Xiaomei is a particularly insecure girl, as long as she is in love, she begins to become afflicted with gains and losses.
She wants to know where her boyfriend is and what he's doing, but the other person rarely tells her and hates her for asking too much.
Xiaomei wants her boyfriend to take the initiative to contact her, say miss her, and ask her out to dinner and watch movies, but every time she can't help but take the initiative to find a boyfriend.
In feelings, the person who loves the most is always the most reclusive.
Once, Xiaomei was sick and ran to the hospital alone to get some drip. The boyfriend didn't care about her, didn't accompany her, and blamed her for not taking good care of herself. She was particularly lost, as if she had been greatly wronged, and cried with me for a long time.
I asked her why she didn't break up, obviously this relationship has brought you a lot of unhappiness. Because of the gambling, she said, it was like an obsession.
However, is there really a need to persist in such feelings?
In fact, everyone understands the truth in love, many times, people who don't want to let go are just deceiving themselves, not because the other party loves themselves.
What should it be like to love someone?
It is I who want to declare that the whole world has taken you for itself.
It is reluctant for you to be anxious and flustered for him, and it will not make you blindly wait.
It's just that I want to keep in touch with you at all times, like I'm around each other.
It's just that I want to introduce you to friends and let everyone know that you exist.
Even if I only disappear for five minutes, I will let you know in advance.
Now who is not 24 hours with a mobile phone, every few minutes, will pick up to see, want to reply to your message of the person has already returned, if you have not received his reply for a long time, can only mean that he does not want to pay attention to you.
The person who really loves you will not let you live in "suspicion" every day, so that you can constantly speculate on his intentions.
He will make you feel your love for you, even if it is a look, an action, a word. No matter how introverted people are, in front of the people they like, they will have a lot to say.
He will give you a lot of firmness, make you have a lot of strength because of his presence, let you stop thinking wildly, so that you don't have to worry about him ignoring you, he doesn't love you anymore.
In fact, many girls in the relationship, there will be a few moments, feel that the other party does not pay attention to themselves, as if all the efforts have never been responded, want the answer, the other party has never given.
What I've always wondered is why someone is so cold in their relationship.
No matter how nice things others say to him and do more things, he is not moved, but if you think about it, it is because he does not love.
When a person loves you, there are a hundred ways to prove it, and the reason why a person ignores you is either because he doesn't want to ignore you or because he is ignoring others.
Don't leave any illusions for yourself, don't waste time on anyone, once you feel his indifference, don't cling to it anymore.
Life is short, why should you be wronged for someone who doesn't love you?
The person who truly loves you will not let you go to great lengths to find him – because he will take the initiative to send it to the door.
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Author: Jiang Classmate & Xin He, 97 years of sagittarius female, love to eat hot pot, I have wine, waiting for you to come to me nagging. Public number: Jiang classmate with a story (ID: meiya54264), please contact the background for reprinting.