Don't panic when you see the title, this time our party is not a real person, but a person in the play.
You don't have to worry about your idol collapsing again.
This article actually wanted to be written for a long time, but because of procrastination, it was delayed to the day of the finale.
Although according to the routine of domestic dramas, the protagonist will definitely be whitewashed.
But in my case, this kind of whitewashing is really too weak, so I still choose to spit it out.
Viewers who watched the TV series "Dear Little Child" can probably guess who I am talking about.
That's right, I want to say, is the heroine of this drama, Fang Yinuo.
The big finale of this drama is about to be ushered in, and in the two episodes before the finale, Fang Yinuo has actually been whitewashed.
Of course, for some people, perhaps Fang Yinuo has never been black.
However, most people's ideas about Fang Yinuo have long since been reversed.
When it first started, everyone had much sympathy for her, and how much they resented her later.
The unproductive husband, the unreliable mother-in-law, and the crotch-pulling relatives are the most hated problems for many married women in contemporary times.
And Fang Yinuo seems to have all the possessions, which is why everyone sympathizes with her so much at the beginning.
The wife was enduring the analgesia of giving birth, while the husband ran home to drink.
The daughter-in-law is giving birth, but the mother-in-law only cares about taking the granddaughter's placenta.
The sister-in-law is still confinement, but the little uncle runs to rub rice every day.
No matter how you look at it, Fang Yinuo is quite miserable.
At the beginning, there was no need for Fang Yinuo to lose his temper, and the audience scolded Fang Yinuo's in-laws on the hot search.
Even the male protagonist Qin Hao's wife, Yi Nengjing, helped the heroine to scold.
At the beginning, Fang Yinuo had a lot of passers-by without effort.
But who could have imagined that her debut would be the peak?
With the deepening of the plot, everyone found that Fang Yinuo made people more and more intolerable.
So, how did Fang Yinuo ruin the popularity of passers-by?
Just take a look at a few small things.
First, respect is mutual
The audience first discovered Fang Yinuo's problem during her confinement.
First of all, there is the problem between her and her husband Xiao Lu.
Fang Yinuo only takes maternity leave, xiaolu has to work every day, and often needs to work overtime.
In the play, Xiao Lu's work was not given a clear job title, because his work content was quite complicated.
Where there is activity, he is going to go.
Set the stage, coordinate customer relationships, and even act as a temporary lion dancer.
In order to win the order, overtime is a common thing, but also to open up health to accompany customers to drink.
In a word, this work is not easy.
So when the child is born, Xiao Lu's role as father and husband is how missing.
Because I am too tired during the day, I can't wake up at night, and I can hide from changing my child's diaper in the middle of the night.
In this way, the hat of widowhood parenting Xiao Lu can not be taken off.
At first, I saw that Xiao Lu was always reluctant to get up in the middle of the night to take the child, and when I saw that Fang Yinuo wanted to drink water, I couldn't move him, and I thought That Fang Yinuo was very pitiful.
Later, I saw that Fang Yinuo always lost his temper with Xiao Lu regardless of his disregard, and felt that Fang Yinuo was a bit unreasonable.
Raising children is indeed a very tiring thing, but it is not easy to go to work.
Take the case of Fang Yinuo and Xiao Lu, Fang Yinuo was on maternity leave at the time and did not have to go to work during the day.
Although the child is very noisy and she does not rest well, there are always times of the day when she can rest.
What's more, Fang Yinuo had never taken a child alone.
At the beginning, there was a sister-in-law, and after the sister-in-law ran away, there was a mother-in-law, and after the mother-in-law was driven away, there was a mother-in-law.
There was always someone who could help Fang Yinuo, she was very tired, but not without any rest time.
On the other hand, Xiao Lu, who works during the day, has to do physical work and often needs to fight for wine.
Only when he returns home at night can he rest well, so it is understandable that he cannot wake up in the middle of the night.
As a husband and father, Xiao Lu seems a little irresponsible to avoid taking children in the middle of the night, but as an office worker, he feels that he is also pitiful.
The reason why Fang Yinuo and Xiao Lu came to the point of divorce is actually very much related to Fang Yinuo's mentality.
In Fang Yinuo's eyes, taking the child herself seems to be a very bad thing, so as long as she wants Xiao Lu to help and Xiao Lu does not do it, she will lose her temper.
She wouldn't think about why Xiao Lu was so sleepy at night, she would only think that he didn't want to help her if he didn't help the child change diapers.
Perhaps Fang Yinuo herself did not find that she always had a condescending attitude towards her husband and in-laws.
So when she saw her mother training her mother-in-law, husband, and uncle as grandchildren, she didn't react at all.
And when the little uncle wants to stand up for the mother-in-law, he helps the mother to suppress the mother-in-law and the little uncle together.
Fang Yinuo forgot that respect is mutual, she only cares about showing her strength, but forgets that she is facing people with flesh and blood and emotions.
Xiao Lu has done a good job in other aspects except for some slack in taking children, but she is not appreciative.
The mother-in-law whispered in front of her daughter-in-law and relatives, and she turned a blind eye.
The little uncle did not want to be soft in front of them, and she immediately became angry.
She took it for granted that she treated her parents and in-laws' double-standard attitude.
Conniving at his mother to bully his mother-in-law, it is strange that there is no problem in marriage.
The second thing is always to be a rule breaker
Fang Yinuo's profession in the play is a teacher, a profession for being a teacher, and it is even more necessary to be a good example.
However, Fang Yinuo in the play always wants to be a rule breaker.
The child had jaundice and needed to be hospitalized, and she argued with the nurse that the visit was too short and delusional that the nurse would give her special care.
With the child vaccinated, two more people came to her, and she had to cut in line.
That's all, the most intolerable thing is her attitude towards the director of the bone marrow bank and the donor.
The person who donated bone marrow to Hehe repented, and she broke into the bone marrow bank and asked the director to break the law to tell her the donor's information.
The director did not agree, so she went to follow the director and his family.
After learning that the other party was an elderly mother and refused because she was preparing to become pregnant, Fang Yinuo still wanted to contact the other party.
When seeing this plot, many viewers had a strong dislike for Fang Yinuo.
It was understandable that she wanted to save her own children, but what right did she have to let others sacrifice their career prospects and their own children to save her children?
The third thing is to hurt everyone in order to have children
After the donor repented, the doctor told Fang Yinuo that there was a 50% chance of saving her if he had another child with Hehe's biological father.
If Fang Yinuo and Xiao Lu were both single, this would not be a problem at all.
Even if the two have no feelings, it is completely understandable to save the child.
But the problem is that Fang Yinuo and Xiao Lu have both remarried.
For the sake of Hehe, Fang Yinuo's current husband Xie Tianhua has not had children of his own.
But now Fang Yinuo told him that she was going to have a baby with her ex-husband.
Why did this make Xie Tianhua feel bad?
Why is Xiao Lu's current wife, Dong Fan, embarrassed?
How can it be embarrassing for the child who was born with the task?
Obviously, continuing to find a suitable bone marrow donor is the best way to save Hehe.
But Fang Yinuo was like a demon, putting all his hopes on blindly having children.
It takes time to wait until the right bone marrow donor is available, but does it take time to have a baby?
Not counting the previous preparations, it basically takes 9 months from pregnancy to childbirth.
If you are afraid that Hehe's body will not be able to wait for the donor, then in the 9 months of giving birth to a child, Hehe will definitely wait?
Not to mention that even if Hehe waits, the child may not be able to help after birth.
When the time comes, what is she going to do with the child?
When the time comes, how is she going to save Hehe?
Normal logic, isn't it that when you are worried that Hehe can't wait for donors, you should find a way to find more donors?
Is it not much more effective to let more people participate in bone marrow donation and increase the chance of hehe matching than blindly having children?
For the sake of a child who may not be able to help and is born as a tool to hurt everyone, but is not willing to work for a more effective way.
Is this IQ arrears, or is the purpose impure?
The fourth thing, Fang Yinuo never truly loved his child
Seeing that Fang Yinuo disregarded ethics and morality and wanted to have children with the married Xiao Lu, some people also praised Fang Yinuo as a good mother and willing to give everything for the sake of the child.
But think about it, is Fang Yinuo really worthy of the title of "good mother"?
A truly good mother should first put everything first in the child's feelings.
At this point, Fang Yinuo had never done it.
That is to say, Fang Yinuo never truly loved his children.
But if she can think about it for her children, she will not deprive Hehe of her right to enjoy the love of her father.
It wasn't until Hehe called out to the stranger for her father that she began to think about it.
Unfortunately, after considering it, she still chose to continue to deprive Hehe of his father's love, and also let Xie Tianhua, a great wronged seed, be a father.
Even if Xie Tianhua was willing, it could not change the fact that Fang Yinuo used Xie Tianhua to deceive Hehe.
After Hehe fell ill, Fang Yinuo's approach was even more speechless.
She knew that Xie Tianhua could not stand idly by, but she insisted on refusing Xiao Lu's medical expenses, causing Xie Tianhua and his family to go around collecting money for her.
When she divorced, she put her feelings above her daughter's.
When her daughter was sick, she put her feelings above her daughter's life.
Such a Fang Yinuo, where is it worthy of the title of good mother?
That is to say, there are spare tires like Xie Tianhua in the play who are willing to kneel and lick, and in reality, a woman like Fang Yinuo cannot be happy with anyone, and even if the child is not sick, the mentality of following her is not normal.
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Author: Qian Xiaodao
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