For marriage, many people are well aware of a truth, that is, without money, life will really only be very sad.
When each other is always worried about three meals a day, because of housing problems, because of survival worries, not to mention romance, I am afraid that, unconsciously, will give birth to a lot of complaints, and a lot of regret.
You will feel that it is because of the other party that you will work so hard, and you will think that if you change someone, you will definitely be able to live a better life.
Too poor, marriage will really only be very fragile, very unhappy.
In this regard, some people may say that if you have money, you can definitely solve all problems and make each other happy.
When there is no money, we feel that money can solve all problems and is a guarantee of happiness, but in real life, many people, even if they are very rich, do not have the kind of happiness they imagined.
Many rich people's marriages are actually not happy, there will be no money, there will be no money, and there will be rich troubles when there is money.
If you have money, it is easy not to take the other party seriously.
The reason why a person will be rich, most of the time, is often because he is quite capable.
Have good strength, in terms of personality, will also be more independent, more ideas.
In this case, after entering the marriage, when we have a good material foundation and are quite rich, then we are really likely to compare ourselves, and many times, we can't listen to each other and care too much about each other.
There will always be a tendency to care more about their own feelings, and they will always be less concerned about their other half.
When we have better conditions than each other, we are easy to do so, because the conditions are superior, which will make us feel that in this relationship, we have more say, and the other party should listen to themselves.
Even if we and each other are on the same page, we are still very easy to do so, because at that time, we will not feel that we are inferior to each other, and we must listen to each other and let each other go.
In this way, we don't care too much about each other, and the relationship between each other will naturally not be much better.
Two people form a family, even if for the sake of interests, each other must be tied together, but each other may not be willing to treat each other well, and when each other can not cherish well, the feelings will naturally not be harmonious.
With capital, there is no fear of emotional breakdown at all.
We are all well aware of the fact that the current divorce rate is really particularly high.
The reason for this situation is actually not so complicated, but it is that the current men and the current women are relatively independent and can support themselves without having to rely on others.
Since no matter who leaves whom, they can live well, then, if they can live, they can live, and they are too lazy to force it.
When many people have the courage to end a relationship and choose to end it, it will really only be particularly easy and will not think so much.
Marriage is the same, two people who enter the marriage, whether one person is quite rich, or each other is quite rich, in this case, there will always be people who feel that even if it is over with each other, it is not a big deal.
With this kind of thinking, since there is no worry about the marriage relationship can not survive, may end, then in the relationship really will not be so patient, and will not always cherish each other, will only be quite stubborn.
If you are happier together, then continue to be together, and if you always add to your own blockage, then you are too lazy to take care of it.
Although there is material as the basis, there will be less respect and piety for marriage, no reverence, and money, but there will always be some lack of bondage, and it is always easy to have problems.
When you have money, you may not want to be bound by marriage.
There are too many examples of a person who marries when he is poor, and then has money, but begins to betray the marriage and choose a new person.
Why is this so, because when you are poor, there is no choice at all, you can have someone to marry yourself, you will feel very satisfied, and when you have money and more ability, you will really become more selective.
It really is that for rich people, many people are really not so religious about marriage.
Too many temptations from the outside world, and our own inner desire to move, will make us always want to have more, always want to meet some freshness, and always want to be able to maintain a relatively open attitude towards marriage.
Although not all rich people are like this, many rich people will really have their own money, and then at the same time as they have a family, they are still messing around outside, there are people in the family, and there are also people outside.
Even if many people betray their marriages, the other half is just helpless for some time, turning a blind eye.
It is not that it is really possible to tolerate such behavior, but after weighing it, it will still be reluctant or will want to maintain the stability of the moment.
Human nature, that has always been more complicated, once they have certain conditions, many people really do not know how to restrain their behavior, but also always hope that their other half can accept their infidelity, whether they accept it or not, they have no remorse.
In life, people who are happily married are never just a minority.
That requires a certain material foundation, but also needs to have good character with each other, the three views are very positive, and they can also understand how to get along.
But in a marriage, each other is just very poor, each other simply can not be loyal, can not be considerate of each other, mutual accommodation, after marriage to cherish this relationship, and get along well with each other, this marriage, will not be much happiness.
A happy marriage, which occurs between two people of higher character, between two wise men.
Unfortunately, many people do not have that kind of cognition, nor do they have that kind of wisdom.
The fact is often that people who have no money will jump because of chai rice oil and salt, and people who have money will pay a price because of their arrogance, it is difficult to get a true heart, and it is difficult to keep their original heart.
Everything, that seems to be the other party's problem, many times, the root is actually still in their own.
Text/Tan Meng
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