In all love, we aim to gain each other's true heart. For, only in the face of true love can all difficulties and obstacles be overcome.
So, how do you tell if a person really loves you? It's actually quite simple.
In the hearts of men and women, once they regard each other as their other half, they will silently show their affection in the details.
Perhaps, on the surface, he will never say something vigorous to you, but he will make you feel the satisfaction of being loved little by little.
So, when in love, observe these small things, these small things testify to whether a person really loves you.
First, see if he will respect you and hurt you
The essence of love is to make the human body happy.
If one day, the object of your love not only does not bring you pleasure, but often makes you work for him, then such love is nothing less than a burden.
Someone seems to be in love with you on the surface, but in fact all he needs is a babysitter.
He will not care about any of your needs, but when he needs them, you must meet them, otherwise he will be rejected and even scolded.
A partner who does not know how to respect you will often ask you to do housework in life, and as long as you express your unwillingness, he will immediately tell you:
"Isn't that what you should do?" Can't even do this well, what's the difference between you and the waste? ”
These words of aggression will not come out of the mouth of the person who loves you. The man who always calls you, he doesn't like you just because he lacks a nanny and wants to enslave you in life.
Someone who doesn't respect you verbally, even if you love him, don't be with him. Because, in the future life, he will not only not hurt you, but will squeeze you again and again.
For him, you are not a lover, but a dispensable servant, and he will not treat you with sincerity.
See if he will reap the benefits and benefits from you
I have to say that some people are in love with you on the surface, but in fact they just want to profit from you.
This is the case with the boyfriend of colleague Kobayashi. Kobayashi's family is well-off, has excellent academic qualifications, and looks particularly beautiful.
On the other hand, the boyfriend, ordinary, the salary is also very low. However, Kobayashi has never abandoned her boyfriend and still pays her heart to be with him.
However, when in love, the boyfriend seems to just use Kobayashi as a capital to show off, desperately calling Kobayashi in front of his friends, enjoying the envious eyes of the people around him.
Not only that, he always asked Kobayashi for money to spend, properly treating Kobayashi as an ATM, and once Kobayashi rejected him, he would immediately be subjected to cold violence.
People who truly love you always want to give you the best, not only are they reluctant to spend your money, but they also try to show the best in front of you.
Some people may say that being together should be honest with yourself, not hidden. However, people who only benefit from you are not honest, but extremely selfish.
There is only one thing in his mind, and that is what kind of benefits it will bring to him by associating with you.
So, if your partner is always asking for money and squeezing all your value, you don't have to be with him because he didn't take you to heart.
Third, see if he is willing to spend money on you
In fact, to judge a person's sincerity is very simple, it depends on whether he is willing to give material to you.
In the eyes of the vast majority of people, people who think that too material cannot find true love, but you must understand that if your partner is not willing to spend a penny for you, then your efforts are adrift.
Although the touch of details is important, the most basic thing is still to see if he will be generous to you.
Eating an expensive meal or traveling does not mean that he is generous to you, because his high consumption is also satisfying himself.
If this person has completely put you in his heart, he will willingly give you gifts, always want to give you interesting things when he sees them, and is willing to take the initiative to give you money to spend.
And people who are not willing to spend a penny on you, and even desperately try to make excuses for themselves, in fact, do not regard you as their own.
Because he has two hearts, he is reluctant to spend money on you, and only wants to deceive your sincerity with rhetoric.
Conclusion:
Good love is visible to the naked eye, whether a person loves you or not, his eyes cannot lie.
If you always think that it is love because of the sweetness of your words, then I am afraid that you can only be sad.
The details will prove love, and it can also defeat love.
When you meet the person who treats you sincerely, you will understand that love is so beautiful, and there is one more person in the world to understand yourself and be considerate of yourself.
The hypocritical person is not qualified, he will not be patient with you, nor will he be willing to share the excess energy with you.
Even, when we are together, we don't want to pay for money at every moment, only want to ask for it unilaterally.
So you have to understand that the person who exposes these behaviors in love, he does not love you, don't cling to it.