Lately potatoes have been crying a lot,
Anything could make him shed tears.
Talked to him for a long time,
I know that behind all this,
It is a child's thinking and fear of the fact that "people can die at any time".
I talked to you about this topic last weekend.
Many mothers in the message area said,
My own baby has a similar problem.
I've seen a sentence before,
In this life, there is no major event outside of life and death,
Since Eva began to pay attention to this topic,
In fact, it is also a good opportunity,
The more you know about "life" and "death," the less fear you will have.
It just so happens that I drew a related comic before.
I hope to give you some inspiration and reference.
P.S. Unfortunately, it was not dated later
Every time I went for a walk in the cemetery in Germany, my mother refused to go in, preferring to stand outside the small iron gate and wait for us to finish our steps, rather than go in and sit on a chair just across the door.
She didn't know what she was afraid of. Afraid of ghosts? Foreign ghosts don't know you! Wait, where are the ghosts in the world.
She has an insurmountable psychological fear.
When I was a child, I was also afraid all the way, and now, I don't want my children to continue this fear.
(Potato is still young, and the more he tells him that there is no ghost, the more he feels that there is, and then the more afraid he is)
Finally, I would like to remind you that in the process of raising a baby, many things are not achieved overnight, and death education is also the same.
Maybe Wa feels not afraid and doubtful at the moment, but when she encounters some opportunities (such as the current situation of potatoes, the depression of being in control, the trauma caused by the 321 air disaster, all of which make him start to fear again), the fear of death will still retake his heart.
After all, this is the ultimate task for our humanity.
However, this does not mean that what we have done before is useless, every effort is the accumulation of positive forces, and in the end, the baby will not only know what death is, but also know how precious "life" is.
It's a sum of money you can't buy, a huge fortune.
Hello, I am Li Diandian, 5-year-old daughter tomato, 9-year-old son potato ma ma, good at using comics and text to record the daily life of the second child chicken flying dog jump, sharing hard-core learning resources and reliable, in-depth parenting dry goods.