Many children go to kindergarten for the first time, cry and go to school, leave their parents for the first time to go to a collective life, and meet many strangers, which is very frightening for some children.
But there are some bear children who are different, can live anywhere, and can adapt quickly.
For parents, sending their children to kindergarten is a temporary relief, getting a small part of their free time, and the children are placed in the kindergarten to be watched by a teacher, which is naturally very reassuring.
But in fact, kindergarten is also a "small society", there will be various types of children, they all have different personalities, living in such a big environment, there will inevitably be quarrels and contradictions.
In a documentary "Kindergarten" with a Douban score of 8.8, these contradictions are vividly expressed, among which there are several types of children who are most likely to be bullied
1. Children with few introverts
There is always a phenomenon in kindergartens, where cheerful children are always surrounded by a group of friends, chattering, talking and laughing. For the kind of children who have few introverted words, they will provoke and even bully, at this time, introverted children are silent and do not resist, and naturally become the object of children's bullying.
2. Timid and cowardly children
Some children are born with small courage, and it is easy to withdraw or give up when encountering difficulties or setbacks, and this type of child is also an object that is easy to be bullied in kindergarten, because they are timid and dare not tell teachers or parents when they are bullied. This encourages the arrogance of those bullies and makes them more unscrupulous.
3, honest and generous children
Honest and thick in my opinion is more like a derogatory term, too honest will be teased by those shrewd children, children's hearts are actually not bad, many times just too naughty like to tease people, bully people. A child like that may suffer losses in his usual study and life, and dare not say anything.
4. Children with insufficient ability
Incompetence deficiencies include many aspects: the ability to learn, the ability to survive, and the ability to interpersonal relationships.
Some children with strong learning ability will not look down on some children with weak learning ability. In life, some children cannot independently deal with some simple problems in life, such as going to the toilet by themselves, eating by themselves, etc., and will be discriminated against by children. There is also a child who cannot handle interpersonal relationships well, and there will be problems such as no children willing to play with him and being isolated by children.
Parents do not want their children to be bullied, and they all hope that their children can go to school well and grow up healthily. Then parents should cultivate these 4 abilities of their children as soon as possible.
First, cultivate children's communication skills
When the child is young, parents should take the child out to see more, take the child to see the outside world, see all kinds of people, and teach the child how to make friends with children of the same age.
Cousin's daughter Duoduo is a little girl who is very good at making friends, in the kindergarten a lot of children are playing with her, when other children encounter difficulties, Duoduo will take the initiative to do their best to help him solve the problem, usually Duoduo is also a very enthusiastic and generous girl, so she made a lot of friends in kindergarten. It can be seen that it is very important to cultivate children's communication skills.
Second, cultivate children's good habits
Cultivate children's reading habits and exercise habits as soon as possible, children can combine work and leisure, and can do exercises when they are tired of reading and reading, such as running, jumping and jumping. Such children have been cultivated from an early age to read and exercise good habits, and they have already won one step ahead of their peers.
Third, cultivate children's ability to be autonomous
Before sending your child to kindergarten, teach your child some simple life skills so that you can do something on your own. For example, let him go to the toilet by himself or simply fold a small quilt, etc., master some simple life skills, so that children are more independent.
Fourth, cultivate children's ability to know how to refuse
Many children do not know how to refuse when they are young, and they do not know how to refuse when others make some unreasonable demands and many things they do not want to do, resulting in a lot of losses. Parents should cultivate their ability to refuse, tell them that there is nothing to be embarrassed about rejecting, and they can refuse if they don't want to do it!
Helping children develop good habits and cultivate high emotional intelligence as soon as possible is not only helpful for children in kindergarten, but also plays a role in the development of children's later life.