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Aunt Sue, 58, is very fashionable in the community, and is a relatively good retired aunt among her peers. Usually, Aunt Su likes to go to the square or the park without anything to do, dance with others, fight boxing, and the day will pass.
Aunt Sue is a retired woman who has been widowed for many years, and there have always been people around her who want to live with her. Especially in recent years, it is popular for the elderly to live together, and Aunt Su is always surrounded by elderly men.
At the beginning, Aunt Su felt that it was very difficult for her to raise her son alone, and then look for it, and no one else would be willing to pay for other people's sons to study, and then help them start a family.
Since Aunt Su bought a house for her son and got married, Aunt Su also wanted to understand that her monthly pension of more than 4,000 yuan is only enough for her own expenses, if there is a disease and a disaster in the future, the savings in her hands are spent on her son, but what can I do?
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Aunt Su's friend persuaded her that you have such good conditions yourself, and the old men with high pensions around you want to live with you, why don't you find an old man who partners with you, so that someone raises you, and gives you some pocket money from time to time.
Aunt Su also saw a lot of blind date programs on the Internet, and saw that many older old men hoped to find a woman with eyes to spend the rest of their lives together.
Aunt Sue groomed herself a little and attended the elderly fraternity party held in the city, hoping that she would meet the good people for the rest of her life.
The 70-year-old Uncle Zhang has been widowed for more than 2 years, and now he lives in a three-bedroom house, and he has always wanted to find a young woman with eyes as a companion.
Uncle Zhang took a fancy to Aunt Su at a glance at the fraternity meeting, he used to be the chairman of the trade union in the unit, and he still had a set of methods for chatting with people.
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Soon Uncle Zhang chatted with Aunt Su very happily and happily, and naturally added Micro Signals to each other, after a period of getting along, Uncle Zhang and Aunt Su put forward the idea of partnering up for the rest of their lives.
Aunt Su felt that during this time, Uncle Zhang behaved well for herself, often driving an environmental protection old scooter to her home, either buying vegetables and cooking, or taking herself to the park or shopping mall to consume.
Aunt Su seems to have returned to the feeling of the love period, and she feels that although she is very satisfied, she still has to explain and explain the various things after the partnership in advance.
Uncle Zhang has a house, a car and a good pension, his only son has long been married and has children, and the elderly are gone. Uncle Zhang himself is also a cultured person, who talks elegantly and funnyly, is also diligent and fast, and listens to his words.
Uncle Zhang thinks that Aunt Su is young and good-looking, and she is also stable in her work, she is an elegant and warm woman, which is the type he likes, as long as Aunt Su is willing, Uncle Zhang is eager to move in with Aunt Su as soon as possible.
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Aunt Su said to Uncle Zhang, we are all this age, get a license to remarry, and it is good to spend the rest of your life together.
But the partnership is also the same as marriage and family, I want to live with you, you are a man, do you also have to be like the man in the marriage, give your income to me to manage?
Uncle Zhang told Aunt Su that I have a monthly pension of more than 7,000 yuan, give you 5,000 yuan for our living purposes, and the rest I will keep as my own pocket money, as for my savings, I think it is better for me to keep it myself.
Uncle Zhang felt that he had made a big concession by doing so, and Aunt Su would happily accept it. Who knows, Aunt Su said, since it is a partner to live a life, just like the couple in the usual marriage, you do not give me the pension, I feel insecure, and even feel that I am a nanny in your house and not a hostess.
Uncle Zhang said that when I lived with my former wife, I was also a large part of the salary, and I wanted to have some pocket money left, buy a good tea, eat a meal with my old buddies, drink tea, and I can't always ask you for money every time.
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Aunt Su feels that she is 12 years younger than Uncle Zhang, belongs to the little daughter-in-law, and is also good-looking and beautiful, so many people are dedicated to themselves, Uncle Zhang does not treat himself as a treasure to offer, only gives himself living expenses, how to feel is not true.
Aunt Su said, then let's consider each other again, and live together and postpone it later.
Uncle Zhang was also a little angry at this time, thinking that Aunt Su really had no fear, looking good on herself, and wanted to manage men's economy, how could this be possible?
Uncle Zhang feels that they are people who have experienced the polishing of life, who does not know who has that little flower intestine in their hearts? In his heart, he felt that Aunt Su's requirements were too much, even the original wife could not control the man's economy in this way!
After Uncle Zhang returned, he no longer contacted Aunt Su, and Aunt Su went on a blind date with the other old men.
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Aunt Su felt that she had good conditions and could speak well, and every blind date could satisfy the other party, and her self-confidence gradually improved a lot.
After Aunt Su came into contact with 7 old people before and after, she summed up a rule: two people together, do not mention the matter of pension custody, the old man will say that he is more capable than one, as long as Aunt Su proposes to keep the old man's pension salary card after the partnership, they will run faster than one another.
Aunt Su is particularly sad about this, and can't understand, whose husband and wife live their lives, is not all women keeping the family's financial power? If a woman can't control the finances of the family, who wants to worry about the housework and dress for the man?
Aunt Sue felt that the old man today was much more shrewd than when he was younger, and it was no longer the feeling he had when he was with his wife.
Aunt Su remembered that after she had just finished getting a certificate with her wife, her wife handed her the salary passbook, and said that everything about herself was Aunt Su's, and Aunt Su at that time felt that this was what a man should look like after marriage.
But now, looking for a wife, men are very good without mentioning money, very gentlemanly and elegant, but also diligent and capable, as long as they mention money is the same as asking for men's lives, they will find various reasons to slip away.
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<h1 class="pgc-h-arrow-right" data-track="53" >why why do men care so much about women taking charge of their own economic power when they are looking for a wife to partner now? </h1>
The first is that men also came from their youth, and have also experienced the tempering of marriage and family, knowing that the lack of money in men's hands is a symbol of facelessness and no family status and power. Therefore, after men are single, they are only willing to pay the corresponding part of themselves, and the rest of them feel that it is not their responsibility and obligation.
Secondly, some men have been so sincere that they want to find an old companion, live the rest of their lives together, how to live with the days, the days can not stand the polishing of the years, they gave their money to the partner women, only to find that their money was taken by the woman to raise other people's children, or their own money was cheated by the woman, the woman disappeared, which made the man feel that only by controlling the economy in his hands could women live with themselves at ease.
Finally, since it is the elderly partner to live together, each other still have to have a certain emotional basis, if only to find someone to take care of themselves or only to find someone to support themselves, then even if the partnership transaction is successful, there will be a day of separation, each other without emotional companionship, it is better to live their own lives.
Therefore, after comprehensive consideration, men will think that as long as the woman who proposes to be in charge of the salary when he is accompanied by a partner, even if he has an eye rim, no matter how good-looking, and no matter how capable he is, he cannot want it, for fear that he has chosen the wrong choice, he will regret half his life.
In fact, when people are old and looking for a wife to accompany each other, they must be accompanied by each other sincerely, they can talk, and it is best to be able to look at each other and not tire of each other, otherwise, the same partnership as the transaction will eventually be a mess of chicken feathers.