When the waves are calmed by the goodbye, all the past will turn into clouds, steaming and dispersing, and passing with the wind.
I think that love is not the result of doing as you please, but with joy, with unremitting pursuit, and then through the examination of time to be born. How to expect, seven years in love, get up in the morning and still talk about love - a man has been cheating for half a year, and the object of the cheating is still a good girlfriend of the girlfriend. "33 Days of Lost Love" brings us such an embarrassing but true story.
Life is like a journey, the ups and downs are inevitable, but when you hit such a huge blow, what will happen to you? Is it to let go of self-esteem and ask for forgiveness, expecting the same? Or a hundred, each one well? Huang Xiaoxian in the film, an ordinary woman who is strong on the outside, but in fact, extremely fragile in heart. At the beginning of living in her own world, she did not integrate into the surrounding working environment, which made her look at the colleagues around her more or less strange, and made a full preparation for the loneliness in the early stage of her lovelorn.
The loss of love is like a thunderbolt on a sunny day, which instantly takes away the light of her entire world, in this big city with dim lights but cold and cold, she has no one to talk about, only she herself bears emotional pain and heartache. In the days after the loss of love, she was muddy and unable to work. Fortunately, the boss with the majesty of the outside and the delicate heart helped her adjust her mentality, and gradually, she found that there were many things around her that she had not noticed before. In the end, the partner who she thought was mean, picky, and shady before she fell out of love helped her completely step out of the past and become the one who was willing to accompany her all the time.
When frustrated, and adjust their mentality, slowly, the car will drive past, although the length of this time can not be determined, the next stop, may be a clear sky.
The plot of the film is arranged very completely, corresponding to the name of the film, from the helplessness of lovelorn, and then the adjustment of the transition day by day, to the thirty-third night to find the person who is more suitable for him. In the film, Huang Xiaoxian regretted his previous meanness to his ex-boyfriend, and the clip of chasing his ex-boyfriend Lu Ran on the road made me particularly moved. Every sentence lingered in my mind, "Forgive me, the road ahead is too sinister, I have now found that in this life, only you are the partner who gives me the most security, I don't want my self-esteem that is shattered in one hit, I don't want my empty confidence, I want you to see, how humble I am now... ”。
The background music, the scenes, and the inner screams are really matched with the words that are too wonderful to describe, and they are very successful in bringing the audience into this sad plot. At this moment, I was also thinking that the taxi could stop and then they would be together again. Fortunately, a slap from Wang Xiaoxian woke up Huang Xiaoxian, and also woke up all the audiences in reality who had the same idea as Huang Xiaoxian.
Let everyone understand the incomparably harsh but precise words that Yusenaar said, "There is nothing dirtier in the world than self-esteem." But also realize that "even if you are dirty, you will need this self-esteem for the rest of your life." Although Huang Xiaoxian's consistent meanness is something wrong, but after all, it is seven years, the whole seven years of feelings, the relationship between the two has a unilateral rift, the party Lu Ran did not bring it up early, it is a big mistake, even if you want to go forward, really can't stick to it, then you should confess in advance, rather than concealing Xiaoxian to develop another relationship, the object of choice is really ironic.
It doesn't matter who Lu Ran and Xiao Xian's girlfriend "look at" first, the key is that this is a relationship that should not have occurred. The girlfriend is really a person with a deep heart, and it is really a little frightening to be able to hide the love affair for half a year under the eyelids. The ancients cloud "friend wife, do not cheat", in turn, this friend husband can come randomly? No rules, no squares, no squares, this is always true. We must also not lose our minds in terms of feelings, but we must adhere to the bottom line of morality and do not do things that hurt others and feel guilty ourselves.
The film shows us to a great extent the possible lovelorn plot of life and two different ways of falling in love, - a complex spiritual level of love, - a simple material aspect of maintenance. The two ways in the film really correspond to the choices of people of different grades, but it still reminds us that the love that is spiritually sincere, materially independent, and equal in status is the most touching and long-lasting happy love. Lost love is not terrible, only when we experience the pain of lost love, we will better understand the preciousness of love.
Real things tend to be more likely to grab the attention of the audience, who wants to know how the protagonists deal with such situations in the film. There is a very short link in the film, which is more noticeable precisely because it jumps through. When Huang Xiaoxian and her colleagues were gathering, she received a call from a customer, and a colleague helped her mute her mobile phone, which helped her press it to hands-free... The real situation in the film is also not clearly explained, but what is less known is the intrigue in the workplace, two sides and three knives. The emergence of such "unexpected" things is also something we should think about rationally
Among them, the processing of the lens is also very exquisite, in which the use of a large number of montage techniques and the transformation and connection of the picture, the use of small props, and the virtual reality of the character mirror are all remarkable.
There are two flashbacks in the film, which allow us to interpret the answer with doubts, and after finding the answer, it gives people a feeling of sudden enlightenment, which psychologically increases the audience's interest. After watching the whole film, I had a lot of problems, related to personality, love, morality, desire, but in the end, I laughed, and all the doubts were gone, because everyone would have these problems, but the actual evolution of the situation was different, and it was naturally very different to deal with. On the long-distance train of life, as long as we are full of enthusiasm and remain rational, we will always arrive at a place where spring blossoms, seize the opportunity, get off the train and smile.
"33 Days of Lost Love" This film captures the theme that can resonate with the young generation, although the film on this theme is aimed at a wide range of young audiences, but director Teng Huatao does not limit it to this range, the film interpolates the emotional story of an old couple, with this love story, reflecting the common points of people's emotional experiences of people of all ages in real life. The arrangement of some scenes in the film is also set up more advanced and prominent, and even if you look at it now, there will not be any generation gap. On August 18, 2018, this film was named one of the top ten Chinese films on the 40th anniversary of reform and opening up.
What about lost love? And go with the wind, forget all the unpleasantness, the next stop, it is sunny.