In the entertainment industry, many stars have their own children, and some children have also chosen to enter the entertainment industry and become the second generation of stars.
However, not all the second generation of stars can inherit the glorious career of their parents, and some are even labeled as "stained" and cannot get rid of the influence of their parents.
So, as a celebrity parent, how should you treat your children? Should they try their best to help them gain a foothold in the entertainment industry, or should they be allowed to wander on their own, no matter what career and life they choose?
At this point, the sketch queen Cai Ming has something to say.
Cai Ming is a very talented and charismatic actress who has been performing on stage since she was a child, winning the love of countless audiences.
She excels at playing a variety of roles, whether funny or touching, which can be impressive. She is also a frequent guest at the Spring Festival Gala and brings wonderful sketch shows every year.
But behind her illustrious career, there is an untold secret: she has a son, and this son is 34 years old.
This son is Tintin.
He is the crystallization of the love between Cai Ming and director Ding Qiuxing.
He has been very smart and cute since he was a child, and he looks very much like Cai Ming. But soon after he was born, Cai Ming made a surprising decision: she wanted to hide her son.
Why? Didn't she like her son? Of course not.
Cai Ming has a deep love for her son, but she also has her own considerations.
As a public figure, Cai Ming knows that his fame may bring a lot of unnecessary trouble and pressure to his son.
She doesn't want her son to live in her shadow all the time, nor does she want her son to be disturbed and influenced by the outside world. She hopes that her son can have his own life and choose what he likes.
Therefore, she discussed with Ding Qiuxing not to announce the news of their marriage and childbirth. Nor does she mention her son's existence in public. She won't even let her son participate in her own shows or events.
She will only spend as much time as possible with her son in private and give him enough love and care.
Although this approach made Cai Ming and Ding Qiuxing sacrifice a lot, it created a free and peaceful growth environment for their son.
The son is also very sensible, and since he was a child, he knows that his identity cannot be disclosed casually, and he will not be arrogant or inferior because his parents are stars.
He is just an ordinary child with his own dreams and pursuits.
Cai Ming's way of educating his son is also very special. She will not force her son to learn or do anything, nor will she arrange anything for his son. She will only give her son some guidance and warning on some major issues of right and wrong, and let his son decide and bear the rest by himself.
She believes that her son has his own judgment and ability, and he can find a career and life that he really likes and is suitable for through his own efforts and attempts. She will not blame or interfere with her son's choices and results, she will only give her son the strongest support and encouragement.
This kind of free-range education gives the son more freedom and space, and also gives the son more responsibility and courage. The son did not live up to Cai Ming's expectations, and he proved himself with his strength.
The son has had a strong interest in literature and film since he was a child, he likes to write and create. He once wanted to study law, but then found that he did not like the profession and decisively gave up.
He did not choose to enter the entertainment industry because his parents were directors and actors, but became an excellent screenwriter with his talent and hard work.
He participated in the screenwriting of many high-grossing films such as "Thai".
His works are humorous and witty, without losing depth and connotation, and have been well received by audiences and industry insiders.
Nor was he proud or ostentatious about his success, and he kept a low profile and humility.
He also did not use her fame or connections because he was Cai Ming's son, and he has been relying on his own strength. He is an independent and individual person with his own style and voice.
Now, she is making this secret public because she feels that her son has grown up, has his own career and reputation, and no longer needs to hide his identity.
She also hopes that everyone can recognize her son's talent and efforts, rather than prejudice or misunderstanding because he is Cai Ming's son.
She is very proud and happy for her son, who is her greatest happiness and wealth. She also thanked Ding Qiuxing for her support and understanding all the time, they are a happy family.
Similarly, as Cai Ming's son, he said that he loved his mother and admired her.
She was his best friend and his best teacher. She taught him a lot and gave him a lot of encouragement and support.
From the story of Cai Ming and Tintin, we can see the true portrayal of a tiger mother without a dog.
Although Cai Ming did not push her son to the stage or arrange various resources and opportunities for her son like some star parents, she used her own way to cultivate a talented, personality and responsible son.
She did not regard her son as her appendage or continuation, but as an independent individual and equal partner. Instead of imposing her will and expectations on her son, she respects his choices and results.
Such an education method may not meet the traditional concepts and expectations of some people, but it is in line with the development and trend of the times.
In this competitive and diverse society, children need to have more autonomy and creativity, more responsibility and courage.
Only in this way will they be able to adapt to the changing environment and find a career and life that they really like and are suitable for. #娱乐影视大赏#